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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 4:09:40 PM   
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  Ohhhh and Patrick Stewart
ooohhh yes...but Gary Sinise?? Hmm...missing something...Oh yes! A hot accent...i'll take Colin Firth.  i remember having a thing for Ossie Davis up until he passed...now that he's dead, he not my type.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 4:26:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

whew...just made it!!!!
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  Ohhhh and Patrick Stewart
ooohhh yes...but Gary Sinise?? Hmm...missing something...Oh yes! A hot accent...i'll take Colin Firth.  i remember having a thing for Ossie Davis up until he passed...now that he's dead, he not my type.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 4:31:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sassysexygirl

greetings redhead :)

just wanted to say  --- love that sig line!!

gemmie


Thanks!

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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 5:01:48 PM   
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While there may come a time when Master decides to trade in the Heritage for a bagger with a sound system, 

That'll be the fucking day...

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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 8:03:37 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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ORIGINAL: sassysexygirl

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

You can smack me with your lips all ya want. How about a post about aged women. There have to be some here past 50. I know that your all not 29.


greetings A/all

i haven't read this thread yet, i just saw it on the little thing that shows different threads.  but ,,,, anyway ,,,, i'm 50 and dam cute, just sayin

i now return you to your thread, while i go read what i wrote on ...........

well wishes,
gemmie

51 y/o here...maybe we should start a cute wee old ladies sub club!..~wink~..Tempting

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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 8:51:50 PM   
ResidentSadist


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ORIGINAL: everhope
i have been with men 25 years younger (can still hear him saying damn! damn! didn't know it could be like this!) to men 30 years older. the One who has my interest in his grip right now....9 months older than me. it's about connection. 

Doing math... hmmm... you flirtatious wench you.


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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 9:00:25 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		I've always preferred older men.  There is a calmness to them I feel comfortable with.. also they are more patient.  They know how to get what they want.. and are willing to wait for the right time.

That being said, there is one negative.  It's the darned prostate problems that manifest in the later years.  When they loose the prostate, it's devastating for them.  Even though there are surgeries and procedures that preserve the nerves (Da Vinci Method), the mental aspect is hard for them to overcome. Much like a female loosing her uterus.  There is a great sense of loss that has to be overcome.  Even if they are a wiz at oral.. the whole scenario looses it's allure (for them).
 
So be sure you care about the person, not just their submission or domination.  While it still can exist, it'll be "different".  I'd welcome those gentlemen who still enjoy BDSM,  to elaborate with their experiences after the deed was done and how their partner can help them through the grieving process of this life changing event.
 
I hope this is not seen as a "hijack" as I think this ties in with the tenure of the OP. If not, I'd welcome a new thread addressing this.   Just let me know and I'll open one.

< Message edited by LotusSong -- 5/6/2008 9:13:10 PM >

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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 9:16:13 PM   
angelslave77


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Status: offline 		I used to fit this catagory, always persuing older guys at least 5 years anywhere up to 15 to 20 years older. But then I met Sir who is 3 1/2 years younger and he has changed my life in ways I could never have imagined. I have never been happier than I am right now (he is 27, I am 30).

I guess I learnt from this not to catagorise but to treat each person on thier own merits, if I had refused to look outside my "preffered comfort  zone" I would never have met my soulmate

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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 9:19:49 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: angelslave77

I used to fit this catagory, always persuing older guys at least 5 years anywhere up to 15 to 20 years older. But then I met Sir who is 3 1/2 years younger and he has changed my life in ways I could never have imagined. I have never been happier than I am right now (he is 27, I am 30).

I guess I learnt from this not to catagorise but to treat each person on thier own merits, if I had refused to look outside my "preffered comfort  zone" I would never have met my soulmate

How long have you two been together?  Never presume someone hasn't been "outside their comfort zone" :)   It's how one FINDS their prefernece.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 9:44:17 PM   
angelslave77


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Status: offline 		Oh i never presume about others I speak only for myself, and I know that there would be many guys Sirs age that would not even turn my head.

We are going on a year together (which yes I know isnt that long) but I have had enough life experience to recognise this feeling is nothing like I have felt before.

But neither am I dismissing older Doms, I  know some wonderful older Doms and yes they do have a certain "something" that most others lack.


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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 10:07:29 PM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		My marked preference is for older... I'm into women and I find quite a few women come into their prime in their 50's.. and this is a beauty .. matured beauty which shines..

Similar too with men who are over 50 and even older, they have grown a soul and even though I prefer women a few male Doms I've met in their 60's have made me question myself deeply.

I'm not saying younger people are less attractive, they're not. Everybody is attractive in some way if you take the time and look hard enough. You might not be into them, but that doesn't make them unattractive.

Some people just get better and better with age. Too bad that society isn't patient enough to include their potential.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/6/2008 10:24:58 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

That being said, there is one negative.  It's the darned prostate problems that manifest in the later years.  When they loose the prostate, it's devastating for them.  Even though there are surgeries and procedures that preserve the nerves (Da Vinci Method), the mental aspect is hard for them to overcome. Much like a female loosing her uterus.  There is a great sense of loss that has to be overcome.  Even if they are a wiz at oral.. the whole scenario looses it's allure (for them).
 
So be sure you care about the person, not just their submission or domination.  While it still can exist, it'll be "different".  I'd welcome those gentlemen who still enjoy BDSM,  to elaborate with their experiences after the deed was done and how their partner can help them through the grieving process of this life changing event.
 


I'm thinking this might be too personal for a general forum, so if someone wants to discuss this in private email to me, I'd very much appreciate it.

< Message edited by LotusSong -- 5/6/2008 10:25:44 PM >

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RE: Old Guys - 5/8/2008 9:02:22 PM   
Huntertn


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Status: offline 		things go up and things go down..At almost 51 now and I find if I take my time..like I have always done..things still work...sometimes I think its in the brain that that happens..what the hell get some pills and fuck is thats all you want..lol..personall, give me the crop, the paddles, and my floggers..and beleive you me I've not lost a thing..lol

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RE: Old Guys - 5/8/2008 9:26:16 PM   
darkesttdesire


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Status: offline 		guess theres no hope for older with me..... not into dead fuks lol 

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RE: Old Guys - 5/9/2008 12:52:32 AM   
CollaredKitty07


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Status: offline 		I'm more of a lurker here, but this post really caught my eye.

My master is older than me....and once in a blue moon I thought about...you know..is this really right?

He's 19 years older than me, and he's the best man I've ever been with. He knows how to treat this kitty right, and I wouldn't give it up for anything in the world.

*bows to this thread's existence* You put hope into this kitten's heart

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RE: Old Guys - 5/9/2008 3:57:08 AM   
CelticPrince


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My Dom is 18 years my senior and until last year I wouldn't have considered dating a man who's much older than me. Boy am I glad that I changed my mind! I have the best time with him and wouldn't trade him in for a younger dom. (Something he asked me if I wanted to do when his back was bothering him recently. lol) The more I hang out with him the less the age difference matters.

On the other end of the spectrum I got into bed with a 23 year old last year; the guy came twice, really quickly without us even getting to intercourse. What a disappointment! He didn't know what he was doing, he was just so excited to be in bed with an "older" woman. Young guys are cute but I think there's a lot to be said for experience. I'd say my Dom is the best lover I've ever had.


libraian.

an excellent post and comparison. eventuall age will take its toll on most men but the mature judgment factor never goes away.

CP

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RE: Old Guys - 5/9/2008 4:05:27 AM   
CelticPrince


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I have been unbelievably lucky to find the most amazing dominant man. He is by far the best lover I have ever known, incredibly powerful and skilled. But, the more amazing thing is that he is 35 years OLDER than me, 76 years old. He is unusually healthy and attractive, of course. But, what a wonder and delight! What is the oldest you've ever imagined playing with? Amusing as it sounds, an older man is an ideal dom, experience, skill, authority, and pleasure beyond his dick. And, viagra works, too. To all of us, there is hope in our old age. If he can do it, you can, too!


cougar,

congrats on a great subject. The reality of the vast majority is that age will affect the sex factor. It does to a degree, it makes it better due to experience and understanding that good sex is just not about his cock. It is much more focused on power.

Being one of the subject Doms, I can say with total candor.

I am not as good as I once was, but once I am better then I ever was!

CP


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RE: Old Guys - 5/9/2008 8:28:18 AM   
MrrPete


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Come closer and I'll show you how dead I am....... NOT

At 65 I'm probably one of the oldest guys on CM. It has been my experience that women close to my age want a younger partner. And ones looking for an older Dom don't want anyone over 55. You're right! I'm fishing.  LOL






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RE: Old Guys - 5/9/2008 9:07:47 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		MrrPete dont knock fishing. A couple of my first meet with subs were fishing meets. Some women on here realy do like to fish.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/9/2008 9:37:05 AM   
sassysexygirl


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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

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ORIGINAL: sassysexygirl

greetings A/all

i haven't read this thread yet, i just saw it on the little thing that shows different threads.  but ,,,, anyway ,,,, i'm 50 and dam cute, just sayin

i now return you to your thread, while i go read what i wrote on ...........

well wishes,
gemmie

51 y/o here...maybe we should start a cute wee old ladies sub club!..~wink~..Tempting


  hubba-hubba, you really ARE tempting  *grinz*   i'm all for a cute older ladies sub club,,,,, but not too sure about the wee part 

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