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is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 9:36:17 AM

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can 2 slave woman be one mans slave...and really be thought as sisters

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 9:41:13 AM

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Yes.

Rather a short answer to an overly simplistic question. Maybe if you elaborate on what point you where looking for then people will be able to give more involved answers.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 9:42:04 AM

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Ofcourse, happens all the time. Why couldn't it?

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:17:35 AM

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well slave got Masters permission to take a short leave from their 24/7 to attend vanilla family matters up north..as she left she said perhaps Master get a substiute ...He took her idea serious...He did...He said that she was now her slave sister..this one was alpha and that the sister will also serve her.....

in this idea slave would think that the sisters would talk..the new sister would take direction from alpha etc.... maybe this slave is thinking out of place..however it is all confusing to the relationship they had

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:20:45 AM

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I am too stupid...the 3rd party talk confuses me. Is "slave" the original...and you? Is "sister" the new girl....the one you resent?

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:22:30 AM

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ok permission to speak freely.....

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:27:42 AM

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Yes as long as communictions are open among all partys, There is a high risk of jealousy growing however but is it possable ? Yes. Especially if one of the slaves is a switch and there is an accepted hirarchy in the family.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:27:46 AM

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Permission to speak freely is implicit on these forums sweetie, unless your Master has directed otherwise... no-one Owns you but Him and not one person here can make demands of you.

From your follow-up though. you need to address such a question to your Master as it doesn't matter what anyone here thinks. How things will work in His household is upto Him to direct.

All We can do is give different examples and opinion.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:30:29 AM

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there is no resentment....however........
Master and I had a relationship for 2 years prior to there relationship developing this far....it was I who asked for Him to be my Master and I his slave...although we had been basically living that life together we never talked about it till then.... then due to her mothers illness she left florida and went back to delaware to be with her mother and straighten a few things out.... one day He called and said He was interviewing a slave He met on Collarme.... and that He was doing so because of my idea.... my world was absolutly crushed but I delt with it because I am slave..... however my idea was just to play.... and yet she is still around... He says that I am His pleasure slave and she is a coin slave..... we met one time during my brief trip to florida.... she was pleasant but completly outspoken etc...and at that time I told Master that she needed more training and that I was suppose to be part of it...he agreed...and after that trip the new slave doesnt respond to me.......

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:33:44 AM

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the jealousy is that there really isnt any...Master gives me total confidence in our relationship and my place in his life.... its just what is she doing

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:35:56 AM

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I am still a bit confused. I think you slipped from 1st party to 3rd party midstream. Was it you that had to leave for family matters?
And wtf is a coin slave? Is that a money slave/ money piggie?

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:39:23 AM

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Ok.. I'm trying really hard to understand.. but its difficult...

let's see if I have this right.. your Master has no responsibility in this, you're complaining that the other slave is behaving badly (toward you?) ... and that's what is going on?

and you are not with them, but rather in Delaware, while they are in Florida?

She's got him.. sorry to say that, but she does. If her behavior is not pleasing to you AND you're a slave.. I'm not sure you get to say much... if your Master is ok with it... then.. well.. what are you going to do?

I'm sorry, I know this isn't all that nice.. but I'm finding the whole thing... confusing...

same advice, different day: talk to your Master

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:39:28 AM

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okay sorry ...i am usually always in 3rd party..yes i am the one that went to attend family matters....and no i have no idea what a coin slave is and dare not ask master to elaborate that more...all i know is he makes her pay for everything when they are out together....

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:41:01 AM

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okay sorry ...i am usually always in 3rd party..yes i am the one that went to attend family matters....and no i have no idea what a coin slave is and dare not ask master to elaborate that more...all i know is he makes her pay for everything when they are out together....

the coin slave thing and the "dare not ask" are big red flags...

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:43:04 AM

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no dont be sorry i was just really looking for someone to talk too..... i also think that she has him.... i have expressed that to him... he tells me that i have nothing to worry about that i am number 1 and always will be...that she is there because i am not... anyway the whole thing is confusing.... guess she should either trust him and his words or leave

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:44:02 AM

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I need 1 or 2 coin slaves then. Is there such a thing as a "scooter slave"? I want a new Harley. I am undecided if I want a Street Glide or a special Fatboy...so maybe I need 2 scooter slaves.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:44:51 AM

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true........the dare not ask is not out of fear in anyway..he has never harm me .... it just i dont want to start an arguement again over it...

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:45:14 AM

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quote:

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there is no resentment....however........
Master and I had a relationship for 2 years prior to there relationship developing this far....it was I who asked for Him to be my Master and I his slave...although we had been basically living that life together we never talked about it till then.... then due to her mothers illness she left florida and went back to delaware to be with her mother and straighten a few things out.... one day He called and said He was interviewing a slave He met on Collarme.... and that He was doing so because of my idea.... my world was absolutly crushed but I delt with it because I am slave..... however my idea was just to play.... and yet she is still around... He says that I am His pleasure slave and she is a coin slave..... we met one time during my brief trip to florida.... she was pleasant but completly outspoken etc...and at that time I told Master that she needed more training and that I was suppose to be part of it...he agreed...and after that trip the new slave doesnt respond to me.......

Bottom line here is that it is upto Him to organise things the way He needs them to be and to address any resulting problems. Your part in this needs taking to Him.

I would have handled things differently in My household. For One thing My girl joined Me knowing I am poly and there would be at some stage others involved, that at some point I would start seeking a third and that I will from time to time have playpartners. Those where a given from the start. Not dropped on her after a single comment.

I took the time to settle her before seeking a third, We talked about each and any aspect of it that came to mind BEFORE I acted on it... Sure I have the 'right' to just go out and DO so, but keeping what I already have stable gives a solid base to which to add a compatable third.

she knows what *I* aim for, including that I seek to avoid doing primary/secondary... I need no alpha. Once the third settles they will be equal sisters, Both My property.

The comment you make about her not responding to you? Is this real life or online? simply not responding to mails or actualy ignoring you in the flesh.... that is a problem I would be addressing the moment I noticed it or that it was drawn to My attention. Not only do I not find such actions pleasing but it also disrupts the entire household where one or other girl is not trying to get along with the other.

Just My opinion and how I would handle it... but He will deal with it His way.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:47:13 AM

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quote:

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no dont be sorry i was just really looking for someone to talk too..... i also think that she has him.... i have expressed that to him... he tells me that i have nothing to worry about that i am number 1 and always will be...that she is there because i am not... anyway the whole thing is confusing.... guess she should either trust him and his words or leave

I have several thoughts here, will she be leaving when you get back?

Is he that helpless (clearly moneyless) when you're gone that he can't manage by himself for a bit? Sorry, bringing another into any relationship should be a bit more thought out, at least in my mind. I'm funny that way, carefully mulling things over before acting. But I have no idea what the timing is on all this.

Honestly, I'm not sure I'd want to be with someone who could replace me that quickly and easily.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:50:45 AM

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you are correct.. i probably should have never said anything but i just find it annoying that she doesnt respond to calls, emails etc... and well Master is always there for me..flys to Delaware to see me ..he has made several comments that I need to trust him and where each one of is in his life and that i will get the chance to see who she is to him when i return home

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