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Ialdabaoth -> RE: Legitimate vs. shallow physical requirements (5/8/2008 5:11:22 AM)
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ORIGINAL: tsatske
Okay, I'm suitably impressed. I understand all the threads of the 'why would you want someone else to train YOUR girl for you', but, if you were close to us, I'd seriously ask Master if i could get some of my heel training from you. Later - after I work up to routinly wearing the 6 inches. (He had the idea that I would learn to wear the 6 inches whenever we were out, and wear my fours or 2 at home, but i talked Him into reversing that goal - wear the 6s at home <which will put me in them more, anyway>, and wear 4s and even 2s when we go out, because there are more fashion choices in those and it will be easier to make them match what i am wearing.)
But i do still think that, while there might be challenges with training a sub who is bigger - or with other physical requirements (even hair legnth, as you mentioned), it is not undoable. But i think it is a very common misconception that it is.
At a recent party, with people from my own munch - Doms who very much live a 24/7 lifestyle, are very good at what they do, who i respect a great deal - a young, thin, and very cute little thing was attending her first party. The demonstrator asked her if she would model for his demo, and when she said yes, he got very excited, and said 'oh, wow. My sub is much bigger than you. I can do things with you i usually can't do with my models'. All the Doms nodded and chimed in about all the things he would be able to do with her - have her elbows meet, have her in a bow with her toes pointing at her head, ect - while she stood there going, 'uhm, yea, i don't really think that is going to work'. When he tried, she had to keep making him take her out, saying 'yea, i'm pretty flexible, that's an advatage of being 19 and i know i'm thin, but - OW! uhm, not quite this flexible?!'
All the Doms were agreeing that 'a big woman just can't get her elbows to meet'. I kept my mouth shut, because, well, i can't get my elbows to meet. But I am training towards it. I don't belive it is a size issue - sure, i am bigger, that means pulling the arms further back, but really it is just training and flexiblity. But, I may never be able to prove that a bigger woman can do that, because i expect it will take some time to train to it, and i am actively shrinking in the mean time, so i might get put right out of that arguement.
Yeah, it took about 3 months to get Cera to touch her elbows; just keep working on it!
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Just as an aside, just wanna be sure, we are talking about the same things, right, when it comes to bondage boots? 7-8 inch heels with no platform?
http://users.powernet.co.uk/wingett/ballet.htm
Yep! We generally used the Pleaser USA 'Devious' line for practice, since they're cheap and can be replaced when they wear out (and you can pull off the heel with a screwdriver and make 'training wedges'!), but the Punitive Shoes ones are NICE 'display models' once you get the hang of it.
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