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Toolking -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:07:49 PM)
My Bad and I apologize for bringing up that point!! thank Y/you so much for your precious time and valid inputs.

Lynnxz -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:09:30 PM)
quote: If the main concept behind her search is to find a sub, she can get a long with as you guys stated and the final decsion is up to the Mighty Master, .............what if He didnt like what she found, then what? seek another she can get along with...? yeah right!! But if she is seeking one for her and her only then, both sub and Master are on the same level................... What a waste of Energy !!! and it is so pathetic for a Dom /Master and those words are Not to be taken lightly, to go through that. No I am not against what a sub will do for her Master in regard of what you mentioned. Why is it a waste of energy if it works for them? How would YOU go about this, honestly? Let's even assume you already have the first girl...

Toolking -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:20:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz quote: If the main concept behind her search is to find a sub, she can get a long with as you guys stated and the final decsion is up to the Mighty Master, .............what if He didnt like what she found, then what? seek another she can get along with...? yeah right!! But if she is seeking one for her and her only then, both sub and Master are on the same level................... What a waste of Energy !!! and it is so pathetic for a Dom /Master and those words are Not to be taken lightly, to go through that. No I am not against what a sub will do for her Master in regard of what you mentioned. Why is it a waste of energy if it works for them? How would YOU go about this, honestly? Let's even assume you already have the first girl... Dear Lynnxz, I thank Y/you so much for your interest in hearing what I have to say in that regard. To each his own. As for your assumption whether I have My first girl...... I tell Y/you, Once I find Mine, I wont be here any longer.!! Again thank you

HerLord -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:24:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Toolking As for your assumption whether I have My first girl...... I tell Y/you, Once I find Mine, I wont be here any longer.!! Again thank you So much for the disemination of education.

OmegaG -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:24:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Usako PLUS, I think it's just easier woman to woman to talk. Some man asking that might seem either agressive or perverted. I've had guys tell me that and all I'll say is I don't agree.

OldBastardly1 -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:25:37 PM)
Ahhh, ok. That explains alot. BTW, you forgot to do the Y/y on the last word.

HerLord -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:27:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1 Ahhh, ok. That explains alot. BTW, you forgot to do the Y/y on the last word. That was soooooooo nice. and polite and civil... So I must ask... Where is OB1?

Lynnxz -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:29:24 PM)
quote: Dear Lynnxz, I thank Y/you so much for your interest in hearing what I have to say in that regard. To each his own. As for your assumption whether I have My first girl...... I tell Y/you, Once I find Mine, I wont be here any longer.!! Again thank you I was being serious (for once! Do you know how hard that is for me?) No fair to put down other people's ways of doing things if you don't have a plan yourself. Lets say you've found your sub, and you are now looking for an addition to the family, would you do all the searching? Would she have a say in it at all? If not, how would you deal with the resulting catfights?

RedMagic1 -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:31:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HerLord quote: ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1 Ahhh, ok. That explains alot. BTW, you forgot to do the Y/y on the last word. That was soooooooo nice. and polite and civil... So I must ask... Where is OB1? He has achieved a Black Belt in backhanded compliments... and it's fucking awesome!

GreedyTop -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:32:12 PM)
love that pic, Lynn :)

OldBastardly1 -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:33:05 PM)
I am trying to be less hostile in an attempt to win a certain uber-powerful woman over. I probably have as much chance as a fart in a windstorm. I really, really want to do this [sm=fingers.gif] to somebody that I think deserves it, but am trying to show a kinder, gentler side. I just want to hug somebody....r e a l tight

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:36:33 PM)
No, you're putting words and actions where there was none. I find a girl I'd like and could live with and love I go to my dom I introduce her, he begins to get to now her then if he wants her as well as I do he chooses her. quote: ORIGINAL: Toolking So basically any piece of meat she finds,and like her Dom/Master is gonna eat....wow. who is in charge of who???

HornyToadsMI -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:37:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1 I am trying to be less hostile in an attempt to win a certain uber-powerful woman over. I probably have as much chance as a fart in a windstorm. I really, really want to do this [sm=fingers.gif] to somebody that I think deserves it, but am trying to show a kinder, gentler side. I just want to hug somebody....r e a l tight Awwwwww...a kindler gentler man.....how sweet! I could use a hug!!!!

Lumus -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:38:09 PM)
To the OP: It might be a little more practical to ask people who actually do this than toss it out on the boards. By the way, how's the asbestos suit holding up?

HerLord -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:42:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1 I am trying to be less hostile in an attempt to win a certain uber-powerful woman over. I probably have as much chance as a fart in a windstorm. I really, really want to do this [sm=fingers.gif] to somebody that I think deserves it, but am trying to show a kinder, gentler side. I just want to hug somebody....r e a l tight I am familiar with your plight. I too would woo this uber power should it prove to avail. But alas... It is after all only this ragged, rugged vessal that I am to work with... so I think I probably have as much chance as you... lol. Damn... Sorry bout the Hijack... let's see where were we... OH YEAH... Now I remember... Getting someone else to do work I don't wanna have to do. Let's see. I know there is a down side somewhere... I think it has to do with me wanting someone to make My Love happy... Nope, not a down side. It must have to do with some one who she can relate to... Nope, again not a downside. Maybe it has to do with her desire to do the subbie thing and follow instructions... Nope, also not a downside. But then, it could also have to do with... Fuck it I give up, Is there a downside to having someone else do something I don't want to do? Or perhaps just matybe... We have what we want figured out and some twit telling us that it is UBER wrong for us to do it this way, is just a twit making judgements about something they have no experience in and therefor must have all comments and espousals of wrongdoingness laughably dismissed. But maybe that was mean. Sorry Mod11. I tried. Very hard. Nice doesn't suit me. However... honesty does.

Toolking -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:50:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz quote: Dear Lynnxz, I thank Y/you so much for your interest in hearing what I have to say in that regard. To each his own. As for your assumption whether I have My first girl...... I tell Y/you, Once I find Mine, I wont be here any longer.!! Again thank you I was being serious (for once! Do you know how hard that is for me?) No fair to put down other people's ways of doing things if you don't have a plan yourself. Lets say you've found your sub, and you are now looking for an addition to the family, would you do all the searching? Would she have a say in it at all? If not, how would you deal with the resulting catfights? I know Y/you were serious and I answered saying To E/each his own.... and I will Not be wanting another sub period, but if My one submissive/slave is to seek another girl as an addtion to O/our relationship, then "she" is Not My type of woman.

Maya2001 -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 6:57:50 PM)
Some subs are ordered to find another partner as a test of their submission, every so often a sub comes crying here because she is getting punished for having failed to fulfill his request. of finding a second sub for him

Toolking -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 7:05:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Maya2001 Some subs are ordered to find another partner as a test of their submission, every so often a sub comes crying here because she is getting punished for having failed to fulfill his request. of finding a second sub for him So she submitted to Him to make her life miserable and she loves that so much...I thought a submissive submit to her Master out of love where the Total connection of Erotic Power Exchange take place....but again, to E/each his own.

KatyLied -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 7:07:02 PM)
quote: So she submitted to Him to make her life miserable It rarely starts out that way, it sometimes ends that way.

Willowmoon -> RE: Why Cant you? (5/4/2008 7:13:09 PM)
We are seeking a third, someone to be more a casual playmate then a live in and I am doing most of the seeking. Why? because its more my desire then Masters, because I want to be good friends with who ever it is that we play with and if it gets to the point where we find someone who is not just casual and lives with us then we all have to be good friends and partners. Its not just Master playing with another girl while excluding me. Its not just 'his' girl but our girl. Willow

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