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shykitty1 -> why is it (4/22/2008 1:25:29 PM)

Can anyone answer this.

Why is it when someone has that they are a slave in thier profile, everyone thinks that you must automatically submit to them, and its wrong for you to "shop around".





SteelofUtah -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 1:29:35 PM)

Because those types of Doms know that if you shop around. Even on the Bottom shelf Dom's you'll find something better and they are aware of thier own shortcomings.

You will learn that the behavior is common among LongDongDom's who want you to believe thier every word without question.

Ignore, Block, Delete.  (God Damnit Now they got ME saying it)

Steel




KatyLied -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 1:31:25 PM)

If you choose to identify as a slave you will need to accept that some dominants feel that property has no right to choose anything.




OmegaG -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 1:37:59 PM)

because they are hoping that you are the sucker that will believe.




kinkypuppy2 -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 3:05:19 PM)

Because to many "Doms" are just wannabes and have no clue what submission to another is.




mastervalentine -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 4:03:59 PM)

Why? I'd place a wager on "they're idiots".

Best advice I can give you, is to just ignore the ones that are so lacking in social graces, and find a few people worth talking to.




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 4:13:03 PM)

slave or submissive ...collared or uncollared - many think you're fair game and willing to submit to anyone who calls himself  Sir/Lord/Master or whatever




DesFIP -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 4:15:51 PM)

It isn't just slaves. Subs get this. Dommes get this nonsense too from men who believe they will magically change when they meet him.

And in fact subs and slaves get come ons from male slaves hoping they'll magically turn domme.

These types of people don't read profiles, they send out form letters to every female on the site.

Delete, yawn and move on.




antipode -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 4:28:13 PM)

Kitty, they're morons, wannabees, they don't own a dictionary, but most likely, all three. Ignore them, there is unfortunately a very large category of people that think that charging a $300 PC to a maxed out credit card they can be someone they're not. Most are too young to even get a Viagra prescription..




Poetryinpain -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 6:49:32 PM)

I'd go with: They hope that they're the first to contact you, and you are a newbie sub in 'sub frenzy' and not realize that there are actual men out there who will treat you like a person before 'claiming' you as their property.

pip, been there, done that




ResidentSadist -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 7:05:41 PM)

Give it time… the cream will rise to the top in time.  

Being online doesn’t filter the idiots out.  Just like real life, you have to pull a lot of weeds to find the flowers.  With that, I would add that I think in the 2 days experience you have here, you haven’t met everyone yet and are jumping to conclusions early in the game.




Lynnxz -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 7:52:33 PM)

They are silly wankers who believe that real life is just like that kinky porno they saw once. [&:]

Just ignore them, they aren't even worth a snarky reply.




CalifChick -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 9:35:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: shykitty1
Why is it when someone has that they are a slave in thier profile, everyone thinks that you must automatically submit to them, and its wrong for you to "shop around".


Define "everyone."  Is it the "masters" that are responding to the confusing parts of your profile where you say you are engaged to a lifestyle person, but this new master will have final control over decisions instead of your fiance/husband?  You're giving an awful lot of power to someone right off the bat.  It practically screams "take advantage of me."

Cali





variation30 -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 11:28:02 PM)

because they are what the great American philosopher Katt Williams refers to as bitch niggas.




variation30 -> RE: why is it (4/22/2008 11:30:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

If you choose to identify as a slave you will need to accept that some dominants feel that property has no right to choose anything.


they aren't property unless they consent to be property. to presume consent is more than a little silly.




Dnomyar -> RE: why is it (4/23/2008 8:44:17 AM)

Op see how these people are in here. They don't want to give the wanker a decent chance. Im waiting for Cali to scream "take advantage of me"




CalifChick -> RE: why is it (4/23/2008 8:45:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Op see how these people are in here. They don't want to give the wanker a decent chance. Im waiting for Cali to scream "take advantage of me"


I tried but you didn't answer your phone.

Cali




LilMissHaven -> RE: why is it (4/23/2008 8:47:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Because those types of Doms know that if you shop around. Even on the Bottom shelf Dom's you'll find something better and they are aware of thier own shortcomings.

You will learn that the behavior is common among LongDongDom's who want you to believe thier every word without question.

Ignore, Block, Delete.  (God Damnit Now they got ME saying it)

Steel


Yea! but its so much sexier coming from a Dom'ly Dom like you [sm=bowdown.gif]




eyesopened -> RE: why is it (4/23/2008 8:55:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Give it time… the cream will rise to the top in time.  

Being online doesn’t filter the idiots out.  Just like real life, you have to pull a lot of weeds to find the flowers.  With that, I would add that I think in the 2 days experience you have here, you haven’t met everyone yet and are jumping to conclusions early in the game.



Cream rises to the top...but so does scum.  Just be sure you know the difference.




KatyLied -> RE: why is it (4/23/2008 10:22:50 AM)

quote:

they aren't property unless they consent to be property. to presume consent is more than a little silly.


Ah, don't ruin their fun!




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