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RE: tears at bedtime - 6/3/2008 2:15:55 PM

slaveluvs2btied

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i cry often during play. if things start intense and build up i can start crying and as i enter subspace i can no longer cry.

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RE: tears at bedtime - 6/3/2008 2:26:33 PM

metalmiss

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Its very rare that i cry at all during play, but when i do its usually real sobbing and crying. For me subspace, intensity of play or the pain itself has little or nothing to do with if or why i cry.

In my experience the tears have no obvious cause in the traditional sense, there is no anger, hatred or upset. When i do cry i feel better for it, because for me playing is letting go, its a release.. What that brings varies.. Sometimes its just tears.

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RE: tears at bedtime - 6/4/2008 10:20:59 AM

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the only time i've cried is when i recived a punishment from my Master. i cried because i knew i let him down rather than because it hurt. physical pain rarely makes me cry, emotional pain, i'm like a faucet lol

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RE: tears at bedtime - 6/7/2008 12:58:44 PM

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i cry all the time for wat he as done to me; its like a sobing bird>>>>

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RE: tears at bedtime - 7/4/2008 9:17:07 PM

amative22

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I have cried as well during play when it gets too painful for me. It is something I am trying to overcome and be better at self control so I can withstand more. If anyone has any ideas on self control like this, by all means, please let me know. Crying feels more like I am displeasing my Master which gets me even more emotional

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RE: tears at bedtime - 7/20/2008 6:28:47 PM

manddy123

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cause you,r a so bloody thik and you know you are:) just take the pain xxx dork????

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RE: tears at bedtime - 7/20/2008 11:22:59 PM

HarryVanWinkle

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How many subs/slaves cry during play with their Master?
Have you explored why?
Apart from the release of your tears, is it somethinmg entirely different from just crying because it hurts?
Why im asking is, during play now, as it gets tougher and my pain threshold gets higher, i need more to sustain the feelings i get in order to space, sometimes i dont even get there, but im always crying during play.
Any comments would help me to understand this further

Even though I'm a bottom, not a sub/slave, and don't have a Master, I'm going to answer this. The only time I've ever cried during a scene was about three weeks after my mother died. I hadn't cried about that yet and needed the pain to unlock the tears. My tops (there were two of them) and the DM were VERY concerned, but it was just what I needed.

Otherwise, my path is usually moaning to growling to screaming to whimpering. When I reach the point where I'm whimpering and trying to cover up my face, if possible, I am SO there.

My submissive, on the other hand, cries when she's really in subspace and when she's having an orgasm.

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