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RE: whats next, - 5/10/2008 9:06:24 PM   
thornhappy


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ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

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ORIGINAL: MasterGreg43

Well variety is the spice of life, I have a pain slut, and one that only love spanking, and serving, I have one that done not like pain at all only if it pleases this Master so she was use as My babygirl when I mostly needed to see a tenderside of My pets, I agree write Him a letter explaining that u both came to a decision and at this time ur relationship is no longer and then ask Him not to make contact if that is what u want a full and total seperation from Him then ask for it, now if those step are not respected then "Restraining order or report as a starker" comes to mind


Yes, you are quite the stud master. But wtf is a starker?

stalker.

thornhappy

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RE: whats next, - 5/11/2008 4:04:51 AM   
MissMorrigan


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Status: offline 		A person will generally persist if there is some form of opening for them to do so, hence the 'former' dom's request. If you are certain the relationship is at an end, why are you having difficulties conveying this?

Keep it simple and mean what you say. If he persists, nip it in the bud and remove the avenues of contact, ie blocking email, phone, etc...

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RE: whats next, - 5/11/2008 5:21:17 AM   
CelticPrince


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how can i tell him its over when i have already told him. any suggestions


babygirl, Just let him know that you have started a new relationship.

CP

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RE: whats next, - 5/11/2008 1:53:05 PM   
BikerDomRealTime


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ORIGINAL: babygirlalways

Hello A/all again
i guess  i wanted to post a new thread, for those who are reading for the first time short backround, my dom was comparing me to his painslut, sayin how he wished i was like her and that i could f**k him like she does, i talked to him a min of 3 times about this and explained how i felt, at the end he said "well then i guess you dont want me anymore and i guess you dont love me and its over isnt it?"
NOW time for my question, the other day he wrote to me asking if we were going to have a session this coming monday, i told him no but he told me that he still wants me? how can i tell him its over when i have already told him.  any suggestions


It's over between us!

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RE: whats next, - 5/11/2008 9:26:43 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		Did someone just out himself???..Tempting

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RE: whats next, - 5/11/2008 10:02:58 PM   
UncleNasty


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ORIGINAL: babygirlalways

"well then i guess you dont want me anymore and i guess you dont love me and its over isnt it?"



Did he really phrase this in the form of a question? If so it sounds less than Dominant to me. Essentially he was handing you the power to make the decision.

"I guess you don't love me...." is possibly just a variant on the old "if you really loved me you would _______." A manipulative ploy it seems, and not even a creative one.

I don't care for manipulation and I stay away, or move away, from those that can't be direct and honest.

Uncle Nasty

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RE: whats next, - 5/11/2008 10:15:07 PM   
domahpet


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RE: whats next, - 5/11/2008 11:54:19 PM   
monywildcat


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Status: offline 		I would tend to agree to all the other posters, in that the best and simplest way would be to simply ignore any and all contact.  Send an email, or a hand-written letter (talk about old-school, how much are stamps again???) and let him know ITS OVER DUDE, DEAL.  And tell him that since his other slut was so wonderful, he can go fuck her some more. "Oh, wait" you would say, she must have dumped your ass cuz you are a FUCKING ASS FACE."  What a manipulative jerk.  Oh, I'm sorry that was mean, I don't know this person.  But yeah, what a jerk!!!  I will not tolerate the manipulative "if you loved me you would ___" mindfuck games, life's too short to allow someone to mess with my head in that way.  You, dear kind OP, deserve much much better.  But that's just my two cents on the subject.  I wish you the best of luck!  I realize how easy it is to get sucked into the vicious cycle.  It sucks, but keep your head up and stick to your guns, and you will be fine.  Hopefully much wiser for the experience!

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RE: whats next, - 5/12/2008 12:29:08 AM   
purgative


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Status: offline 		As I am really just agreeing with the others I will concur really. IMO at the point that a Dom stops respecting you, the relationship, be it play or full time or whatever, becomes destructive. get support from a group if it is around, and keep repeating that he crossed the line and you are finished with him.

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RE: whats next, - 5/12/2008 5:06:48 AM   
mastersvixen


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Status: offline 		Fuck off says it all really and he must have a severe lack of brain cells if he cannot comprehend that simple statement loud and clear 

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RE: whats next, - 5/12/2008 6:49:15 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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how can i tell him its over when i have already told him. any suggestions


babygirl, Just let him know that you have started a new relationship.

CP


I don't get it.  Why should she lie?  Not only is it unethical, but if she gets around, the lack of another partner will be evident.

Lying is almost ALWAYS a bad idea.  In this case, it would be just laziness.


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RE: whats next, - 5/12/2008 9:38:01 AM   
hopelessfool


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Status: offline 		Dark Seven Some times the thought of a person with another person, is enough to make it sink in to the head that its over. Sure Lieing isnt the best policy but when dealing with people who are around dark blue in the crayon box. And saying Look we are over doesnt work...

Look we are over Ive found someone to make me happy. Confirms the first and sometimes stops the other person from doing everything in their power to tempt them back...


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RE: whats next, - 5/12/2008 10:21:55 AM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		sometimes, yea it works. but not all the time.
i tried it and it failed to bad i wound up loosing my new
b/f and my truck.
took two more years and a full restraining order.
now his mother just does it for him

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