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Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 12:50:50 PM

cravetobehis

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Hello,

I am not a novice submissive..but am a novice to humiliation. This is an area i am very interested in exploring.
Certain names i do enjoy..i have a question ..What are some of the names that you would enjoy hearing in a humiliation scene? Of course the names would reflect the submissive/bottom and what they can handle and want.

Just looking for ideas and see what would push my buttons, so i can relate it back to my Sir.

Thank you .

cravetobehis

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 12:57:08 PM

chamberqueen

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Of course it has to do with whether we are in a session and the context, but I like being called "Daddy's dirty little slut". Obviously, at a restaurant I might take it differently.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 1:14:45 PM

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Master calls me "cumguzzler"...... He's so romantic!

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 1:22:06 PM

metalmiss

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Its not about the words, its the context.. Personally all i need is a nice gruff tone and a scottish accent at just the right moment *swoons* It doesn't so much matter what He's saying.. and He can be *very* creative at times.. just that its my Daddy thats pouring complete and utter verbal filth into my poor innocent ears *grins*

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 1:27:12 PM

OmegaG

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RavenMuse has a scottish accent? *swoons*

For me, as with others, its the context. Anything he calls me during a scene is a term of endearment. My humiliation tends to be inwardly driven, if I do something totally idiotic and he points it out, I feel the humiliation because it's already in me.

When my daughter's father calls me a bitch as I'm escorting him out of my house because of his uncivilized behaviour, I take it as a compliment. It's all in the presentation.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 1:41:46 PM

metalmiss

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OmegaG
RavenMuse has a scottish accent? *swoons*

Yep.. He's Glaswegian..

He usually speaks in an english accent but that just makes Him switching back to it all the sweeter

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 1:44:26 PM

BBWnNC72

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When my Dom and i are playing, i melt when He calls me His little slut or asks me "who owns you slut?"
now, call me that and you arent my Dom or i am not in a scene with you, well, hope you have great insurance. LOL

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 3:17:53 PM

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It's the word "my", not what comes after it... as in, "my slutty bitch." If the words come without the "my", it turns me cold, as in, "you are a slutty bitch."

In the first instance, I am doing whatever he wants (and that "he" can be just a temporary play partner), and the farther we are going from what the typical "good girl" does, the better. It's a headspace thing; I can open my soul and be a very "bad" girl because "he" allows me to, "he" is making it okay, and "he" is keeping me safe.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 3:24:45 PM

bruisedpetals

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

It's the word "my", not what comes after it... as in, "my slutty bitch." If the words come without the "my", it turns me cold, as in, "you are a slutty bitch."

In the first instance, I am doing whatever he wants (and that "he" can be just a temporary play partner), and the farther we are going from what the typical "good girl" does, the better. It's a headspace thing; I can open my soul and be a very "bad" girl because "he" allows me to, "he" is making it okay, and "he" is keeping me safe.

Cali
(who really, truly, is a very, very good girl)

I agree, its the 'My' that does it for me .. or when he says to me 'what are you to me? Tell me?' ... and I have to repeat verbatim whatever 'My' he has baptised me. If I don't say it loud enough, him grabbing a handful of my hair and whispering into my ear 'what are you to me, tell me?' generally gets me hot enough to repeat what ever he wants me to repeat! Hell, I'd say 'I am YOUR rusty wheelbarrow, Master' if he asked me like that!

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 3:29:53 PM

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I looooove humiliation! The others are right, though. It's mostly the situation and not so much the words. For example:

Dom: Have you been playing with your pussy, little girl? *spoken like a stern daddy catching you doing something you shouldn't*

Sub: *surprised and guilty look* Um....yes, Daddy. I just thought I'd get ready for you is all....

Dom: Whore! *frown* Did you ask if you could play with it?

Sub: Ummm....noooooo.....*shifts uncomfortably*

Dom: *approaching you* Did you cum, you horny slut?

Sub: No, of course not, Daddy!

Dom: Is your pussy nice and wet for me? Spread it and let me see.

Sub: Yes, Daddy. *slightly embarrassed*

Dom: *sticks his cock in and makes wet noises* Mmhmm...you're a sloppy wet cunt.

Sub: *dying of embarrassment*

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 3:31:29 PM

CalifChick

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Oh myyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 3:38:15 PM

bruisedpetals

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omg! Where you listening outside my bedroom door the other evening, FlamingRedhead!

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 4:23:48 PM

FlamingRedhead

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LOL I wish! I like to watch. *nods a lot* I like doing it even more, though.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 4:46:47 PM

cravetobehis

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Oh thank you!!!...wow what great responses!

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 6:11:02 PM

tebe12345

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We use fucktoy a lot, which I think has a good ring to it

I love everyone else's responses though, and I definitely think context matters. We don't use the "my" a lot, but when we're playing sweet, it's angel, and when it's naughty, it's fucktoy or slut.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 6:31:32 PM

greenearth21

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FlamingRedhead

I looooove humiliation! The others are right, though. It's mostly the situation and not so much the words. For example:

Dom: Have you been playing with your pussy, little girl? *spoken like a stern daddy catching you doing something you shouldn't*

Sub: *surprised and guilty look* Um....yes, Daddy. I just thought I'd get ready for you is all....

Dom: Whore! *frown* Did you ask if you could play with it?

Sub: Ummm....noooooo.....*shifts uncomfortably*

Dom: *approaching you* Did you cum, you horny slut?

Sub: No, of course not, Daddy!

Dom: Is your pussy nice and wet for me? Spread it and let me see.

Sub: Yes, Daddy. *slightly embarrassed*

Dom: *sticks his cock in and makes wet noises* Mmhmm...you're a sloppy wet cunt.

Sub: *dying of embarrassment*

woooooo *fans herself*

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 6:47:36 PM

BRNaughtyAngel

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Oh my........ we need that "swooning" smiley from the collarme side.

quote:

ORIGINAL: FlamingRedhead

I looooove humiliation! The others are right, though. It's mostly the situation and not so much the words. For example:

Dom: Have you been playing with your pussy, little girl? *spoken like a stern daddy catching you doing something you shouldn't*

Sub: *surprised and guilty look* Um....yes, Daddy. I just thought I'd get ready for you is all....

Dom: Whore! *frown* Did you ask if you could play with it?

Sub: Ummm....noooooo.....*shifts uncomfortably*

Dom: *approaching you* Did you cum, you horny slut?

Sub: No, of course not, Daddy!

Dom: Is your pussy nice and wet for me? Spread it and let me see.

Sub: Yes, Daddy. *slightly embarrassed*

Dom: *sticks his cock in and makes wet noises* Mmhmm...you're a sloppy wet cunt.

Sub: *dying of embarrassment*

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 7:23:56 PM

justnewsub

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oh wow FlamingRedhead.... i needed that... thank you! :)

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 7:44:11 PM

lizcgirl

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quote:

When my Dom and i are playing, i melt when He calls me His little slut or asks me "who owns you slut?"
now, call me that and you arent my Dom or i am not in a scene with you, well, hope you have great insurance. LOL

I couldn't agree more! What my Daddy calls me is for HIM, not for any guy walking down the street or trying to be dirty with me, I'd take it as an insult.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 4/28/2008 8:01:45 PM

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