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RE: Turning DOWN tribute? - 5/26/2008 7:51:25 PM

homedespot

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Clearly there is something wrong with My profile. I never get offered tribute.

*mutters and goes off to edit things*

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RE: Turning DOWN tribute? - 5/26/2008 7:53:59 PM

DiurnalVampire

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I get offers often, as if that will change my mind about not looking in my profile. I turn them down, but I have joked with Fox that it might be a lucrative arrangement to get someone who is so desperate to tribute to be humiliated that they pay me to tell them they arent as good as he and Angel.

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RE: Turning DOWN tribute? - 5/26/2008 8:01:16 PM

redcell

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i'm not sure if all of you are aware of the finnacial Dommes phenomenon. There are Dommes who are using BDSM/kinky websites in order to make some money from unexperience subs. Well, I am not sure how many of those Dommes are reall women, nevertheless the phenomenon exists. Unexperienced subs, overwhelmed with the out number of these Dommes might think that this is the right way to find their way into this lifestyle.
There are some websites in which financial domination is almost the sole interest. You can also find frauds in more establish websites.
Of course there are people who has a real fetish for financial domination. In my opinion, like every other fetish, you have to negotiate your wants and needs, not to impose them, especially if you are on the stinging side of the whip.

Personally, i enjoy buying the Mistress i serve whatever She wants, i enjoy bringing flowers or buy toys, outfits or whatever as long as there is some kind of relationship going on. i don't think it's a good idea to start a relationship in that way, but what do i know....

being a man is not so easy....

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RE: Turning DOWN tribute? - 5/26/2008 8:09:02 PM

MsStarlett

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I've had a couple who wanted me to play finacial Domme games. Set tasks and monetary penalties for failure... that sort of thing. Honestly, I didn't know how to do it and let those people go.

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RE: Turning DOWN tribute? - 5/27/2008 4:29:16 AM

LadyJeelys

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When guys mentioned gifts or tribute, I decline and stop the conversation. I don't like being controlled, and a lot of men think "gifts"give them control.

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