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RE: Do you masturbate? - 5/2/2008 6:25:17 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Masturbation is part of me exercising my own ability to be myself. I also consider it on some level to be a sign of a good dominant because I don't "need" someone else for my pleasure, I can "choose" someone else. I feel I need to be very able on my own to be a good dominant and one way I can be "able" is my sexuality. Plus knowing my body that well means I can give better feedback and commands when my slave does pleasure me.

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 5/2/2008 7:55:55 AM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Is the Pope Catholic?

Hell yes.  Sometimes I just want a nut.  Bothering with a man is just to much trouble and WAY to much mess sometimes. 



yep.  that about sums it up for me :)

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 5/2/2008 7:56:56 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		as a sub male i was going to answer as well but ive chosen too read and watch to see if this thread grows

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 5/2/2008 8:16:06 AM   
Kirren


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Status: offline 		I absolutely masterbate....I used to do it many many many times a day. 

I have a Husband and a female sub...and I still masterbate many many many times....a week. Lol.

I find that its just an easy way to release tension and makes Me a much nicer person to be around.

I also find that when I do it prior to sex it makes Me way more responsive.

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 5/2/2008 10:59:24 AM   
Dnomyar


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RE: Do you masturbate? - 5/2/2008 12:00:47 PM   
ElanSubdued


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quote:

ElanSubdued:
I say this to everyone with great care, respect, and thought...
You're all just a bunch of wankers! :-)

LadyPact:
No, I really don't.  It's very rare to have the need arise when one or the other can't satisfy the issue.  Ask Me the same question in three months when both of them are deployed, and I'll bet you'll get a much different answer.

MissMagnolia:
Nope, I don't masturbate. I never have.

MsKitty86:
You know, I don't either.  Not that i haven't, but I don't.  For me mastubation just makes me want sex, badly.  So, I don't bother.  Call it lazy, or just call it one isn't enough.  There is nothing better than a deep internal orgasm.  I'd rather have my boy do it for me anyhow. ;)


Based on the additional, empirical evidence *at hand*, I revise my previous statement.  This is, of course, purely for scientific accuracy.  Some of us are wankers, others are not, and there are a few folks *in transition*. :-)

Elan.

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 5/2/2008 12:10:36 PM   
rhpaw


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Status: offline 		No, i just fell asleep on the toilet really.
It depends on how well my imagination is working or if i just read a good story and can imagine my self as the sub in it.

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/5/2008 6:52:58 PM   
justLady


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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/5/2008 7:24:59 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		It is completely hilarious that someone brought this thread back up just now, especially when you consider the date of My last post in this thread.  

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/5/2008 7:27:06 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Well, I still agree with my first post!    Though my mood has a lot to do with it, the more depressed I am, the less I do it.  Having an orgasm and bursting into tears is NOT a fun mix.

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/5/2008 8:58:13 PM   
RumpusParable


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Status: offline 		nevermind, just saw this was an old thread.

< Message edited by RumpusParable -- 9/5/2008 9:00:55 PM >

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/5/2008 9:04:15 PM   
VampiresLair


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha
do you still masturbate? Do you do it and not tell him?  Do you do it only when he's not around, out of town, etc.? 

Do I? Yes, sometimes I do.
Why on earth would I feel the need to tell him?
I do onnly do it when he isnt around, I dont see a reason to go elsewhere to scratch that itch with a batter powered substitute when he is here. But, not around can mean at work, at school, not home... whatever.

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/5/2008 9:41:18 PM   
DelilahDeb


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia
Nope, I don't masturbate. I never have.


Wow. And you lived to grow up? I started around age 6. (Not that I knew what it was that I was doing, just that it felt good and when I got to release, it was easy to go to sleep. 20-20 hindsight put the date on it for me.)

These days—the far side of puberty, menarche, and menopause from then—I do, but irregularly, in part when I haven't had a good fisting in a while. A thoughtful subbie gave me a new Magic Wand recently (replacing the ancient and honorable Tamiko massager I'd discovered by accident courtesy of a county fair and a damaged shoulder 20 years back), complete with the Gonzo attachment. Still deciding if I like it better or not.

I'm a fan of old-fashioned intercourse on occasion, but not all of my partners (being in my own age bracket) keep the wood on without someone abusing their balls or otherwise tormenting them, unless they resort to the latest pharmacological miracle.

In general, I reserve masturbation for private time. Occasionally, I'll add my mechanical advantage to the assortment of play after my 30-year partner and I have used each other up, because there's an extra squeak or two left in me.

Lady Delilah Deb

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/6/2008 4:58:36 AM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		most times i dont masturbate much if at all during the week ...thats my fillup time so when my mistress cums over then im allowed to cum how she sees fit  love sharing that with her as she gets me to cum and i love when she cums too  she knows my cock and prostate well and its hers to play with as she sees fit  mal ..have fun

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/6/2008 8:24:38 AM   
MsAlaria


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Status: offline 		One thing I've noticed as I've gotten older and perimenopausal, is that the only way I can have a certain "friend" visit each month, is by having an orgasm (much like they tell you to do for childbirth). 

Plus for my birthday I bought a new Hitachi and while normally having an orgasm means nothing to me other than for stress relief, I'm thoroughly enjoying experimenting with it and a few other toys I have. :)

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/6/2008 8:33:10 AM   
CallaFirestormBW


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Status: offline 		Yes, I do. It is one of those things I do for myself -- a completely different creature than sex with a partner or being pleasured by a servant.

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/8/2008 12:04:46 AM   
djaleksandr


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Status: offline 		Hell yes!

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/8/2008 6:26:02 PM   
Pyrrsefanie


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Status: offline 		I used to masturbate more than most of my guy friends.  About a year ago some switch in my brain flipped, and now I just... don't do it.  I think about it if I'm not getting sex from my boy for whatever reason, but then instead of hearing myself go "WOOHOO!  Private time!" I just start thinking about how it's going to get my hands dirty and then I'm going to have to change the batteries in my rabbit and it's just so much effort and....

I'm either depressed or lazy, not sure which.


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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/8/2008 7:03:19 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		umm i have naturally supple hands and a kung foo grip , i am finding my eye sight is getting worse for some reason .   

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RE: Do you masturbate? - 9/8/2008 7:07:04 PM   
Jeffff


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