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strongnsubmissiv -> Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 3:21:33 PM)
... till i saw a Femdom profile with this... The first task is for you to pay off my debts which equal 18,000 Do not come to me grovelling that you can't or won't do these things. I know this topic has been beat to death, but it saddens me to see such blatant opportunism. It's one thing to say that financial domination is a legitimate kink, but to actually state a specific dollar amount in a profile is just pathetic. I suspect she thinks that submissive men are chumps to fall for that kind of crap, and it just saddens me. Takes all kinds i guess.. sns

JustaTop -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 3:25:12 PM)
Freeloaders exist on more than one side of the whip.

ownedjulia -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 3:28:55 PM)
If they do..... more fool them.

Marx -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 3:30:43 PM)
My dear friend i'm not suprised! There are many who would use BDSM as a means to feathering their nest! The Yuppie-fication of this scene is pandemic!

thetammyjo -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 3:33:22 PM)
What is really sad is that someone might think he needs to do this. He doesn't. He just needs to be himself and get involved in his local community. Over time he will make friends and find partners. It won't be tomorrow or next week, maybe not even for a few years, but he'll learn a lot about himself and about BDSM as he gets involved.

LadyJulieAnn -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 3:37:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strongnsubmissiv ... till i saw a Femdom profile with this... The first task is for you to pay off my debts which equal 18,000 Do not come to me grovelling that you can't or won't do these things. I know this topic has been beat to death, but it saddens me to see such blatant opportunism. It's one thing to say that financial domination is a legitimate kink, but to actually state a specific dollar amount in a profile is just pathetic. I suspect she thinks that submissive men are chumps to fall for that kind of crap, and it just saddens me. Takes all kinds i guess.. sns I suspect that she thinks that there is at least one submissive male who will fall for it, and that just might be the case, sadly. Be well, Julie

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 3:52:10 PM)
shrug At least its honest and forthright, much better than the doms who promise love and caring and instead only want sex toys and blow jobs.

subversiveone -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 4:04:58 PM)
preach on ES2 preach on!!!!

greenie -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 4:13:33 PM)
i am with you on that ES2!!!

angelic -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 4:18:29 PM)
That is so wrong, on so many levels. [image]local://upfiles/84187/5C5A673372924C4691BB7B514D963142.jpg[/image]

Phoenixandnika -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 4:21:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strongnsubmissiv ... till i saw a Femdom profile with this... The first task is for you to pay off my debts which equal 18,000 Do not come to me grovelling that you can't or won't do these things. I know this topic has been beat to death, but it saddens me to see such blatant opportunism. It's one thing to say that financial domination is a legitimate kink, but to actually state a specific dollar amount in a profile is just pathetic. I suspect she thinks that submissive men are chumps to fall for that kind of crap, and it just saddens me. Takes all kinds i guess.. sns I do not understand the outrage towards the one posting, I mean we live in a day and age of oppertunity and again and we are all adults. If as an adult someone chooses to do this no one is at fault but themselves for the out come. Nika{Phoenix}

angelic -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 4:26:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika quote: ORIGINAL: strongnsubmissiv ... till i saw a Femdom profile with this... The first task is for you to pay off my debts which equal 18,000 Do not come to me grovelling that you can't or won't do these things. I know this topic has been beat to death, but it saddens me to see such blatant opportunism. It's one thing to say that financial domination is a legitimate kink, but to actually state a specific dollar amount in a profile is just pathetic. I suspect she thinks that submissive men are chumps to fall for that kind of crap, and it just saddens me. Takes all kinds i guess.. sns I do not understand the outrage towards the one posting, I mean we live in a day and age of oppertunity and again and we are all adults. If as an adult someone chooses to do this no one is at fault but themselves for the out come. Nika{Phoenix} Doesn't make it 'right', imho. [image]local://upfiles/84187/76DB75B069DA496EAA05FA49E1AE699A.jpg[/image]

angelic -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 4:31:35 PM)
Maybe i'm just in a bad mood today (i've been having them of late). i'm curious if the exact same thing was posted by a Dom, if the responses would be the same? [image]local://upfiles/84187/A5F00D92925D4B438CD388574144EE67.jpg[/image]

JustaTop -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 4:37:17 PM)
No,they'd have flayed him alive,as if he were Hitler himself. Females are always the victims,never the abusers,right?

CaptCraig -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 4:40:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strongnsubmissiv ... till i saw a Femdom profile with this... The first task is for you to pay off my debts which equal 18,000 Do not come to me grovelling that you can't or won't do these things. I know this topic has been beat to death, but it saddens me to see such blatant opportunism. It's one thing to say that financial domination is a legitimate kink, but to actually state a specific dollar amount in a profile is just pathetic. I suspect she thinks that submissive men are chumps to fall for that kind of crap, and it just saddens me. Takes all kinds i guess.. sns Hmmm this is cool! Is it real? Is it a joke? I kind of like it! Maybe, just maybe there is someone out there who is willing and just maybe he will strike up a deal, who knows. What is more likely is that there are a few, very few subs who only wish they had the moola and respond because they are the ones who would do anything for an owner. Just maybe that's what she is looking for! It is so easy to get on our high ponies and demand certain behaviour from others, hell I've done it, so don't be too hasty in condemnation lest it's your turn tomorrow :)

AAkasha -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 4:49:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 shrug At least its honest and forthright, much better than the doms who promise love and caring and instead only want sex toys and blow jobs. Right. And of course it's obvious we can all say "well, that sucks, what a lame ad." But at least it states it all UP FRONT. Remember the submissive around here recently complaining about a femdom that scammed him for her rent, then some expensive toys, then went off to get together with a different sub? The woman that posted the ad could swindle the money with little or no effort because there's a sucker out there for sure. At least she lays it out there so the sub who decides he wants to consider it knows exactly what the deal is. He can negotiate from there, or move on. Yes, there are male doms that could be more honest in their posts and say "married dom who cheats looking for no strings attached sex disguised as submission. you give me blow jobs on my lunch hour and I'll treat you like a 'slave'. Keep in mind I will dump you for the next chick that comes around who is hotter." At least the female sub would know what she's getting into. I'll add one more thing. People hide debt. People get into relationships and deceive their partners and wait until the partner is in love THEN reveal their huge debt issues. Guess what -- if the person is in love, they suck it up and assume the debt. Some guys would rather know up front that a woman is seriously in debt before he even asks her out. At least a guy doesn't have to ask her. Akasha

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 4:57:20 PM)
What about submissive women? http://www.collarchat.com/m_177839/tm.htm quote: angelic I had given this man 4 years of me. All of me… my heart… my soul… all of it, my life. One week ago today, I found out that for the past 4 years that 300 miles was actually only 2 miles. That he was living with the mother of his children (no he is not their ‘birth’ father) and living 2 miles from me. While i was busy 'waiting' for him and yes... (gawd i'm a stupid idiot) giving him $ he was giving her a 'rock' engagement ring. quote: sweetpettjenny THE SAME happened to me, i purchased a car for him to drive, nice for him to lie that he was married, and she benefited from my car I wish men with money problems would have a convention and agree to spend money only on yourselves, and never let a woman touch you, or a dime of yours. [sm=rolleyes.gif] Why is it no one comes here complaining that some guy wants to be castrated? Why is money such a thing with men? Is it that money is "The" universal symbol of power, that a guy asking for a woman to destroy his cock and balls does not phase you at all, but a guy giving away HIS money horrifies you? M

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 5:03:15 PM)
quote: No,they'd have flayed him alive,as if he were Hitler himself. Females are always the victims,never the abusers,right? Read this There may very well be more females wanting to scam men for money, but definitely not sufficient to outnumber male liars who scam for other things. At least this particular female is courteous enough to be honest about her intentions, something I find more honorable than much of what the men do to get what they want. Maybe this thread will give you some insight into ways men take much more than money from women. http://www.collarchat.com/m_177839/tm.htm M

Mercnbeth -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 5:04:02 PM)
quote: Yes, there are male doms that could be more honest in their posts and say "married dom who cheats looking for no strings attached sex disguised as submission. you give me blow jobs on my lunch hour and I'll treat you like a 'slave'. Keep in mind I will dump you for the next chick that comes around who is hotter." Akasha, That's great! Unfortunately it's also too true. Honest communication is supposed to be best after all. I bet someone's stealing your idea and there's a profile with that description being created as we speak.

angelic -> RE: Thought i'd seen it all till... (10/14/2005 5:05:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig What about submissive women? http://www.collarchat.com/m_177839/tm.htm quote: angelic I had given this man 4 years of me. All of me… my heart… my soul… all of it, my life. One week ago today, I found out that for the past 4 years that 300 miles was actually only 2 miles. That he was living with the mother of his children (no he is not their ‘birth’ father) and living 2 miles from me. While i was busy 'waiting' for him and yes... (gawd i'm a stupid idiot) giving him $ he was giving her a 'rock' engagement ring. quote: sweetpettjenny THE SAME happened to me, i purchased a car for him to drive, nice for him to lie that he was married, and she benefited from my car I wish men with money problems would have a convention and agree to spend money only on yourselves, and never let a woman touch you, or a dime of yours. [sm=rolleyes.gif] Why is it no one comes here complaining that some guy wants to be castrated? Why is money such a thing with men? Is it that money is "The" universal symbol of power, that a guy asking for a woman to destroy his cock and balls does not phase you at all, but a guy giving away HIS money horrifies you? M my point exactly!!! Which is why i am so very offended. Would it have been any easier had he said 'just give me $'... noooooooo... i'd still be hurting for being played a fool. i KNOW i'm not saying this the way i want... there WILL be someone out there that falls for this... why does that make it right??? It doesn't! And someone will get hurt... probably badly... but the person with the profile can say 'oh i told you upfront'... get's her off the hook... right? Makes it ok, right? So what another human being gets trampled, right? 'She was honest' so that makes it ok... sorry but i think that's bs.

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