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tsatske -> RE: Safe words for "tone it down" (5/14/2008 9:42:45 AM)
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How about, "Can you tone it down just a bit, Sir (or Maam or whatever)?" Safewords are just band aids that perpetuate our lack of communication skills most of the time. Master Fire
For the people on CM who are anti-safeword, this seems to be a hard concept to understand. I myself don't have safewords, and don't much like them, but for different reasons.
At the last party we were at, a friend of ours was playing his incredibly beautiful little sub girl. (Did I mention she's fucking gorgeous? OMG. And she is so hot when she is in ropes, and subbed out, i look like a zombie when i a that subbed out, she looks like a bondage angel... sorry, lost my train of thought. great tits, too - sorry.)
She zoned out when he ran the rope across her body, before he even tied her, much less hit her.
At some point, with one foot tied against her ass, her elbows meeting behind her back, and her dangling off the floor by elaborate shabari that included a cunt rope, she began screaming in a high pitched wordless keen. He immediately stopped and tried to access her, asking, 'are you okay? what's wrong? what hurts?' she kept keening. He had his assistant lower her to the ground. She managed to get out the word, 'hurt'. He is not looking her over franticly, asking, 'what hurts?' He untied her and got her down and to the ground.
Later on, she was laughing about it, saying, 'I hate it when they ask you questions, as if you can form a sentence in English. Your mind is saying, 'Oh, FUCK, that HURTS! That body part right there - you are going to break it off! I bet you'd stop if i told you - now, what is it called? its one of my limbs, yes, that's the word - limb - wait, i said limb, and now he is headed outside looking for a tree, that must have been the wrong word!'
a lot of people on here have talked about their Doms getting to know their natural symbols, and, honestly, when you are approaching that zone, i think that is the only thing that works. never mind the 'remembering your safeword' issues, i can't remember my native language! You are just going to have to learn what my body symbols mean.
Oh, and, I am one of those that scream and yell and holler and shout all KINDS of things. including threats to your life and manhood. Doesn't mean i want you to stop - i LIKE going there. (to that, 'OMG, I would sell my soul to the devil if you would stop for five minutes!' place. This little sub LIKES her visits to Hell.) Actually, for that spot, i guess i do have a 'yellow' word - i often start saying 'push. push. please, please, push!' [sm=pushed.gif] meaning, i am about to go off the deep end, past sub space, to one of those other, very good places - can you kick it up a bit, and send me there? or, order me to go, which works too, for me at least, hearing him say, 'Fly, Bitch!', well, it just works.
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