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Marx -> I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 9:41:16 AM)

I feel a rant coming on!
I have advice for all male-subs who are planning to release their profile for general viewing:
don't! YOU HAVE MORE CHANCE OF SEEING THE US ADOPT A SOCIALIST GOVERNMENT THEN OF GETTING A TANGIBLE RESPONSE! I have bent over backwards to employ that famous English courtesy that ensures more powerful nations walk all over us (Hi George W!), and nothing but nothing has come of it! I am 37, angry, pissed-off, tired and hurt at the prodigal indifference of online Dommes. The rudeness of some of them is astonishing! How difficult is it for instance, to write a quick note to say you are not interested? Oh, and please don't bother writing patronising replies telling me where i'm going wrong, or that i have issues! The only issues i've got are of The Wire magazine! I am sick to death, and just about through with making the effort here; i might as well be dead!



Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:13:47 PM)

By way of addition, thank Christ for masturbation, or i'd probably go insane or explode; YOU SURE AS HELL CAN'T RELY ON SEEING YOUR DEEPEST-SEATED NEEDS - WHICH HAVE AFFLICTED YOU FOR 30 YEARS - REALISED! I should have been a priest, i live like one as it is!



AbstractSavant -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:18:47 PM)

Seriously.



frenchpet -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:20:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Marx

By way of addition, thank Christ for masturbation, or i'd probably go insane or explode!

A christian socialist ? You may have other issues than those of Wired magazine. :p.



Phoenixandnika -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:20:59 PM)

greetings Marx,

I think everyone at some point gets frustrated with either getting out of line emails or people not responding back.However, people do reads these boards and ranting about poor little me doesnt make a good impression. I am not saying that you dont have right to rant or even a reason to rant.

But you just remade your name and profile yesterday for christ sakes. Now your here ranting because someone you emailed did not respond back immediately? Has it even been 24 hours since you emailed them? Perhpas they have not been online, perhaps if they were they simply havent had time to reply.

Patience if a virtue Marx and no one is obligated to respond back to any email.

Nika{Phoenix}



perverseangelic -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:21:29 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Marx

How difficult is it for instance, to write a quick note to say you are not interested? Oh, and please don't bother writing patronising replies telling me where i'm going wrong, or that i have issues!



While I totally dig the need to rant, there are -so- many threads on this. Do a search for it and you'll get every concievable response.


Also...isn't -not- responding clearly a "not interested?" Perhaps not the politest one, but in light of how many e-mails some individuals recieve, it seems that not saying anything is a pretty clear way of indicating a lack of compatability.



Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:31:36 PM)

With the very greatest respect Nika, it's easy for you to talk like that, as you have found your partner. Also, it makes no odds whether the profile is a day old or a year, they just don't bother! You can say it's just a poor little me rant, but you strike me as someone who is having their needs addressed, and when that isn't the case, it kills you! I realise i am contradicting everything i said, but the pain of isolation is unbearable, and collarme seems like yet another smug clique! As ever, it is very thoughtful of you to reply, but i am afraid my bitterness and anger at isolation have not abated one iota!



Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:33:36 PM)

French Pet,
I am a fanatical atheist actually (though raised a catholic). And the magazine is The Wire, not Wired.



Phoenixandnika -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:37:15 PM)

Marx,

What I am and was suggesting is that you show some patience.

Have you thought about turning to a local BDSM group as well as online venues such as Collarme?

Blessed Be
Nika{Phoenix}



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:37:29 PM)

How did you go from writing a fairly polite "hey can I get help with responses" post to a huge ranting tirade of anger in less than two days?

Look at this objectively- would YOU be attracted to someone who was posting this? We get threads from people complaining about the emails they don't get/do get about twice a week, but usually not as vehement or angry.



AAkasha -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:40:15 PM)


Right Marx, of course, it's all about *you*.

Just yesterday you finally dropped your "do-me" name here "faceseat" and were still calling total strangers "Mistress."
It's all about *you* getting *your* fantasies met.

Wah wah wah. Poor Marx. Femdoms are not lining up to sit on your face. Boo hoo.

If you wonder why you haven't met someone to fulfill your fantasies and meet your needs in a sexual relationship, maybe you should look inside.

It's not all about you.

Akasha



Phoenixandnika -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:43:47 PM)

AAkasha but seems we forget we live in an age of instant gratification.


*laughs*

Marx,

I was wondering, since when is anyone obligated to do anything yet for someone else that is not theirs, yet alone a perfect stranger.

Blessed Be
Nika{Phoenix}



frenchpet -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:45:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

How did you go from writing a fairly polite "hey can I get help with responses" post to a huge ranting tirade of anger in less than two days?

Look at this objectively- would YOU be attracted to someone who was posting this? We get threads from people complaining about the emails they don't get/do get about twice a week, but usually not as vehement or angry.

Have you never ever felt the need to go to a remote place, on top of a mountain or something, so that you could SHOUT against the world ?



Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:46:19 PM)

EMERALD SLAVE, You sound smugly Californian! The times i've encountered that response! Do you think that being a submissive, means that all the messy, unpredictable changes of emotion are expunged? I'm responding to a painful sense of isolation, my sexual proclivities don't enter into it! Besides, it is precisely the possibility of submission to a woman that would quell and contain this anger! I may be a sub in private, but not in the real world!



JohnWarren -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:47:00 PM)

Time for another name change. This time don't tell anyone.

Before you write your profile and go back to posting with the new name, seriously sit down and think about what kind of impression you want to make. Up to now, you've sounded like a poor used car dealer trying to shame a customer into feeling sorry for you and buying a clunker. You say, used car dealers don't work that way... you bet they don't because it does not work.

What do you think a dominant woman would find attractive in you? Show case it and put the anger aside for a bit.



perverseangelic -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:54:19 PM)

When someone is online, their words are all we have to judge them by.

Marx, how would -you- react to someone posting as you have? I've beena ctive on these boards for...well...a while. I have a pretty good idea of who has posted and who hasn't.

you've barely started being a part of this community, and you've manage to antagonize some pretty remarkable people. Maybe this is a good time to look at the way you're presenting yourself.

Like I said, I'm all for ranting, but you said yourself you've been searching for four months. While it may seem like forever, that really isn't that long.

Also. Have you gotten involved in your realtime community? I -gaurentee- you'll have better luck there.



Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:56:30 PM)

John Warren,

You are kind to bother with a reply, and you're probably entirely right. I'm just sick of banging my head against this particular brick wall! As to what a woman might find attractive? Well i'm charismatic; open-hearted; compassionate; articulate; innovative; generous; loyal; funny, will those do to be getting on with? I have plenty to offer!



CaptCraig -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 2:58:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Marx

French Pet,
I am a fanatical atheist actually (though raised a catholic). And the magazine is The Wire, not Wired.

Fanatic: a person filled with excessive and mistaken enthusiasm.
Perhaps that's the genesis of your problem.



anopheles -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:02:22 PM)

Marx:

Although your frustration can certainly be understood by just about everyone that hasn't found the relationship that they are looking for, your rant (your word, not mine) is not likely to endear you to a lot of Dommes. Your response in a public forum would cause disdain from Dominants, because it tends to show that you might react with impatience and anger if things didn't go the way that you wanted them to.

I am in no way trying to flame you, as I don't know your personal situation and what you've experienced, but just wanted to give you a friendly bit of advice to not alienate people unnecessarily.

--Anopheles



topcat -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:03:41 PM)

Dear Marx-

As Engels said to your namesake "lighten up, dood!"

Serously, are you steamed after day of this? I'd bet that some of the objects of you desire haven't even seen your petion yet- and I'd be some haven't been on the site in weeks- have you been checking the 'last online' date in their displays?

and while it doesn't take long to draft 'a quick note to say you are not interested', write eight- or ten- or thirty does take some time. Give the lady a chance to catch her breath-

Stay warm,
Lawrence




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