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Akinta -> RE: a question of names... (5/11/2008 12:22:57 AM)
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ORIGINAL: IamHiisBeloved
The reason I ask, is we live in a rural small town, and even calling him Sir, or Daddy is not feasible without drawing attention.
Small towns like that can be a problem, but you need to become more comfortable with your choices in life, and care less what others think. They gossip only because they don't understand. Shove it in their faces and enjoy it ;) Mine calls me Master often when we're in "public" but not around people we know. There she'll call me various things dependant on mood and my tone to her. There's been a few times I've given her a direct order in front of friends and she just said 'yes, master' and went about it. They were like 'we always knew you were a manwhore. now we know it' and sighed, lol. Dominant is as dominant does, everyone knows what I am, even if they don't admit it to themselves =D But we DO try to keep it reasonable. And petnames are the best way to do it in front of family, which you could consider your entire town to be from how you posted. So what to say then.. I call her precious, she calls me nar. It's her own lil made up word, she's had it forever. It's sort of a word that means "i want to say something I can't say here", and it tends to get tossed around a lot when we visit parents, hehe. I think we had an entire conversation consisting of that word once, and while my parents thought we were crazy, she couldn't wait for them to go to bed....
So you have to find what works best and grab hold of that and treasure it like you do him, that's all that really matters. Their name, a pet name, or a made up word, all have the same power when used properly.
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