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naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 12:50:00 PM   
lally3


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Status: offline 		hi,

has anyone heard of or gone to bdsm parties where the submissives are completely naked.  apparently this happens in paris alot and birmingham. 

have any subs here gone to one of these parties and what was it like walking into a room full of strangers butt naked.

my initial reaction was.... eek! but, then i got to thinking, if all the other subs are naked, maybe it wouldnt be so bad...
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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 12:53:42 PM   
NewJustlookin


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Status: offline 		Well I wasn't complete naked because, yeah there is that fear or Eekk of being naked in front of complete strangers. But I was in my boxers and you know at first I was nervous and what not but then after 5min it kind of went away. Because depending on the party, I was to busy laughing my ass off and not caring. Now it could be a lot different naked but I doubt it. Plus no one gonna make fun of you. well maybe beside the dominants. But that what they do. And sub's are in the same situtation as you are. I say just go out and have fun no worries about anything.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 1:00:22 PM   
jesiul


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Status: offline 		I have attended parties at both private clubs and personal parties that subs are naked. However I have never been to one where all the subs were required to be completely naked. Rather in varies states; from fully clothed to naked.

It is not unusual to see flesh at any of these types of parties; this of course this depends upon the Dom’s wants and the rules of the event. I suppose if  there are events that are held which a Dom may take his sub/slave to, which she would be required to be naked, however I am sure he would be informed in advance of such rules and choose from there as to whether he and said sub would attend.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 1:20:05 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		My Sir keeps me naked at home, and at parties. the first party where i was obliged to be naked was at our house, so i was naked off the get-go. And it was difficult to begin with. I felt very shy - and very self conscious - but, no-one made comments or stared - at least when i was around or could see. And lets be clear about this - I am not a slim little 20-ish girl. I have had two kids, and silver hair so i am no spring chicken, but my Sir considers me beautiful.  And if my Sir considers me beautiful - then i am- by goddess!

Now i am used to it, and don't think about it any more. If i am clothed then i feel weird.  I think because i am naked then other subs find it easier to dump their clothes too.   However , i have been the only naked sub at parties before, and it just felt natural.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 1:27:03 PM   
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...what was it like walking into a room full of strangers butt naked...


Absolutely glorious...it's an exhibitionist's dream come true!!!

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 2:01:18 PM   
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Hmmmm...I'd be checking the seats before I sat....

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 2:11:50 PM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		I went to a party yesterday (granted it was a CBT launch party) and I was shocked how cool I was with it, i only realised that I was fine when I watched my friends eyes grow wide when all the men were walking around ith various contraptions on, there didnt seem to be any nerves with any of the guys (I spoke to a few) If it was me christ knows.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 2:13:25 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		Generally speaking, at our local club, the totally nekkid sub/slave/bottoms are usually in the rooms where they are playing.  (We have 6 themed rooms, a huge social area, a bigger open room for various types of play, two smaller social areas and a kitchen). 

Sometimes you'll see nekkid people in the halls or being lead around on a leash....... sometimes they're even in the kitchen.  And although I am not a prude about nudity, I don't want some guy's Mr. Winky waving at me while I'm having chips and dip, so I'm not always thrilled when they're parading around the foods.

Most people stay clothed or semi-clothed unless they are playing.  And some nights things are just a little wilder than other nights.  It really varies.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 2:39:07 PM   
angelwithhonor


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Status: offline 		giggles at BRNangel's comment. Mr. winky flopping over the chip and dip!!!!!!

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 2:50:50 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		Hehe, there's usually people in various stages of undress at the parties I've gone too.

I'm shy about being totally nude though... my philosophy is "I'm not getting nekkid until ALL of you are naked, damnit!"

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 2:57:07 PM   
KCherry


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Status: offline 		I have been to a few parties where nudity was rampant and no not everyone in attendence was a size 2 or even a size 6 or a size 20 anyway you see where I am going with that. The point is if a person wants to be naked at a party I have never seen anyone have a problem with it, and its only uncomfortable for a small period of time, at least for me. If you've seen one naked girl/guy you've seen them all, same bits, different size variations. lol.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 3:00:39 PM   
MistressCamille


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ORIGINAL: lanie38

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Hmmmm...I'd be checking the seats before I sat....


At the parties I go to it is required to sit on a towel if nude or without panties. And it's not just the submissives that are nude. There is a hot tub there and the rules are no clothes allowed if you get in.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 3:05:55 PM   
HandSolo


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

I'm shy about being totally nude though... my philosophy is "I'm not getting nekkid until ALL of you are naked, damnit!"



Done! Your turn.


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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 3:10:25 PM   
Lynnxz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HandSolo

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

I'm shy about being totally nude though... my philosophy is "I'm not getting nekkid until ALL of you are naked, damnit!"



Done! Your turn.



Pft... I'm always fricking naked at home. Or some variation of naked.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 3:41:36 PM   
bruisedpetals


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Status: offline 		I think that as long as it's not an outdoor event with hot grills spitting grease, it's all good .. 

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 3:53:24 PM   
SlaveRayleene


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Status: offline 		Been naked except for shoes, in clubs where I've taken public whippings. I dont think twice about the crowds but then I am an exhibitionist.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

quote:

...what was it like walking into a room full of strangers butt naked...


Absolutely glorious...it's an exhibitionist's dream come true!!!


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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 4:06:02 PM   
darchChylde


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Pft... I'm always fricking naked at home. Or some variation of naked.



Even fully-clothed is a variation of naked.  LoL

To the OP, in my early 20's i was often fully nude at parties; but now i don't have the 'perfect' body and i'm very nervous about the prospect.  Not too mention my understanding that most women don't care to see a guy's twig and berries unless she wants to be with that particular fella.


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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 4:10:32 PM   
DominantJenny


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ORIGINAL: darchChylde
Not too mention my understanding that most women don't care to see a guy's twig and berries unless she wants to be with that particular fella.


Huh? I mean, I've no more aversion to seeing a naked man than I do a naked woman...which would be none at all and often quite the opposite. I've never gathered that most women don't wanna see the fun guy bits...

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 5:34:39 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Having spent a weekend in this position...

At first, you're a little self consious, especially if you're late and are the only one getting undressed. But, after a while, with others also undressed, you forget about it...unless you have real nudity or body images issues.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 4/28/2008 7:53:33 PM   
madshysoul


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Status: offline 		There is no particular social requirement in my area. I've been known to spend the entire night fully-dressed, and/or in varying levels of nekkid.

Did have one night I spent the entire night in a leather hood/gag and nothing else. That was fun (though a bit chilly.)


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