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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/1/2008 12:15:11 PM

MadameXTC

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well... lemme see I have been the naked submissive at the party and I have been the clothed person around the naked submissives. It is all about the right timing and place. For me the first time I had to become naked in front of a crowd I was scared to death. It was a part of my punishment and also a test at pushing my limits. I learned one valuable thing about being the naked submissive, usually you are more afraid of being naked then the people looking at you while your naked. Once you can take a deep breath and be comfortable with who you are then theres not much that you cannot do. Sounds weird but if your a submissive ordered to strip in front of a stranger you will understand.
On the other side of things.. being around naked submissives for me is uncomfortable at times.. you want to look, but find that it is really rude if you start staring. Then you have thoughts running through your mind of I wonder how that person feels. Sometimes when you are around naked submissives it destracts from what you are supposed to be doing. Imagine a Dominant flogging his slave and suddenly a hot nude woman walks by with alligator clips on her nipples.. think he might forget what he was doing for a moment? hahaha .Like I said with the right timing and place, nudity is a good thing.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/2/2008 2:17:11 AM

blueskyboy

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i have bartended and served with a bow tie and boxers...and another time naked and hooked to the ceiling in a bedroom, blindfolded and left for all to visit as initiation ritual proir to collaring...
generally, after the partygoers get a drink or two it is fun...before that it is slightly uncomfortable...only wet underarms uncomfortable though - sort of a rush after...well worth it :)

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/2/2008 3:36:34 AM

sunshinemiss

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hey everybody...

i was naked at a party once.. and there was a gal whose job it was to keepmy nipples hard (lots of ice) and then pour wax on them. the wax molds of my nipples were the party favors... that was fun... it would have been easier if i'd been blindfolded, but hey... whatever... Oh, but that was a good 15 years ago... times change, and so do bodies... but i'd still do it...

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/2/2008 6:15:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

And although I am not a prude about nudity, I don't want some guy's Mr. Winky waving at me while I'm having chips and dip...

However, if Mr. Winky is pointing the way to the guacamole, i would be most appreciative!

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/3/2008 12:01:33 PM

MistressDollys

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There have been quite few private parties and fetish events that i've been to where the subs are pretty much naked. i guess it depended on the requirements of the Owner as to whether their sub undresses completely. i was usually naked at these events or within a short order was told to strip and assume the appropriate position.

It took a little at first to get over the shock and embarrassment but after a while it just seemed natural and now i don't think twice about seeing others naked or being in the same state as them. Besides it makes my Owner happy and that's the most important thing.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 9:28:08 AM

chellekitty

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naked subs at parties? well, i, for one, would expect it...who wants to undress their sandwhich before they eat it?

as for the submissives and slaves and other people who are bottoming....well...i have never been to a party where we were required to strip at the door, but i am usually the first to loose my clothes...unless they are going to be cut off me...exhibitionist that i am...and yes, always carry a towel or blanket to sit on...

and since food was mentioned...i am highly in favor of high stomach/chest level bars for food rather than below the waist tables...i'm sorry...hair falls out all the time and i don't want short and curlies in my vegtable dip....

chelle

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 2:35:19 PM

junecleaver

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ORIGINAL: lally3

hi,

has anyone heard of or gone to bdsm parties where the submissives are completely naked. apparently this happens in paris alot and birmingham.

have any subs here gone to one of these parties and what was it like walking into a room full of strangers butt naked.

my initial reaction was.... eek! but, then i got to thinking, if all the other subs are naked, maybe it wouldnt be so bad...

Do you mean nudity as a requirement of the party? If so, I think that would be an awesome idea.

Nudity is not a big deal to me. Naked girls are hotter than naked guys, but either way I don't care. My Dominant wouldn't hestitate to strip me in front of people, but he'd never take his own clothes off. It's like...a double standard.

My advice would be to not take yourself quite so seriously. The first time I demo bottomed I was kind of nervous about just being naked while he explained what he was doing. But when it came time to take my clothes off everyone was smiling and laughing and one guy was humming a lovely 'berm chica berm berm' stripping/porn kind of thing as I undressed. It made is easier to relax and just enjoy being a part of it.

I am a closet attention slut so for me being the only girl naked in the room is usually more fun than being one of many.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 4:11:40 PM

SubJordanTyler

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I agree - being the only naked sub in the room is better than being one of many. I love all eyes on me while I'm getting fucked in the ass or having my cock and balls tortured. Such a huge rush of energy!!

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 4:16:34 PM

YourhandMyAss

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That for me is so true, the first time i got naked at a play party I was all self contious and kind of covering up with my arms, an then I climbed on to the table an he began and I forgot all about being naked or that people might watch or anything but us and how fun it was. I have no qualms about looking though, if someone is naked and I want to admire their body I will. I don't stare but I do look them over once an then go about my business.

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ORIGINAL: MadameXTC

I learned one valuable thing about being the naked submissive, usually you are more afraid of being naked then the people looking at you while your naked. Once you can take a deep breath and be comfortable with who you are then theres not much that you cannot do. Sounds weird but if your a submissive ordered to strip in front of a stranger you will understand.
On the other side of things.. being around naked submissives for me is uncomfortable at times.. you want to look, but find that it is really rude if you start staring.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 7:10:48 PM

LPslittleclip

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my M'Lady likes me nude i have been to some parties where the rules around food had some limits but its really up to the Doms/Tops/Masters to decide and if it pleases my M'Lady then i will do so. each event is going to be different and of course where and when as well but just relax and trust your Dom and you will be fine.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 7:41:23 PM

CoasttoCoast

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naked at a play party last night at my top's request. Could not make my half-erection go away. that kind of sucked. :(

otherwise, when i'm not erect, i don't give a shit about being naked.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 7:53:24 PM

patwi

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I just...wow. *laugh* I couldn't do it, but I admire you all who would. If it was a requirement for a party well then my butt would be sitting at home. Then again, I'm the person too shy to do things like dance lessons, so going nude at a party, even if my <insert dom title here> told me to do it. Then again, we're both not the scene/party types, so it isn't an issue.

If I checkmark that as a hard limit does it make it ok to say no?

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 7:58:11 PM

CoasttoCoast

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i'm actually pretty surprised at my ability to carry on conversations with fully clothed people while naked and kneeling, and keep my semi-cocky attitude.

I can't tell if it's confidence or or just a lack of common sense.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 8:02:13 PM

patwi

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CoasttoCoast

i'm actually pretty surprised at my ability to carry on conversations with fully clothed people while naked and kneeling, and keep my semi-cocky attitude.

I can't tell if it's confidence or or just a lack of common sense.

I'm pretty sure I'd be able to do nothing more than pull the cushions from the couches for cover and hide behind pillows. But, from behind pillows I bet i'd be able to hold a good conversation! *laughs*

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 8:23:00 PM

CoasttoCoast

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quote:

ORIGINAL: patwi

quote:

ORIGINAL: CoasttoCoast

i'm actually pretty surprised at my ability to carry on conversations with fully clothed people while naked and kneeling, and keep my semi-cocky attitude.

I can't tell if it's confidence or or just a lack of common sense.

I'm pretty sure I'd be able to do nothing more than pull the cushions from the couches for cover and hide behind pillows. But, from behind pillows I bet i'd be able to hold a good conversation! *laughs*

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I'm pretty sure I'd be able to do nothing more than pull the cushions from the couches for cover and hide behind pillows. But, from behind pillows I bet i'd be able to hold a good conversation! *laughs*

haha. I was initially holding my jeans in my hand, arms crossed. I thought I wasbeing some what clever, but my top immdiately said "... are you trying to hide behind your jeans?"

".... maybe..."

"Put them down. Now"

curses. Foiled again.

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RE: naked subs at parties - 5/4/2008 11:07:26 PM

luv4pashn

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People make bets on how quickly i'll be naked at a party. LOL. Clothes are optional, but nakedness is too. I supposed it's up to the Master, Mistress, Dom/me or submissive whether or not someone wears clothes. As a single submissive, i do as i please and nakedness is generally what i please.. LOL.

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