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RE: Why are you here? - 4/26/2008 9:36:23 AM

BossyShoeBitch

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ORIGINAL: hejira92

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

My first 'inclining's' that I was not 'right' by vanilla standards came when I was about 14 years old and saw Sally Field in Sybil. (Anyone else old enough to remember that one? From 1976?) The kitchen scene where her mother was torturing her - the acts that broke her mind and shattered her personality - Always made me hot. No! Not the idea of torturing a child or doing serious injury to an innocent! - It was just my first exposure to things that are staples to bdsm. The thought of having a spreader bar between my feet, being hauled up and suspended from the ceiling while someone penetrated me with household objects was just so HOT! To this day, when I'm having my Switch 'do me' with toys... that image is still in my mind... but it's ME upside down and I'm loving every minute of it.

Oh my. You've hit on another reason I'm here- to further learn about and understand myself.

I forgot all about this scene, but you're right- the imagery of being helpless and penetrated set my pre-adolescent heart a-pounding.

I've been a pervert longer than I thought.

HO-LY--CRAAAP--

You know how weird it is when you read something in print and then have an ohmyfuckinggawd moment?

I don't remember much about Sybil either.. But the one scene I remember, and is constantly in my mind, is (this is how I remember the scene, not sure how accurate it is) when she was handcuffed underneath the dining room table and she either peed or let go of an enema... That has been one of my go to files for thirty years and I never consciously acknowledged it until this moment...

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/26/2008 9:44:39 AM

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Scary, isn't it? I'm glad I'm not the only one.

That is actually one of things I LOVE about CM.. No matter how fucking perverted we think we are, we are NEVER the only one...

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/26/2008 10:18:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

HO-LY--CRAAAP--

You know how weird it is when you read something in print and then have an ohmyfuckinggawd moment?

I don't remember much about Sybil either.. But the one scene I remember, and is constantly in my mind, is (this is how I remember the scene, not sure how accurate it is) when she was handcuffed underneath the dining room table and she either peed or let go of an enema... That has been one of my go to files for thirty years and I never consciously acknowledged it until this moment...

Ah, we are very much alike, aren't we?

Another thing I remember is the buttonhook. And figuring out what was done with it.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/26/2008 12:48:33 PM

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I uploaded My profile here, initially to meet submissive ladies, hopefully to find 'My' submissive. My wife and I did meet a lovely lady who was 'Our' submissive for a short--but wonderful--three months.

Now that I've found the lovely lady who wears My collar (no, I found her on another site...) I'm here to keep in touch with friends, possibly to find another local M/f couple for some voyeuristic fun, and waste time on these discussion boards...

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/26/2008 3:56:03 PM

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I came for the free beer.... and well I never left

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/26/2008 4:50:00 PM

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I was told there would be an open bar......

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/27/2008 4:29:03 PM

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I'm here because I'm drawn to it. I've know my kink (bondage) since puberty.

Here I'm sooo likely to come across my counterpart... female and a lover of bondage.

I have plenty of RT experience, more than any man deserves, I think. Mostly on this site I look for cool written explanations of things I already understand but that I can't articulate as well as I'd like.

I have met some great women on CM and later played with them. Still good friends after many years. You know who you are! :)

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/27/2008 4:36:25 PM

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I'm here to win the "Last one to post wins" thread too.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/27/2008 6:52:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

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ORIGINAL: hejira92

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

My first 'inclining's' that I was not 'right' by vanilla standards came when I was about 14 years old and saw Sally Field in Sybil. (Anyone else old enough to remember that one? From 1976?) The kitchen scene where her mother was torturing her - the acts that broke her mind and shattered her personality - Always made me hot. No! Not the idea of torturing a child or doing serious injury to an innocent! - It was just my first exposure to things that are staples to bdsm. The thought of having a spreader bar between my feet, being hauled up and suspended from the ceiling while someone penetrated me with household objects was just so HOT! To this day, when I'm having my Switch 'do me' with toys... that image is still in my mind... but it's ME upside down and I'm loving every minute of it.

Oh my. You've hit on another reason I'm here- to further learn about and understand myself.

I forgot all about this scene, but you're right- the imagery of being helpless and penetrated set my pre-adolescent heart a-pounding.

I've been a pervert longer than I thought.

HO-LY--CRAAAP--

You know how weird it is when you read something in print and then have an ohmyfuckinggawd moment?

I don't remember much about Sybil either.. But the one scene I remember, and is constantly in my mind, is (this is how I remember the scene, not sure how accurate it is) when she was handcuffed underneath the dining room table and she either peed or let go of an enema... That has been one of my go to files for thirty years and I never consciously acknowledged it until this moment...

Goto files, uh? Nope, guess I got a new "kinkie" movie to check out......Sybil with Sally Fields......woot!!

I'm here appearantly to find new movies to check out.....lol

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/27/2008 11:31:38 PM

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I think I'm one of the "I was born this way" sorts... I've been having kinky fantasies before I even knew what the words kink or fantasy meant. It took me forever to figure out that there were others who were in to it too, and almost as long to get up the courage to actually seek people out.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/28/2008 12:40:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: impossiblesub

Just out of curiosity I wanted to see whay some other people are into BDSM. Personally, I have a few kinks and personality quirks I have aquired that I want to get included into a relationship. I also want to keep it HOT, lol. What about you? Why are you interested in a BDSM relationship or why did you get into the lifestyle?

I was "into" the M/s lifestyle as a Gorean Master in the Gprean Lifestyles which as people should know, had not a whit to do with BDSM or at least the Sado-machism aspect of it, long before I ever looked at BDSM. Frankly I had way too many hangups having seen the edgy side of life from both experienced hard interrogations and interrogating people myself. (No pleasure for me in either). I was fortunate to have amongst my friends, a coupole of top class Professional Dominatrixes in Canada. I learned the subtleties and pleasures of BDSM as a Dominant...

Looking for relationships? Not any more whilst I reside in Aussie. My wife is also a Dominant and play peartners let alone suitable slave flesh is as scarse as hens teeth. However over the years, i have made some excelent cyber mates of all sexes and orientations. I enjoy the communications we have. mayhap over the next two years we will invade several countries and visit them.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/28/2008 3:49:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: SummerWind

I was told there would be an open bar......

I'm here for the cock...tails.

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RE: Why are you here? - 4/28/2008 4:26:24 AM

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Im just on the board to set the records straight. There is no beer here. There is only one cocktail.(not trying to brag). Contrary to the rumor there are no like minded people here. The women here are posing as men. Look carefully at the men pics. The men are posing as women. Look carefuly at the women pics. After long research I have found that Dnomyar is the only true Dom here.

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