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Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 12:07:10 PM   
hereyesruponyou


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Status: offline 		As someone who previously just thought "ICK" to this subject i have found an amazing level of connection with a sub when performing these activities. I'll never forget the first time my hand slid into his ass...shocking but exhileriating at the time. Could not imagine i would ever get to the point that i looked forward to our next playtime with such anticipation. Just curious what others think.

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 12:11:53 PM   
lizcgirl


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Status: offline 		I don't have any desire to try enemas, it just does nothing for me. But I have to admit, I love anal sex. I told my Daddy up front when we met, don't treat me gently, I am not going to break. He was pleasantly surprised when I proved it, and now He doesn't like to leave a hole unused! I can't get enough of it!

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 1:46:10 PM   
tomcat1483


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Status: offline 		My girl likes to think about anal play but when it comes time to do it her stomach is usually not in the right place to actually go though with the act which is a little bothering to me.

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 2:05:03 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		If you're expecting her to go from anal virgin to ass rape immediately, of course she's going to tense up.

Expect it to take time, and lots of lube. Don't decide tonight's the night. Start by just fingering around her anus. Do that however many times it takes for her to relax and enjoy it. Then move up to inserting just your fingertip, with lube. Repeat until she likes it. Etc, etc, etc.

If you try to force it, she will be hurt. You'll be lucky if you don't have to pay the emergency room visit. Oh yeah, and if she does forgive you for damaging her, she will hard limit it.

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 2:26:34 PM   
metalmiss


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Status: offline 		Enema's don't float tickle my strawberries or my Masters (thankfully).. However i must confess that i am an anal slut.. and anal itself puts me in a deeper submissive head space than any other sexual play in my experience.


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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 2:51:06 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Just a quick jack......LOVE the new photo, metalmiss!

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 2:59:06 PM   
LadyBug1967


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Status: offline 		Well, this is a topic I sure can expound on.
 
I was opposed to even trying it.  Thought it was vulgar and wanted nothing to do with it.  This was back in the days when I was still vanilla. 
 
My ex and I had been married for about 10 years and we were in bed one night right after making love and, of course, the slick, slimy stuff was still between my legs.  We were spooning and the ex got another erection and began sliding his cock up and down the crack of my ass and very, very gently pushing the head of his prick into my rectum.  Eventually he managed to get the whole thing in there and, by then, I was so worked up that I got in on the action and enjoyed myself to the nth degree.  Forever after I have absolutely loved anal sex.  of course, I also like all the rest of it too!!!   But slow and patient with gentle persuasion is the key to anal intercourse.  A woman has to first lose her virginity, the breaking of the hymen, and I believe there is something at the back of her mind that makes her feel that anal sex is going to hurt as bad as that did.  My opinion only, of course.

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 3:05:31 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		oh hell yeah, bring it on baby----i love, love, love enema's and ass play!!!!!!!!!! 

there was a time that i didn't though...

and then i gave the enema's to myself a few relaxed hours before playtime;  which wasn't so fun because i'd cramp and have stomach convulsions or i couldn't hold them in long enough to be effective.

then i met a man who was big on giving enema's; a real-life doctor no less.  he was sooooooooooooo fucking erotic in how he gave them to me that i fell in love with them...

after a while he started 'playing doctor' with me in the ways he would give them to me which was also hot, hot, hot!!!!!!

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 4:03:19 PM   
abqowner


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Status: offline 		I'm not into any play, as such.  I'm a reaction slut.  So I usually trend toward actions that produce the strongest reaction.  That's why I love enemas.  On the whole it's the one part of the body the slave is least familiar with in play.  To so essentially lose control of it - especially when feeling something so undeniable as liquid enter the body in this way - usually provokes an extraordinary response.  Of course, there's all sorts of variations on the theme as well - hotter water, colder water, amount, duration etc, which can also tweak things.  All in all, so long as common sense is applied, I recommend it.

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 4:10:30 PM   
abcbsex


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Status: offline 		Enemas and ass play have always had to be separate for me. I originally thought, enema=cleaner ass play when in reality it just mucked things up. Made it a lot messier. Just the kind of gross I don't like to think about. So I stopped doing enemas and just ate healthier. enemas never were that erotic for me anyways. 

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 4:18:46 PM   
RumpusParable


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Status: offline 		Not for me.

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 4:21:39 PM   
strictman42


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Status: offline 		I've been giving enemas for about ... hmmm, 25 years, had a website on the topic, have a current website (not really very complete I'm afraid) on the topic, and have a book out on it. I've found that a surprisingly large number of people enjoy them, and I think the resistance is more about the perception of uncleanliness, when the reality is far different.

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 4:41:42 PM   
SubJordanTyler


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Status: offline 		I don't really find enemas erotic, as I use them more for cleaning out before ass play.  It just comes across as a necessary step to take before ass play to avoid those yucky potential messes.  I've had them used for humiliation before - to be made to do them in front of others.

But ass play..........holy fuck does that do it for me!!  Nothing gets me to submission more than having my ass pounded as hard as possible or getting a fist shoved deep inside me up to the elbow.  I love the feeling and the feeling of being stretched wide open after it's over.  By far ass play is the best for me.  And I agree with one of the previous postings - don't be gentle.  Be rough and just take me hard.  Only way to do it right!!

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 5:24:23 PM   
MadameXTC


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Status: offline 		I will admit when I first started in the scene 10 years ago I had a very hard limit no for enemas and a light limit for ass play. Of course with time limits change. Anal is something that I do for the one that I love and submit to. It is not my favorite thing but if it makes him happy then it makes me happy. I will admit if I am worked into it it can be more erotic then anything else. I did manage to have an enema a few times and I hated it. Its humbling and for me very humiliating.. But like I said its amazing what you do for your Dominant when he asks of it..


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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 7:02:20 PM   
derfrewop


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Status: offline 		I like ass play a whole lot more than enemas. As noted by others enemas simply muck things up for the ass play (all the shit just above the liquids that came out is now all goopy and just entering the rectum ready for yet another liquid lube and vigorous stirring) No thanks!

Over the years, I have found that a morning supplement of Fiber, Flaxseed Oil and a Cal/Mag guarantees anyone a solid and complete dump everyday. Everybody is different as to timing but most people about 12 hours later. Anal sex will have very little smell, usually no visible shit. Plus, your sub will be able to take much more activity with a healthy bowel.


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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 7:06:35 PM   
MladyHathor


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Status: offline 		Love it, its a must for strap on play--and very humbling IMHO.

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/6/2008 8:16:03 PM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		love it also  when my mistress fists me anally that feeling really is amazing once she slides in me  love also her going in deeper inside of me as well and yes i can take up to her elbow  our goal is to one day see that elbow disapear inside of me and for her to fist me with both hands at the same time  and yes enemas are a must  her giving them to me really puts me in the sub mode but usually she wants me clean when she walks in the door being fisted anally by a woman is much better then strapon play but we do use the strapons kinda like fore-play to get me to open up for her  once she thinks im ready out goes the strapon and in goes her fist last week she took me with no strapons ..just her fingers and her fist and of course lots of lube ..that final push when she enters me words cant describe ..all i know im all hers ..love a lady in control   yes she has trained my ass well and boy it is addicting i must say  have fun ..mal

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/7/2008 4:35:06 AM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		I worked in nursing and enimas, in My mind relate to 'work' not play.. certainly doesn't 'ick' Me out.

The rest of ass play, hell yes, just another part of My girl to be used and enjoyed. Some very different (Especialy phycologicaly speaking) reactions to be had... and I do so love playing with her reactions


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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/7/2008 5:19:52 AM   
hopelesslyInvo


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From: the future
Status: offline 		anal in general is one thing, but enemas might as well be scat play to me; yeah i consider that taboo~

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RE: Enemas and Ass Play - Taboo to you??? - 5/7/2008 5:24:12 AM   
HalloweenWhite


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Status: offline 		Not a taboo for Me, more like a great form of humilitation play-just imagne what you could use as an enema. :)

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