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Sundowner -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 8:50:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hejira92

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I'm confused- are we saying that whores can't have masters? 


I have to agree. Are we so shallow and judgmental that just because she chooses to be a "professional" that this forum has decided that that is mutually exclusive from being a submissive?
 
I think taking money for sex is in many ways just another service job. It is separate from your personal life. True, recruiting business here is tacky, but did she solicit or just provide info as to who she is?
 
Is she not "twue" because she's a whore?
 
Am I out of step with American society? Damn right- and not changing soon.


Oh hejira - have one of those big smoochy (maybe ever-so-slightly tacky but still fun) hug things.

I'm a whore and I'm bloody good at it. A whore in the sense that I provide specialist services for money to people; maybe mine are software and admin services in a financial specialism, but they're still services and I get as close to my clients as I can and hope to have them as friends. (They won't stay friends for that long if they don't pay me mind you, but I socialise with them and count many of them as good friends - a relationship most whores aim for).

So maybe I don't mind if my clients are overweight or ugly (as long as they're nice) but my hourly rate is a few times op's rate and that helps. And essentially where's the difference?

I love many many other whores to bits - whether they deal in software services or personal services. And - surprise - the ones I know are really nice people; they're people just like me!

I think commercial sex is fine - on whatever basis. It can be so helpful for all sorts of people - the giver and the taker - you could run a thread for weeks just on what benefits prostitution/pro-domme/pro-sub services can give! Selling stuff or services for money is so not a bad thing and doesn't make the seller or the buyer a bad person. Else I'm a bad person both ways on a frequent basis. 

So I'm with LA and hejira.

And btw - there's a thread somewhere else with loads of wonderful charming ladies saying how hot and happy they feel when their master tells them they're his whore. Just saying  [sm=smile.gif]




Sundowner -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 8:58:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hejira92

True, recruiting business here is tacky


Er ... hejira? Sorry to correct you but no. Is a wonderful and considerate and helpful thing for people who would like to meet professionals. And - tricky to know whether I've got this right - for the op it is a great way for her to identify people who might make great clients.

So maybe take it as a compliment Cali? Sheesh - if I were looking for clients I'd have worked out long ago that you're hot and I'd be targetting you - any way I could  [;)]




CalifChick -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 9:41:36 AM)

It's not the profession or the rate.  It's the fact that when you see what she has posted elsewhere, the whole innocent naivete is just an act.  She knows exactly what she's doing.

Cali




hejira92 -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 10:15:30 AM)

I don't know......
 
Knowing all about sex and then--- knowing all about D/s sex are two different things.
 
I considered myself a very experienced/knowledgable (sp?) bisexual woman and then I discovered BDSM and WHAM! --- Whole new world! Kid in a candy store! (YAY!)




Maya2001 -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 10:30:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

It's not the profession or the rate.  It's the fact that when you see what she has posted elsewhere, the whole innocent naivete is just an act.  She knows exactly what she's doing.

Cali


This is my issue too...my comments had nothing to do with her profession ,  her naivity in her posts came across like that of a 13 year old having her first major crush instead of that of a sexually experienced mature  adult. 





xxblushesxx -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 11:10:44 AM)

As I stated earlier though, she did ask others in her profession if they had masters...and she specifically said 'not pimps, masters'. So, yes, I do think that this may be a new experience for her, and as such, she wanted to scream it to the world.
The issue I had with her at first was that I honestly didn't think she was real.
But she is.
I'm not sure she came across as naive so much (except in the fact that she allowed this man to control every aspect of her life including her private accounts and business accounts...which is quite naive) as excited.
Personally, I feel bad because I was quite rude to her because honestly I didn't believe half the stuff she said.
When in sub-frenzy, it's quite often like youthful infatuation times 10...although at my age, that can look kinda silly. Idk..
(and yes, I definitely think that a prostitute can have a master...although I think if you do, you should be very careful not to get taken advantage of. But, I suppose we all have to do that.)




lanie38 -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 12:11:59 PM)

~fast reply~

I got an email too....and I still think the she is a he...




slavegirljoy -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 1:37:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

So, yes, I do think that this may be a new experience for her, and as such, she wanted to scream it to the world.


This is the same way that i viewed what she was writing.  And, i think that many, who are in the business of sexual service, would say that there is a huge difference between having sex with a customer and having an intimate, sexual relationship.  In fact, i would think that, finding that special someone to have a relationship with, after doing it professionally, would be something to shout about.
 
joy
Owned servant of Master David




eyesopened -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 1:40:02 PM)

 i didn't get an email either.  She looked at my profile but no email.  But then  again, she is picky, right?




xxblushesxx -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 5:33:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

i didn't get an email either.  She looked at my profile but no email.  But then  again, she is picky, right?


oh Gawd...are we ugly, and fat?!!! *sobs uncontrollably*




Maya2001 -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/4/2008 7:41:01 PM)

Well  all I can say is I hope she does not get burned too badly,  but if not an act... I suspect she will be having a very hard fall in the near future...  just hope she is mentally/emotionally stronger than she appears to be.




lubegirl -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/5/2008 7:38:41 PM)

Good luck with in the future.  We'll miss you around here.  You were actually kind of cute, all bubbly and whatnot.

Who said I was leaving?
i contacted you and a few other ladies after reading the nonsense that i sounded like a MAN, because I wanted to befriend you and allow you to hear my feminine voice see that I am not a MAN.
Good grief! 
Thank you for lowering yourself in order to prove to the community that I infact am not a MAN. As far as "conning" anyone I have been honest in my postings for the love and respect that i have for my KING.
He is my KING, he exceeds the role of any DOM MASTER. i am constantly in awe with how much control HE has over my very being. I love HIM so very much that some times i burst out in tears crying, tears of joy! I met my MASTER at the airport and was so turned on with HIS confident demeanor as he approached me after we exchanged smiles. My life has not been the same since that day. i love being HIS pet.
Everytime i think about HIM and how much i truly do love being HIS collared slave it sends a very warm feeling in my heart that then gives me an incredible desire to be worshiping HIM.
fellowslaves and MASTERS, i am disappointed that the board has a few members that enjoy creating drama, i was astonished to find out that cali would actually google a number and disregard any privacy i may have then announce to the community that i am indeed an adult entertainer. Especially after my private message was light and friendly!
How would it make any of you feel if a member of this community decided to google your number then announce to the community who you are and what profession you are in.
 
I am not ashamed of what I do, i earn a very good living and LOVE IT more than i did in corporate america and it turns DADDY on!
WOO-HOO! I am one lucky bitch!
I NEVER had any intentions of solicitation on here, CollarMe has been and will continue to be very helpful as i trangress into a better slave for my MASTER.
MASTER and i are both very openminded and we embrace the type of lifestyle that allows HIM to be happier sexually and sometimes that does include swinging with others in the lifestyle, and whatever makes DADDY happy makes me happy simply because DADDY is always RIGHT!
The impression of a woman in my type of industry has such a negative outlook i want to express that it is not all drugs and pimps or unsafe sex. It is providing an erotic fantasy to many discreet busy professional men that do not desire the entanglements of relationships.
I am also perfect for this because i am a highly sexed woman with a generous MASTER that allows HIS property the freedom to enjoy herself as he is out being famous. Yes, my MASTER is a very POWERFUL  MAN in AND out of the lifestyle and I am laughing so hard just thinking what would have happened if instead i gave cali girl HIS number instead! HE is someone that would make her nervous if she googled HIS number and found HIS name. i am so very greatful to even be allowed to be in HIS presence!
I am one lucky bitch..:) and will continue to serve, please and obey HIM until the day of my last breath.
I hope you find peace within yourself cali and learn to embrace what GOD and the universe has given you too.
 
lubegirl
 

 




AquaticSub -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/5/2008 8:13:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lubegirl

Yes, my MASTER is a very POWERFUL  MAN in AND out of the lifestyle and I am laughing so hard just thinking what would have happened if instead i gave cali girl HIS number instead! HE is someone that would make her nervous if she googled HIS number and found HIS name. i am so very greatful to even be allowed to be in HIS presence!
I am one lucky bitch..:) and will continue to serve, please and obey HIM until the day of my last breath.
I hope you find peace within yourself cali and learn to embrace what GOD and the universe has given you too.
 
lubegirl
 

 


Ok now that... IMHO, just makes and yours look silly. No one who is really powerful needs someone shouting about how powerful they are. If they really are, they probably don't even want you talking about it all things considered.




slavegirljoy -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/5/2008 8:45:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lubegirl

i was astonished to find out that cali would actually google a number and disregard any privacy i may have then announce to the community that i am indeed an adult entertainer. Especially after my private message was light and friendly!

How would it make any of you feel if a member of this community decided to google your number then announce to the community who you are and what profession you are in.


To me, sharing information from a private email and the information that was found through Google was very poor form.  Seeing that sort of information was allowed to be posted here was a surprise and a disappointment to me.
 
joy
Owned servant of Master David




christine1 -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/5/2008 8:51:18 PM)

oh god, the purple writing has made me decide to go respond to the, "yank your hair out and talk to a tree trunk thread"  

[8|]




CalifChick -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/5/2008 8:56:16 PM)

What sort of information Joy?  I didn't post anything from her random spam email that she apparently sent to a lot of people.  I have never spoken to her in cmail, I have never spoken to her in IM, and I have certainly never spoken to her on the phone.  So she spammed me.  Do you really give out YOUR phone number to people you've never had private contact with? I didn't even post her real name, which she feels open enough to post all over the internet WITH her phone number.

And lubegirl? Trying to prove to me that you're not a man?  I never said you were a man.  Unless you're boinking the head of the FBI or the President, whoever you're boinking wouldn't make me nervous.  Apparently "powerful" men make you more nervous than they make me.

Cali




slavegirljoy -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/6/2008 7:03:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

What sort of information Joy?  I didn't post anything from her random spam email that she apparently sent to a lot of people.  I have never spoken to her in cmail, I have never spoken to her in IM, and I have certainly never spoken to her on the phone.  So she spammed me.  Do you really give out YOUR phone number to people you've never had private contact with? I didn't even post her real name, which she feels open enough to post all over the internet WITH her phone number.

In my opinion, bringing a private email into this discussion and revealing the occupation of the OP, which you discovered by doing a Google search using the personal information provided in the private email, was in poor taste and not in keeping with the 'spirit' of these forums.
 
The information you revealed in that post was, to me, irrelevant to the discussion at hand and seemed to be posted meerly as an attempt to discredit or embarrass the OP on account of her profession. 
 
It was good of you not to post "her real name", even though, given her profession, it's highly doubtful that is "her real name" that she has posted in her internet ads. 
 
Her email didn't seem to be "random", as it was sent to very specific people posting on this thread.  If sending a fellow CM member (who you have never chatted with or had other communication with, outside of these forums) a private email is considered "spamming" then i have been "spammed" numerous times by my fellow CMers and have also been guilty of "spamming" others on this site.  Whatever information is included in a private email is up to the person sending it and i, for one, respect the privacy of the information that is sent to me. 
 
Exposing her profession in this discussion seemed, to me, like nothing more than  schoolyard tattletale tactics.  And, reading that post gave me a bad case of the 'ickies'.  i just thought that the people contributing to the intelligent conversation in this forum were above that sort of thing.
 
joy
Owned servant of Master David




xxblushesxx -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/6/2008 6:19:53 PM)

Hmmm...
Well...I do know that she sent out the number she uses for her professional life to quite a number of people who post here, and who she doesn't know or trust as much as I do.
Cali may or may not have done the research that showed her the information she discovered, but, apparently, the person who gave her the info was not very worried about someone finding out.
Perhaps she even wanted/expected someone to do just that, as, it's a very typical thing when given a name/number these days of someone you don't know. Google is quite common, as are other search features.
I'm actually just surprised and happy to see that lubegirl is actually a real person. And Cali was just sharing information she had learned with all of us. Honestly, in a way, she did lubegirl a favor, 'cause I never would have believed she was anything other than someone's imagination until I found out otherwise.
I really don't care what you do for a living; and honestly, if you can make $400. pr hour making people feel good about themselves, then more power to you. (except for the pain it may cause others)
So, anyway, lubegirl, I am sorry that I was rude to you when I didn't think you were really who you said you were.
And Cali, I don't think you were trying to hurt anyone, just keeping us from being taken advantage of.

~Christina




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/6/2008 8:05:34 PM)

It is generally bad form to discuss private emails in public without getting the other persons permission first, and even worse form to research them and share information they have not willingly given already.

It happens, obviously, and there's not much you can do about it- but it's still bad form and bad netiquette.




slavegirljoy -> RE: MASTERS SEXUAL PLEASURE.... (5/6/2008 8:34:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Hmmm...
Well...I do know that she sent out the number she uses for her professional life to quite a number of people who post here, and who she doesn't know or trust as much as I do.

This is true but, what does that have to do with the discussion that was taking place on this thread that centered around a post made by a relatively 'new' slave about how much she is amazed by the way this type of relationship has changed her?

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Cali may or may not have done the research that showed her the information she discovered, but, apparently, the person who gave her the info was not very worried about someone finding out.

Well, she said that she did a Google search using the phone number provided in the email, which, even if it was sent to several different people, was still a private email to each person and, in my view, would have been better handled in private, with a reply email, rather than publically responding to it on this forum. 

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Perhaps she even wanted/expected someone to do just that, as, it's a very typical thing when given a name/number these days of someone you don't know.

It didn't sound to me like that was something she wanted, since she posted:
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ORIGINAL: lubegirl

fellowslaves and MASTERS, i am disappointed that the board has a few members that enjoy creating drama, i was astonished to find out that cali would actually google a number and disregard any privacy i may have then announce to the community that i am indeed an adult entertainer. Especially after my private message was light and friendly!
How would it make any of you feel if a member of this community decided to google your number then announce to the community who you are and what profession you are in.

It seems more likely, to me, that the emails were sent out in an attempt to make contact with certain members of CM that she had an interest in, since she stated:
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ORIGINAL: lubegirl

MASTER and i are both very openminded and we embrace the type of lifestyle that allows HIM to be happier sexually and sometimes that does include swinging with others in the lifestyle

At least, that's the way that i viewed her email, as an invitation to make personal contact with others in this 'lifestyle', and nothing more.  But, i could be mistaken.

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I'm actually just surprised and happy to see that lubegirl is actually a real person. And Cali was just sharing information she had learned with all of us. Honestly, in a way, she did lubegirl a favor, 'cause I never would have believed she was anything other than someone's imagination until I found out otherwise.

A few people questioned lubegirl's authenticity but, not all of us did.  People question the authenticity of many posters on this site, does that mean that someone needs to do a search to find out more about them, in order to 'out' them on here, with the information that may turn up?
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I really don't care what you do for a living; and honestly, if you can make $400. pr hour making people feel good about themselves, then more power to you. (except for the pain it may cause others)

Obviously, lubegirl is aware that some people, even those on this alternative, kink-friendly site, have a less than positive opinion about her profession, as reflected in this post:
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ORIGINAL: lubegirl
The impression of a woman in my type of industry has such a negative outlook

i understand and respect your opinon about this issue but, as i said, it's my opinion that this thread went from being a discussion about a very exuberant 'newbie' and a subsequent discussion about 'subfrenzy' to becoming an 'outing her as a for hire sex provider' and that was unnecessary to the discussion and in poor taste. No doubt, others have different opinions about this issue.
 
joy
Owned servant of Master David




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