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Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 4:19:54 PM

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How many Mistresses here make their submissive thank them for a punishment that they dolled out, whether a beating or something else?

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 4:22:37 PM

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Count me in. I always require thanks and appreciation. Just as I give the same for a job well done. That's just common manners.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 4:40:57 PM

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There are three times I expect a "thank you".
1. when I allow him to cum
2. when I allow him to make me cum
3. when he is being punished-so he won't go into subspace and ENJOY it!

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 4:41:57 PM

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I order thank yous quite frequently, and, yes, particularly often for things he didn't enjoy per se.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 4:57:34 PM

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He must thank me also for the punishment.Also for the punishment I took my time, so..

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 5:42:48 PM

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He better thank me anytime I look in his direction and acknowledge that he's breathing.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 5:45:53 PM

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He better thank me anytime I look in his direction and acknowledge that he's breathing.

/crosses Ms Starlett off my potentials list.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 6:02:03 PM

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I certainly do. Especially if it's a co-Topping situation, or I've let someone else step in for a portion of a scene. I always want My sub to have the best of manners for any Domme that I have the confidence level in to allow that person to be involved in play.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 6:13:26 PM

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Ha! Yeah, Pearl. You're not my sub. You just play one on TV - or PM's.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 6:27:25 PM

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Ha! Yeah, Pearl. You're not my sub. You just play one on TV - or PM's.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 6:42:56 PM

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Boy, I keep telling you that you're to far away.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/1/2008 6:48:09 PM

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Boy, I keep telling you that you're to far away.

Lmao

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/2/2008 6:30:41 AM

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Fox thanks me for any attention he receives from me whether it is related to sex, dinner, punishments (can't remember the last one) or even just sitting on the couch watching CSI with me.

The other side of that is that I acknowledge his work and service as often as I notice it and it is well done. As any good slave would, his service can be very subtle and designed to not be noticed. Since I'm focused on positive strokes as a means of training and ownership though he generally gets a lot of 'thank you' or 'good boy'.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/2/2008 6:54:43 AM

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Count the strokes and say thank you after each one.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/2/2008 6:59:23 AM

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I order thank yous quite frequently, and, yes, particularly often for things he didn't enjoy per se.

Could you explain? Thank Me for something you didn't enjoy because......?

I thank (I think) my Mistress frequently: for the many things She does for me; for allowing me to be Her submissive; for the time She devotes to me and all that I get from it and Her. I want Her to know that I realize that She is thinking about me in many of the things She does, even if they may be small and also that I think about Her in ways unrelated to physical pleasure. Anything She does denotes that She considers Herself my Dominant/Mistress/Enchantress, and for that alone, I am thankful.

Perhaps I don't understand what you are saying in that She has never (yet) done something I didn't enjoy. What kinds of things are you talking about?

BTW, She has never required or even asked that I thank Her, I do it on my own. Are "thank yous" that come unbidden different than ones which You require at certain mandated times or ones you demand the spot?

Does it or would it, do you think, change the effect or meaning, when you require it of your submissives? If She were to have me thank Her for things I presently don't, would or does that have an effect?

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/2/2008 7:05:44 AM

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This is a requirement for us.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/2/2008 7:07:27 AM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: DominantJenny

I order thank yous quite frequently, and, yes, particularly often for things he didn't enjoy per se.

Could you explain? Thank Me for something you didn't enjoy because......?

I thank (I think) my Mistress frequently: for the many things She does for me; for allowing me to be Her submissive; for the time She devotes to me and all that I get from it and Her. I want Her to know that I realize that She is thinking about me in many of the things She does, even if they may be small and also that I think about Her in ways unrelated to physical pleasure. Anything She does denotes that She considers Herself my Dominant/Mistress/Enchantress, and for that alone, I am thankful.

Perhaps I don't understand what you are saying in that She has never (yet) done something I didn't enjoy. What kinds of things are you talking about?

BTW, She has never required or even asked that I thank Her, I do it on my own. Are "thank yous" that come unbidden different than ones which You require at certain mandated times or ones you demand the spot?

Does it or would it, do you think, change the effect or meaning, when you require it of your submissives? If She were to have me thank Her for things I presently don't, would or does that have an effect?

Because it's a mindfuck, because it reinforces the Mistress/slave role we are in.

While, in an ultimate sense, my slave may enjoy everything I do to him, there are moments where he is most certainly NOT enjoying what is happening at that moment. Pain, something I've required him to do that doesn't turn him on but turns me on, etc.

Spontaneous thank yous are spiffy, but usually come when one is feeling happy...required thank yous are in spite of not feeling happy, generally.

Again, it's all about the dynamic...which may be totally different in your case than it is in mine.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/2/2008 8:36:08 AM

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We live in a day and age where you have to require people to say "thank you" :-p

I thought it was called a common courtesy for a reason.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/2/2008 8:48:45 AM

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Absolutely. Especially, if it's lashes for punishment. After I decide how many they're going to receive, I make them count and thank me after every one.

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RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? - 5/2/2008 6:08:42 PM

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Thankyou's not needed in my circumstances, especially not in My punishment scenes.

I like to savour every moment, so not a distracting "thankyou Maam" for each and every stroke, lash, whip. Too distracting in my view, and I already know how grateful they are, they do not have to utter it every available opportunity

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