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kittinSol -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 10:49:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kitttty He always says that release is forever. I thought these things were forever . [8D] (I'm not feeling venal again, nope.)

DomAviator -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 10:49:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kitttty Honey, as a former pro-Domme, I can tell you that the best law firms are simply crawling with obsequious male submissives. Think about that the next time you are getting legal advice from some high powered partner. I believe that but they are not true lifestyle submissives... They are guys so tired of being pricks that once in a while they hire a domme to make them wear panties and crawl around their office and pretend they are obeying the secretary and turning the tables just because they are tired of always being in charge and having to play the heavy. I have several friends / acquaintences who are lawyers, and while they might want the strippers at the local club to call them bad boy and to slap them in the face with their g strings etc... They are quite dominant in all other areas of life.... You wouldnt want to be their cleaning lady, or the dockboy at their marina.... So they may hire a domme for amusement, but they arent lifestyle subbies collared at home to Mistress....

hopelessfool -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 10:51:27 PM)
Lawyers submissives, need to be domiant to be a lawyer... Im SO confused... Anywho. My snark level is high tonight so your forwarned. Do Every single think your Master has ever told you to do. Follow him blindly even if it means risking injury or bodily harm to yourself... (/end snark...maybe) Obviously to get in law school your somewhat smart no? Then sit down and talk like an adult with your owner... If you need to, heres what you could say Master, may we have an open conversation? "What do you need pet" Master, I know you are looking out for my best intrests and I dont mean to appear ungreatful for your help and guidence, but I do not believe being a lawyer will be a career choice I will enjoy. I personally would prefer getting a degree in such and such a feild. I feel because this degree is in something I truely enjoy it will be a better path. Im sorry that I feel the need to go against your wishes but I do not think this path (lawyerdom) is for me. If he has your best intrests at heart, he will understand and accept such a choice that you are making if not. You have to choose, be a lawyer spend 90 grand on something youll hate... or go against your owner. It might lead to you being dismissed by him. But its time to grow up and be an adult. You can make yourself sucessful. So a man threatend to spank your bottom if you didnt do something. You can give yourself a similar punishment. If I dont do xyz Ill be homeless and totally useless as a human being... I think that is much more of a punishment then a spanking... but thats just me... Kitten

kittinSol -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 10:52:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomAviator I believe that but they are not true lifestyle submissives... ROFL [sm=biggrin.gif] . Priceless.

DomAviator -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 10:53:14 PM)
Hye I just reached an epiphany... Since you were a Pro-Domme you obviously know how to be a bitch... So why dont you obey "master", go to law school then cry palimony and take him for half his shit and get a lien on the other half.... Then dont practice, just retire on all masters assets and what he as to pay you each month! LOL Bet the next sub he will counsel to prepare for a career as a Hooters girl! [:D]

slaveboyforyou -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 10:55:47 PM)
quote: I believe that but they are not true lifestyle submissives... They are guys so tired of being pricks that once in a while they hire a domme to make them wear panties and crawl around their office and pretend they are obeying the secretary and turning the tables just because they are tired of always being in charge and having to play the heavy. I have several friends / acquaintences who are lawyers, and while they might want the strippers at the local club to call them bad boy and to slap them in the face with their g strings etc... They are quite dominant in all other areas of life.... You wouldnt want to be their cleaning lady, or the dockboy at their marina.... So they may hire a domme for amusement, but they arent lifestyle subbies collared at home to Mistress.... That's an overgeneralization, aviator. You'd be hard pressed to find someone as outspoken and assertive as I am. Submission is a choice, and a lot of us choose to only give it to certain people. It's one of the major reasons I don't associate with a lot of the local BDSM groups. I don't like anyone telling me or anyone else who is "real" and who isn't. There are no rules or norms when it comes to a person's individual sexuality or relationship choices.

hopelessfool -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 10:56:02 PM)
DA I would SELL my soul to be a hooters girl for a day sighs but I dont got what it takes...

popeye1250 -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 10:56:29 PM)
Kittty, slaveboy is right, law degrees are a dime a ton. And it'll only get worse as more companies "outsource" overseas and no longer require the services of local law firms. You'll be competing with millions of lawyers from India and China and they graduate them at 100,000 per clip and $20k per year is "big money" to those people. It's the law of supply and demand. And what's left of the "Middle Class" after Bush and all this "free trade" stuff can't afford lawyers. Go to Nursing school. You'll never be without a job and they make very good money!

kittinSol -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:00:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: popeye1250 Go to Nursing school. You'll never be without a job and they make very good money! Not everyone's got it in them to pierce others with needles, but since you're suggesting kittty goes into a medical career, why didn't you tell her to become a brain surgeon? Far more lucrative, and god knows, always needed - especially as many brains out there are showing signs of malfunction [8D] .

hopelessfool -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:00:59 PM)
That or computers, every monkey and its uncle has a computer, and many dont know how to use them.

kitttty -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:01:35 PM)
quote: Hye I just reached an epiphany... Since you were a Pro-Domme you obviously know how to be a bitch... So why dont you obey "master", go to law school then cry palimony and take him for half his shit and get a lien on the other half.... Then dont practice, just retire on all masters assets and what he as to pay you each month! LOL Bet the next sub he will counsel to prepare for a career as a Hooters girl! Because I am not married to him. I do worry that part of his reason for not marrying me is his financial situation. He has a privately held company that has some chance of going public. Thus he might have 10X the amount of money he has now a few years from now. Marrying him now would mean that half of this is mine. I assume that this is a major impetus for him not to marry me. Of course, once he has all that money, I would assume that he could do better than me and might dump me if we are not married. Thus the only thing I can hope for is that his company fails financially. quote: Master, may we have an open conversation? "What do you need pet" Master, I know you are looking out for my best intrests and I dont mean to appear ungreatful for your help and guidence, but I do not believe being a lawyer will be a career choice I will enjoy. I personally would prefer getting a degree in such and such a feild. I feel because this degree is in something I truely enjoy it will be a better path. Im sorry that I feel the need to go against your wishes but I do not think this path (lawyerdom) is for me. I do not know what path is for me. It's a problem. I have no good idea of what to do unless Master instructs me. I would truly enjoy being a fiction writer. Unfortunately, this is not exactly a career path.

kitttty -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:03:05 PM)
quote: You'll be competing with millions of lawyers from India and China and they graduate them at 100,000 per clip and $20k per year is "big money" to those people. How in the hell is any country ever going to be able to outsource lawyers. How on earth would that ever become legal?

hopelessfool -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:05:37 PM)
Sweetheart. Im going to sound really cruel... But GROW the fuck up... you have pleanty of good ideas, you just dont believe in them. You want to be a fiction writer, do the "fulfillign and stimulating job" you have now and write on the side. If your good youll get published.

popeye1250 -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:07:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kitttty quote: You'll be competing with millions of lawyers from India and China and they graduate them at 100,000 per clip and $20k per year is "big money" to those people. How in the hell is any country ever going to be able to outsource lawyers. How on earth would that ever become legal? The internet. They use Radiologists in India now to read ex-rays in 10 minutes.

Sub03 -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:07:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kitttty Im not ready to go to him yet. My problem is that I am a dysfunctional person that seems to need Master in order to reach my full potential. Unfortunately, my Master also seems to be a dysfunctional person in his own right. Thus, I am not sure if I should accept myself this way and assume that we fit or if I should try and see what I can do on my own. I may lose him forever which is hard because I love im. In your original post it said you want to leave him more and more each day.....so which is it? Do you love him or do you want to leave him????????

DomAviator -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:08:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou That's an overgeneralization, aviator. You'd be hard pressed to find someone as outspoken and assertive as I am. Submission is a choice, and a lot of us choose to only give it to certain people. It's one of the major reasons I don't associate with a lot of the local BDSM groups. I don't like anyone telling me or anyone else who is "real" and who isn't. There are no rules or norms when it comes to a person's individual sexuality or relationship choices. Slaveboy your right - but you also dont strike me as someone who would consider entering a career he doesnt want to because Master/Mistress said so. (I dont know your orinetation so I put it both ways I wasnt implying bisexuality) Certain careers require a certain personality type. Dominance, decisiveness, self confidence and certainty in ones self and your chosen course of action. For example, in flight I AM GOD. Jesus is my bitch. If I say do something, dont hesistate dont question, do it and do it now.... Bcause at 500 feet agl with a 1000 feet per minute sink rate I dont have a minute to discuss it with some first officer. If I take that minute to discuss, we will have made a smoking hole 30 seconds ago. Some occupations leave no room for waffling, second guessing oneself, gaining approval of others, forming a consensus, taking focus groups etc,... In court room, when the judge says Redirect? "I need a recess to call master" wont cut it. Im sure shes a nice lady, and I respect peoples choices but law is an occupation where you hold other peoples lives in your hands.... Im a firm believer in individual liberities, but I also expect those I rely on to be reliable and well suited for what I rely on them for...

slaveboyforyou -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:09:14 PM)
quote: Sweetheart. Im going to sound really cruel... But GROW the fuck up... you have pleanty of good ideas, you just dont believe in them. You want to be a fiction writer, do the "fulfillign and stimulating job" you have now and write on the side. If your good youll get published. I agree. What do you think is going to happen if he does dump you or you leave him? Are you going to become a crack whore? If you have this low of an opinion of yourself, than you need to see a shrink. Codependency does not a good relationship make.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:10:30 PM)
note to self If I ever need a lawyer...don't hire kittttttttty.

DomAviator -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:12:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kitttty quote: Hye I just reached an epiphany... Since you were a Pro-Domme you obviously know how to be a bitch... So why dont you obey "master", go to law school then cry palimony and take him for half his shit and get a lien on the other half.... Then dont practice, just retire on all masters assets and what he as to pay you each month! LOL Bet the next sub he will counsel to prepare for a career as a Hooters girl! Because I am not married to him. I do worry that part of his reason for not marrying me is his financial situation. He has a privately held company that has some chance of going public. Thus he might have 10X the amount of money he has now a few years from now. Marrying him now would mean that half of this is mine. I assume that this is a major impetus for him not to marry me. Of course, once he has all that money, I would assume that he could do better than me and might dump me if we are not married. Thus the only thing I can hope for is that his company fails financially. Note I said PALIMONY not Alimony... You dont need to be married to collect LOL For example in texas after you have cohabitated for six months youre as good as married... See youre already on the wrong track for the law thing - your not covering your OWN ass much less your clients....

kitttty -> RE: Sigh. I am in at law school. (5/10/2008 11:17:36 PM)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palimony Despite the quasi-divorce proceeding suggested by the word, "palimony" is not a legal term and has never been used by the California Supreme Court. The legal term, at least in California, is "non-marital relationship contract", and because the relationship is non-marital, the family courts have no jurisdiction. Disputes over contract terms are civil cases, thus enforcement is left to trial courts, or in California, "superior court". So, I'd have to go to court and claim that Master owned me as property, which is a non marital relationship contract. I somehow do not think this would fly. Sorry kiddo. There really is no easy money.

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