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AAkasha -> Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 2:39:08 PM)


Femdoms in relationships where you can have your partner pleasure you any time you want -- do you still masturbate? Do you do it and not tell him?  Do you do it only when he's not around, out of town, etc.?   I'm not talking about masturbating as part of a bdsm game with him (ie making him watch) but purely for your own enjoyment and pleasure, nothing to do with him.

My boytoy has been spending a little more time out of the house lately and it's been a bit of an adjustment (that's an entirely different story, groan) but it's rekindled my interest in self pleasure (hahah) -- but generally as a mild diversion or procrastination method when I don't want to get my head into working. Which is silly, since I could wait two hours until he got home anyway.  I've gone through periods like this before though where I engage in self pleasure like a teenager all over again for a few days or couple of weeks (as a supplement to relationship with my partner, not replacement) and then lose interest in it completely. 

Of course getting a new Rabbit always helps.

Akasha




Politesub53 -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 3:52:58 PM)

I had a pet rabbit once and got fed up of cleaning the cage. [8D]

Err that was what You meant, right Ma`am ?




Madame4a -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 4:05:42 PM)

Hmmm.. I go through cycles.. sometimes its just what I want and so I do...

I do it when she's around sometimes, or when she's not.. depends on my mood.. and sometimes I make her watch or listen and not touch me... of course, that's always fun...




MamaDomme1 -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 4:29:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

I had a pet rabbit once and got fed up of cleaning the cage. [8D]

Err that was what You meant, right Ma`am ?


So dear-- that would make you an expert at cleaning up after a rabbit?   Maybe you should come across the pond for a visit.  ;)




AllietheKitten -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 4:33:09 PM)

Well, my sub and I live an hour apart (until this summer YAY) so we don't always see each other. Of course he is forbidden from touching *my* cock but I don't have any problem getting off and then describing it for him. *grin*
Sometimes too we play but I don't cum because I'm more interested in doing things to him or just don't feel like it. So yes, I masturbate often.




Politesub53 -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 4:35:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MamaDomme1

quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

I had a pet rabbit once and got fed up of cleaning the cage. [8D]

Err that was what You meant, right Ma`am ?


So dear-- that would make you an expert at cleaning up after a rabbit?   Maybe you should come across the pond for a visit.  ;)


I`m no expert Ma`am, but i promise to practice until You are happy !




DominantJenny -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 4:40:42 PM)

I have this shower head, you see...

It's an on again off again thing...sometimes I'll do it 'cause I'm in the mood and he's at work, sometimes I do it to relax/help me sleep, sometimes just because, sometimes not for weeks at a time.




MamaDomme1 -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 5:07:34 PM)

mmmmm.... and that practicing will lead to perfection and much happiness and pleasure too!




MsStarlett -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 5:40:06 PM)

Is the Pope Catholic?

Hell yes.  Sometimes I just want a nut.  Bothering with a man is just to much trouble and WAY to much mess sometimes. 




RumpusParable -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 5:40:07 PM)

Regardless of how frequently I'm getting sex, I still masturbate the minimum amount for me.  They fullfill different desires, for me.  My partners have always known and, while I prefer to do it in private, I'm not at all secretive about the fact and amount that I do.




Lashra -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 7:35:25 PM)

Oh yes because my boy doesnt live with me. I have a huge libido so, yep I do it out of necessity and its fun.

~Lashra




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 8:15:42 PM)

If I am in the mood, I do.  There's nothing like the sex you have with yourself!  Utterly self centered, results every time.  [:D]




khem -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 8:24:06 PM)

I don't have the pesky problem of a boy at my beck and call.  So here's a Woody Allen quote instead:

"Don't knock masterbation.  It's sex with someone I love."




ElanSubdued -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 8:37:35 PM)

I say this to everyone with great care, respect, and thought...

You're all just a bunch of wankers! :-)

Elan.




Reigna -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 9:40:43 PM)

Goodness yes. My Asian friend (made in China) doesn't replace partner sex, but neither does partner sex replace my Asian friend.




BlackSakura -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/1/2008 10:41:39 PM)

Yes, I do.  It's a different thing all together to me - masturbating vs. sex/play




LadyPact -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/2/2008 12:45:59 AM)

No, I really don't.  It's very rare to have the need arise when one or the other can't satisfy the issue.

Ask Me the same question in three months when both of them are deployed, and I'll bet you'll get a much different answer.




MissMagnolia -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/2/2008 12:59:16 AM)

Nope, I don't masturbate. I never have.




MsKitty86 -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/2/2008 1:03:30 AM)

You know, I don't either. Not that i haven't, but I don't. For me mastubation just makes me want sex, badly. So, I don't bother. Call it lazy, or just call it one isn't enough. There is nothing better than a deep internal orgasm. I'd rather have my boy do it for me anyhow. ;)




Dnomyar -> RE: Do you masturbate? (5/2/2008 4:41:04 AM)

Seeing that this is a womans question Im not going to answer it. As for the rabbit thing. Try keeping a bunch of angora rabbits.




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