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Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Turning DOWN tribute? (5/6/2008 9:41:14 PM)
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When I was a stripper I'd have guys come into the club and try to buy me for a girlfriend/wife/Mistress/etc. with all sorts of ridiculous shit. I lapdanced a Kennedy once and was offered a freaking private jet, trips to here-there-and-everywhere, a snazzy apartment... and still I turned it down. Back in those days I was technically a professional and I still found it somewhat creepy and offensive to think that my affections could be bought. And nothing comes for free, there's always strings attached. Say you accept a trip to the Bahamas, and once you get there the guy's a complete fucking nutjob who basically holds you hostage for a sex vacation for himself. Yeah. No thanks.
The same rules apply for me, now, as a Domme. Perhaps I take even greater offense than I did in my younger days since I clearly state that I'm *not* a professional and that I'm in a monogamous relationship. So many guys out there just don't understand what that means -- some will even try to up the ante, thinking that if they offer me more they'll still get me to stray or change my mind. That just pisses me off, I mean, what are they implying about my character if they think that they can lead me away from my boy so easily? And it's not just disrespecting me, it's disrespecting the man I love. After declining his generous offer for an apartment in London I had some guy actually tell me that I was only saying "no" because I was young and hadn't yet realized that I don't need a "beta male bitch" and in fact really want some strong man to sweep me off of my feet.
I get the impression that a fair amount of these men, too, are looking for a kinky call girl rather than a Domme, professional or otherwise.
It's sad, really.
Of course this all becomes null and void the minute Goran Visnjic PM's me asking if I'd accept a love nest in Santa Monica in exchange for hawt sexxings.
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