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Lashra -> RE: language and respect (5/7/2008 4:37:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I have often said to others, mainly dominant males, that they can refer to their property however they'd like, but you refer to mie with respect.
I do not like having Angel or Fox refered to as my bitches, or any other term aside from my pets. That is my choice. If others are OK with having their boys or girls refered to that way then more power to them. There are some men that seem to think it makes them look likea more manly man if they refer to women derisively. I just think it looks petty and hateful, for no good reason. But, then again, while I ahve no problem with using the occasional swear word ( I am a NYer, after all) I think people who cannot manage a sentence or two without resorting to that sort of language make themselves look bad in general.

My 2 cents
DV


I agree with what DV has said. Call your property what you want but don't call me those names. I call my boy my bitch sometimes, or my whore, slut etc. But I'm allowed too as he is my property, anyone else will get an ear full.

I think people who talk about ALL women as if they were just idiotic sex objects, perhaps not even human, are people with some serious issues. Thats one reason I do not listen to most rap music, I get sick to death of hearing about 'ho's and bitches. It does make a person look like they have a limited intelligence if thats all that comes out of their mouths.

~Lashra




CelticPrince -> RE: language and respect (5/7/2008 5:16:55 AM)

Smythe,

For some it is a major turn on and that is for both sides of the slash.

CP




HalloweenWhite -> RE: language and respect (5/7/2008 5:21:12 AM)

I don't worry about the phrases used here to refer to -anyone-, I just think of them as pet names between 2 (or more) people a relationship so I just think it's none of My business.

One thing I loathe though is when a woman is refered to as "girl" in vanilla circles, no matter how old she happens to be-I think it's really patronising, but in BDSM I just treat it as a term of indearment.




OldBastardly1 -> RE: language and respect (5/7/2008 7:25:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

I agree with what DV has said. Call your property what you want but don't call me those names. I call my boy my bitch sometimes, or my whore, slut etc. But I'm allowed too as he is my property, anyone else will get an ear full.

I think people who talk about ALL women as if they were just idiotic sex objects, perhaps not even human, are people with some serious issues. Thats one reason I do not listen to most rap music, I get sick to death of hearing about 'ho's and bitches. It does make a person look like they have a limited intelligence if thats all that comes out of their mouths.

~Lashra



Not the dreaded ear full!!! Surely you jest. [sm=afraid.gif]




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