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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 2:43:20 PM   
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Hi. My name is Hejira and I am a filthy, perverted sex fiend. And I've been without kinky sex for two days now.
 
WAAAAAAAH!!!  
 
Really, though-
I'm here because, not only did I find my amazing Master here, I get to be part of a community where I am not (too) weird, I learn interesting stuff from interesting people and I don't have to be oblique about myself and my relationship. And I have fun with all the great, kinky, thinking people on the boards.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 2:45:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PanthersMom

i was the first grandchild on both sides of the family, i'm used to being waited on and spoiled rotten, lol!
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I was so cute as a kid I could've been the baby on the Pampers diaper box. Everywhere I went I was always *adorable*.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 2:49:15 PM   
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Well; taking asside the whole metaphysical question of why any of us are here at all, and what "here" is anyways...  >chuckles<

Long time martial arts (not the go to dojo type; more the Mr. Miagi go to old dude's house, or parking lot, or forrest, or where ever the master is; that is where the lesson and 'dojo' is as such), and also spening some time in the military has shaped my very young personality drives to simply Do My Own Thing. (hell, I started skipping school in kindergarden! [sarcasm] Mom was soo proud [/sarcasm])

I'm more connected to the D/s aspects and some (minor) level of ritual then anything else, and I like to let my mind run free (yes, I know, it's probably too damn young to be out on it's own like that; but what can you do?).  So I find the comunity a bit more accepting of being 'out there' then most other comunities.  And I would rather be me and bizare and on the fringe, then de-fringe and no longer be true to myself.

Oh, and I love to learn new techniques; I was joking at a class on whips - "A whip for a man, is like a dildo for a woman: It's one of the few toys that's just as much fun when  used alone"  >wry grin<  But I don't get 'hot' as such from S/M activities; it's more of a focus thing, and if it works for the other person; great!  I'll get my 'reward' after.

That, and there is a never ending stream of new perspective, new ideas, and new challanges to work with.

Oh, and I think that women in that whole... well... fetish thing.. are just plain hawt.  (Betty Page, you 'da bomb! rather a fan of a few of the suicide girls as well.  go figure)


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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 3:12:08 PM   
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I'm here because this is where I've found "real" men...oops Dominants!! 

Oh, and because I won't scare them away if I want thus and so, you know?  Tie me up, blindfold me, spank me, pour a little wax down my back, etc., etc.

I'm keeping it clean guys, but you get the picture *wink


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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 3:20:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: impossiblesub

Just out of curiosity I wanted to see whay some other people are into BDSM. Personally, I have a few kinks and personality quirks I have aquired that I want to get included into a relationship. I also want to keep it HOT, lol. What about you? Why are you interested in a BDSM relationship or why did you get into the lifestyle?

Because I'm privileged enough to love it.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 3:23:44 PM   
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I'm here because i hit the WebMistress's car and dont have any money to pay for repairs. And to prevent from going to jail, i said i would do anything.... so here i am... lol. I'm sorry i just couldnt resist.

I am here because it is a perfect place for me to improve my knowledge of what it means to be a submissive by interacting and sharing information with others on the forum.... also to have some fun as well.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 3:31:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: impossiblesub

Just out of curiosity I wanted to see whay some other people are into BDSM. Personally, I have a few kinks and personality quirks I have aquired that I want to get included into a relationship. I also want to keep it HOT, lol. What about you? Why are you interested in a BDSM relationship or why did you get into the lifestyle?


It's been a lifelong thing for me...literally from the time I was 6 or 7. So how could I NOT wind up here eventually?
 
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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 3:35:29 PM   
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I'm here because this is where i found my Sir- and the most amazing life i could imagine. and some i couldn't!

Besides i get to talk about strange and odd things with people that don't consider them strange or odd.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 3:43:33 PM   
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Beats working..   Actually - due to work - just to meet new friends and exchange ideas.  

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 3:45:31 PM   
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I am here for the like minded and not so like minded people...and it doesnt hurt.. that I am a perv !

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 3:58:30 PM   
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It's free and a lot of laughs and ,sometimes, chicks send me nakie gash pics.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 4:01:58 PM   
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i like it when it hurts
making sweet soft love makes me sick

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 4:05:23 PM   
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I am here because my mommy and daddy were fucking horny.

I am not into BDSM...I couldn't fit.



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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 4:19:33 PM   
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it was time for me to move forward and try to find that special Someone...

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 4:33:54 PM   
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I seriously doubt that anyone is born kinky, but I suppose you call it hard-wired if you have always been that way. Last I heard there are not genes that make you predisposed to wearing leather.


Actually, they think that they might have found an 'Alternative' gene - a gene that makes it much more likely that you will swim against the crowd, have an alternate sexual preference, alternative religion, or other 'odd' life choice. So, yea, there might be one, after all.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 4:42:43 PM   
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I grew up on Robert Heinlein and his peers.  The women in those stories were smart, sexy, powerful, horny, and utterly submissive.  'Glory Road,' 'Starship Troopers,' 'Lazarus Long,', 'Friday'...

Average women bore me.  I want a woman that can inspire, support, and bring out the best in me, with her submission.

That's why I'm here.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 4:43:44 PM   
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i have been standing in this line so long i forgot why i got inline . Ohh yeah  i'm Kinky ,pervy ,have many fetishes ,BDSM and S&M  is in my DNA  asap PDQ 10-4 , and i smell like cookies !

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 4:44:19 PM   
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*sighs* RIP, RAH

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 5:20:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tsatske

Actually, they think that they might have found an 'Alternative' gene - a gene that makes it much more likely that you will swim against the crowd, have an alternate sexual preference, alternative religion, or other 'odd' life choice. So, yea, there might be one, after all.


Couldn't find anything googleing for it, but I suppose anything is possible. Just because someone has said alternative gene probably does not mean they would be alternative in everything. I would expect that a person's life would have an effect upon that as well. Doesn't really matter to me either way. I am just curious why some others are here.

Nurture vs Nature - who's right? Neither and Both.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/25/2008 5:42:38 PM   
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I'm here because I'm really fucked up and it's around midnight.
Ed to add: oh yes and I nearly forgot: I'm a breeding cow.


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