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softness -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (4/27/2008 6:29:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MKred23

Do most doms/domes have time frames for their consideration periods?



feel I can answer this one for Him

26 days ...9hours ... and 31 minutes

plus 13 mins or until fluffy and golden



SirJames1020 -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (4/27/2008 12:35:24 PM)

In my case it all depends on where the sub lives and how compatible the both are.  I have one sub in consideration that lives 2000 miles away from me.  I'm a patient man and like to take things slow when considering a sub/slave.  It could take a month or 6 months it all depends on how we get along, trusting one another, which is a big requirement, a willingness to relocate to many other aspects. 



MetalMayhem -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (4/27/2008 1:16:28 PM)

Whoah slow down man. You already have two subs and you have a COUPLE MORE under consideration? You need time to get to know these chicks one on one.. How are you doing that when you take them by the fishnet and reel them in?? If I could give you any advice, it would be to cut SOME of them lose and focus on one at a time.

My consideration period is 3 months. Then I have a 1 year training period where they live with me before I take them completely. My training period is actually just a guide line since I have a boy right now who is training and it will take about another year till I get him where I want him to be at.

Hope this helps. You just need to start respecting these girls more.

M. NIKKI



LeatherBentOne -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (4/27/2008 5:48:01 PM)

Usually about 2 years before I would consider collaring.



MKred23 -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (4/28/2008 11:21:09 AM)

I am poly and the first two I was already in relationships with.  They actually asked me to collar them.  I had one under consideration and released her after 2 months.  I just collared the 3rd after 2 months.  She will be in training for a year or so before I will consider giving her a permanant collar.

MK



OldBastardly1 -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (4/28/2008 2:09:42 PM)

You are, no doubt, a stud.



MetalMayhem -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (4/29/2008 9:43:16 PM)

Hahaha yes.. a sexy beast!



KnightofMists -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (4/30/2008 7:29:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MKred23
Do most doms/domes have time frames for their consideration periods?



I consider them for as long as it takes..... some take 30 seconds.... some take slightly longer to decide



MetalMayhem -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (4/30/2008 6:24:18 PM)

Yeah, I took about 7 years considering my slave. Ha. Long story. Just thought it was a nice touch.

M. NIKKI



mypain56 -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (6/27/2008 10:16:42 PM)

Unfortuately for some Dominants, waiting for along period of time can be quite scary for the prospective sub/slave. Especially when there patience isn't one of their better attributes "MINE"  in aprevious post i did mention if he was to wait a year or so it would be alright, well i would like to recant that statement please. So here's the thing I have moved 4 hours closer to be near Him now were only 10 minutes from each other. OK here's a question,... the longer He takes to take it to a different level does it means that perhaps i am being strung along. Or that he has a fear of commitment. Feedback would be very helpful here ???
 
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IronBear -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (6/28/2008 1:40:52 AM)

We use a Probationary Collar which is a minimum of 30 days (for those who we know well) and as long as it takes untill all parties are up to speed and everyone understands what is offered, expected and acceptable. Onve an accord is reached we are ready to take the next step of a formal collaring into the home (House Collar). Collars are such a personal thing and important that to rush it is to invite disaster and failure.


Iron Bear
(Incorrigible, irrepressible and irreverent)
Master of Bruin Cottage
(A Victorian Lifestyle poly home)

The Moving Finger writes; and, having writ,
Moves on: nor all your Piety nor Wit
Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line,
Nor all your Tears wash out a Word of it.

Omar Khayyam 1048 CE to 1123 CE (Persian Mathematician, Scientist, Astronomer, Philosopher & Poet).




TMIk -> RE: How long is your consideration period? (6/28/2008 2:49:49 AM)

don't have one. as long as the person and I have a clear understanding of each other and there is no uncertainty or doubts then I go for it. 



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