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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 10:27:59 AM

SteelofUtah

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See I just like to talk. If I am interested I will say things to let you know I am interested if you are Taken I hope that you will let me know. There are giys who are only interested in you if you are sexually available I'm not one of them however I do like to find out if you are however if you aren't that won't always kill conversation but if I have to drag evert answer out of you or if I find that I am the one doing all the work to maintain a conversation I will just let you go and stop talking, or usually I say well thanks for the conversation but it would seem you are too busy or just not interested in a conversation with me as your comments appear very uninterested, It was nice talking to you have a great day.

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 11:03:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

I think what they MEANT to say, was that they were expecting nudie pics and wank fodder and now they are all jacked off because you haven't supplied either.

Wait....wait a minute...i am NOT supposed to send them nudie pictures and then type dirtily toward them.....well, hell....~grins~

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 11:13:14 AM

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ok perse send me the stuff and I will tell you if it is ok to send to others. I will rate you on how sore my hand gets.

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 11:18:31 AM

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Yeah Send them to me too I'll rate them on how sore andi gets.

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 11:28:01 AM

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Fairly certain all my ass shots are all over the net by now anyway....sub frenzy is a cold hearted bitch.
Now...how does this email thingie work on here...ummm...taptaptap...D...no...myar...

This is exactly the kind of help i was referring to on that other thread about my helpful, mentoring Doms in the community...thanks Boys....(Mae West).

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 12:12:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

Similarly many of the mails I send, if I am talking with an Owned girl I sign of with "Regards to your Master", just a little nod of thanks and respect toward Their Dynamic.

this is greatly appericiated.

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 12:22:16 PM

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Wait a min. This is not sub frenzy. Im a Dom.

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 12:26:27 PM

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Sorry, i was referring to the fact that i have sent my share of pictures to some nefarious creatures in my innocent sub-frenzical state...not in any way thinking that such a strong virile dynamic specimen such as yourself would be anything other than completely and utterly Dominant....

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 12:27:44 PM

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and did you get them yet...pantpant....

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 12:44:08 PM

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i hate emails that have no reason for being sent. i'll make a comment on a picture, something someone said in a forum or in a profile or even say hello to someone i just noticed is from my area. i at least try to have something to say. the ones i get that say "hello" i'll say hello back and ask them what's on their mind; maybe they're shy and can't start conversations if they're unsure the other party is interested. but just a one word hello? are they going down the roster and sending one word greetings just because? or the "i liked your profile", ok, what about it? drives ya batty, i swear!

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 12:57:52 PM

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Steel, I believe we've conversed and it was nothing like this exchange.

Him: Where are you moving
Me: (Name of town)
Him: That's not too far from me
Me: no, I guess it isn't
Him: well, if you don't want to talk, that's fine
Me: (rant about giving me no segue to converse nor letting me know that he'd read my profile and knew my relationship status)

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 2:26:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: OmegaG

I believe when someone initiates conversation that it is their intention of making their intentions clean.

Find me a clean intention anywhere these days......................

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 2:42:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: OmegaG
So-- are we near a full moon or something?

Yeah. It's called summer vacation.

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 3:31:56 PM

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I recently got two of the emails you are talking about - i think there may have been 10 words total between the two. With a little more typing on their part, we could have actually had a conversation - and since they were relatively close, we may have even met. But no - it was not to be - and i am still not sure why they emailed me. Neither had perved my profile, so they didn't even know if i was in a relationship, but then they didn't try to find out either. I was a tad puzzled by both exchanges.

Next time i will flat out ask, instead of waiting to see if they were going to tell me. (sigh) its hard being a polite sub/slave. (sigh)

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 4:16:33 PM

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Meh, I send the occasional simplistic, "Greetings" or similarly brief missive. They only go to two types of folk - people I haven't heard from in a while, where I'm just checking in and being friendly; or people who peek at my profile and have almost nothing in their profile when I glance at them in return [qualifier: my profile clearly states that anyone who views my profile will get a cmail].

Now, if you're expecting a perverse response from me, ask for one...just don't blame me when I shut the IC [Internal Censor] off.

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/12/2008 11:58:19 PM

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It's waxing gibbous. http://www.calculatorcat.com/moon_phases/phasenow.php

Getting IMs out of the blue is sometimes quite annoying. Try putting "Mistress" in your name. LOL

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/13/2008 4:34:41 AM

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quote:

Him: Where are you moving
Me: (Name of town)
Him: That's not too far from me
Me: no, I guess it isn't
Him: well, if you don't want to talk, that's fine
Me: (rant about giving me no segue to converse nor letting me know that he'd read my profile and knew my relationship status)

First impression of this conversation is that by saying 'no, i guess it isn't' you kind of cut the conversation off. You gave him nothing to really come back with there.
Second impression of the convo is his 'well if you dont want to talk, thats fine' seems a little harsh. He could have replied with something like 'you are quite difficult to talk with' which could have opened you up to saying something about not being sure of his motives etc.

For me conversation is a two way street and from that snippet neither of you were given much. Both were being vague, Id say in my opinion it was a 50/50 case of unspoken intention.

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/13/2008 4:49:19 AM

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Is PM having a PM moment?

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/13/2008 5:21:46 AM

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It's a little difficult to guess at times what somebody is looking for when they strike up a conversation. I am a bit of a social animal there are times when I just want to bullshit for a bit with somebody I find interesting, or believe share something in common. Now, mind you, I myself have been blind sided a few times. Where I was simply being social and they thought I was hitting on them, and they started responded favorable to it. Ummm... sorry, I was just making conversation? Or where they were kind of cold and distant because they thought I was hitting on them. On the flip side, there are times when I had a deep sincere interest in somebody and they did not realize it. My My My, the tangle webs we all can weave. There are times when somebody has talked with me, and I myself did not realize they were hitting me, or where I have thought somebody was hitting on me when really they were not.

Damn it, why can't life be simple. Everybody needs to have their hidden agendas or lack of hidden agendas laid out on the table right from the get go.

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RE: Vagueness-- a vent - 5/13/2008 5:43:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Is PM having a PM moment?

Huh?

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