It sounds like he's maybe a tad insecure about Daddy. He wanted to play "He who cares least wins", and you won. You played the card he threw down. Ultimatums after just 1 meeting just don't work, and are usually made by the insecure so they won't have to earn anything- it's just easier to demand it, in a round-about way. A phrase I've used is "Poof ! Be gone !".
I still can't get over him demanding YOU beg HIM.... I mean I know Doms have egos but shit sister, that takes the cake!
it's funny that you mentioned ego.
he told me (before asking me to beg) that it was MY ego (not his) keeping me from returning back to him. i told him - my ego's not the thing in question ...it's yours preventing y-o-u from crawling on your hands and knees back to me.