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RE: Old experience still dont understand!! - 4/23/2008 7:14:09 PM

Leatherist

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ORIGINAL: chyanna

Before i met Master, i was seeing a really strict Dominant, i was tied hands behind back kneeling, blindfold on and every now and again He would strike my back with a crop.....

however during this session He wished something of me and because he had a slight accent i could not make it out clearly so i turned my head slightly and said pardon Sir really politely and got totally thrashed.....was that the wrong thing too do? cos i thought saying pardon i didnt quite hear that was better than just kneeling there,,but it seems not,,,,its really confused me

I see that people are failing to read the op and understand-again.

I would see if it is ok with your current master to ask the former one about what he was thinking. It may help you with some closure over the incident.

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RE: Old experience still dont understand!! - 4/23/2008 7:16:38 PM

vivere

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Okay, Chyanna...i promise this is my last on the subject. The honor and pride you feel come from within you, and have little or nothing to do with who you are in submission to. Do you see that you are a treasure, and it has nothing to do with him?
Why do we submit to these men? Are we so lacking in vision that we cannot see the truth about them? I have been in that place so many times.
The truth is, that a fine submissive can submit under the worst of circumstances, and to almost anyone, whether they be worthy or not. So, we need to be the selective ones, to choose the very best......and that may not be on a site such as this. It may be in a place having nothing to do with D/s. Our submission sometimes encompasses our whole life, but when it feels bad, when it is confusing and you are not in "playtime", you may need to reconsider your submission.
Submissives are not meant to be mindless creatures when it comes to being collared.

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RE: Old experience still dont understand!! - 4/23/2008 7:20:24 PM

HerLord

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

quote:

ORIGINAL: chyanna

Before i met Master, i was seeing a really strict Dominant, i was tied hands behind back kneeling, blindfold on and every now and again He would strike my back with a crop.....

however during this session He wished something of me and because he had a slight accent i could not make it out clearly so i turned my head slightly and said pardon Sir really politely and got totally thrashed.....was that the wrong thing too do? cos i thought saying pardon i didnt quite hear that was better than just kneeling there,,but it seems not,,,,its really confused me

I see that people are failing to read the op and understand-again.

I would see if it is ok with your current master to ask the former one about what he was thinking. It may help you with some closure over the incident.

Leatherist... TY again. It was in my original post before getting yanked that this was the case but in my disdain for mod 11 at present, I forgot the context of the script and reacted without refreshing my read.

Any way... My opinion still stands. A guy who cannot move his words to action cannot be worth the effort.

Any way. OP I am guessing you are in a better situation now, and if not, why not? Are you repeating the same old mistakes? If this be true, then do you not need to look inward as to why you are doing this?

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RE: Old experience still dont understand!! - 4/24/2008 4:41:59 AM

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I can put up with the Sadist part but punching in the mouth is going overboard with it. You have to stay in control no matter what your kink.

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RE: Old experience still dont understand!! - 4/24/2008 4:48:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I can put up with the Sadist part but punching in the mouth is going overboard with it. You have to stay in control no matter what your kink.

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RE: Old experience still dont understand!! - 4/24/2008 4:52:25 AM

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Sounds like what you should have learned from this experience is when to walk out, where to draw healthy boundaries, and how to better screen potential partners to discover if this kind of abuse is their reason for claiming to be dominant.

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