Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Teasing and Denying.


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> Teasing and Denying. Page: [1]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Teasing and Denying. - 5/12/2008 2:21:03 PM   
LoveSickPuppy


Posts: 10
Joined: 8/31/2007
Status: offline 		Not looking for stories or methods for masturbatory material, but I was wondering how far can this go? Meaning; what is the farthest you have taken it? Can it always go farther...to the point of locked in a mental institution insane from teasing but no release?

Or maybe this should be the question? Has any Mistress ever said: "Wow, I took that a bit too far" when teasing, edging and denying a submissive or slave?

(Yes I wish that I could find this out first hand, what the limits are..but what are the chances? I don't give a laundry list, I do what I am told)
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/12/2008 9:05:27 PM   
Pyrrsefanie


Posts: 1222
Joined: 9/18/2007
From: NEW HAMPSHAAAAAAH!
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LoveSickPuppy
Or maybe this should be the question? Has any Mistress ever said: "Wow, I took that a bit too far" when teasing, edging and denying a submissive or slave?


Have any mistresses in the history of the world said such a thing?  The laws of probability would say "yes."

Have I?  Psh, no.  In fact I've usually thought to myself that I give in too easily, though I'm sure my boy would disagree.



_____________________________

Ти саркастична, це – доля,
Ти артистична в неволі,
Ти симпатична в цій ролі,
Ти синтетична до болю

Read my series, Taking Jessica, on http://www.akashaweb.com !

(in reply to LoveSickPuppy)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/12/2008 9:50:26 PM   
Reigna


Posts: 334
Joined: 8/27/2007
Status: offline 		I don't know about the insane asylum part, but I'm not alone in having found that too much teasing and denial can seriously interfere with a male's ability to come. Some people do not find this problematic; some do. Over the past six or eight months there have been at least a couple of threads on this topic. You might try a search if you're sufficiently interested.

(in reply to Pyrrsefanie)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/12/2008 10:11:07 PM   
Vigilantejustice


Posts: 106
Joined: 11/15/2004
Status: offline 		I have never thought I have taken it too far.

Of course, I am not known for my great impulse control.

Usually I tease and deny until *I* can't take it anymore, lol. The boy could go for days (and has, when our Dominant has made sexual contact verboten).

Yeah, I'm sure that a person could be driven mad from denial, but I think in a consensual situation it's not nearly as likely as if a person winds up in that sort situation not of their own will.

-Corinne
House Vigilante

_____________________________

“Love begets love. This torment is my joy.”
"Those who are willing to be vulnerable move among mysteries."
"[Your work] is carved out of agony as a statue is carved out of marble." -All by Theodore Roethke

(in reply to Reigna)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/12/2008 11:25:37 PM   
steffie


Posts: 95
Joined: 6/8/2005
Status: offline 		Speaking from the submissive side...

I've had Dommes that have made me wait anywhere from a a weekend... a week... or several weeks.  It's not human nature to be made to "wait" so the Dommes that i've met who are into this, are also into chastity. 

Like a dope, initially i thought the idea of chastity sounded interesting... kinky... cool... different.  Sure, why not?  Agh!  Several days later, especially when the chaffing begins... or when you're forced to sit to pee... or incurably horny ... suddenly chastity doesn't seem quite as much "fun."

Chastity is a powerful tool in a Domme's bag of tricks.  The first time i experienced it, She told me She enjoyed knowing She had control over my every bodily function... and i admit there is a certain submissive joy to giving over that level of control.  It takes a D/s relationhip to a whole new level.

It's when a Domme mixes in the "teasing" with the denial that things become maddening.

Still, there is somewhat of a balanced, karma-like affect that comes with teasing and denial.  The eventual, longed for release, is usually well worth the wait ... and when it cums, it ends up being a source of amusement for the Domme.


_____________________________

There are no secrets to learning how to write. You must learn how to think. S. Leonard Rubenstein

(in reply to Vigilantejustice)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/13/2008 4:32:55 AM   
MsStarlett


Posts: 1879
Joined: 12/23/2007
Status: offline 		hmmm....  No, I don't believe I ever took tease & denial to far.  May have done the reverse and taken it to far.  I had a boy toy who's hard limit was that he would not have sexual contact with me because I was married.  It was against his religion.  I worked on that boy for YEARS!  When I finally got him where I wanted him, he was dreadful at it.  (Possibly just 'nerves'.)  I dumped him and never spoke to him again.  His best friend said he went  a little nuts after that.  Stopped taking care of himself.  Didn't get much needed dental work done and lost most of his teeth.  Shaved his beautiful hair off.  Stopped  associating with all of his friends.  Gained weight.  Married some trailer trash and disappeared into oblivion.

Did I do that to him?  I don't really think so.  He wasn't much above trailer trash when I found him.  But he was pretty.  Oh so VERY pretty!    It's a pity that he 'let himself go.'  But that's not my problem.  I got what I wanted out of him and was through with him.

_____________________________

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

(in reply to steffie)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/13/2008 5:13:09 AM   
Dnomyar


Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		Wonders how easy Pyrrsefanie really is. The thing about teasing is that most women can't take that much of it. If they think that your taking it to far then they develope an attitude.

(in reply to MsStarlett)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/13/2008 5:59:58 AM   
chezzy71


Posts: 412
Joined: 4/19/2008
Status: offline 		I personally enjoy plenty of teasing and denial...i can't prove it is a medical marvel but for me my prostate seems to function alot better after intense buildup and finally release.I am not saying tease and deny me all night long but i think i can take a good couple of hours with activity.No activity..well i can go as long as you like.

(in reply to Dnomyar)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/13/2008 6:45:43 AM   
Marysboi


Posts: 52
Joined: 3/4/2008
Status: offline 		I don't mean to hijack the thread, denial and desire certainly put my focus back where it belongs. Insanity ?? Certainly feels that way at the point of the big "NO". Have had experiences where I was told "NO" at the point of my release. All described as an "accident" that was punishable.."You're not having an accident are you" as the hose waves in the wind spewing seed over the bed covers.." who me"  Big Mistake.. Respectfully.. Jim

(in reply to chezzy71)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/13/2008 7:54:19 AM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Teasing and denial is a big part of my relationship with Angel. I have made him wait for weeks, with or without daily conversations and teasing. Face to face, I have never teased him for more than a day without allowing release, becasue he does so well when it has to be on the phone. His current longest was 5 weeks, no release. I try and keep it less than that, but sometimes it is necessary, and he does not get release unless I am present, or give him permission after he has asked.

DV


_____________________________

I will be your Dominate if you will be my submit - Fox

Snarko Ergo Sum
If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

*Owner of Fox - collared 10/13/07*
VampiresLair

(in reply to Marysboi)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/13/2008 2:08:11 PM   
Shewalksinbeauty


Posts: 19
Joined: 10/28/2007
Status: offline 		My subbie was the one who turned me onto teasing and denial. He loves it it makes him more sexual and able to keep up with me. We haven't gone more than a few weeks, but I find that he can generally wait longer than I can simply because it torments him when I make him come. He would rather show me how obedient he is than have me force something from him. That is the power for me. As for previous comments on this thread, I don't think it could make you medically insane, although possibly could make your life a bit more difficult as a result. Also, I find that females like me and a few other comments I noticed are the less patient when it comes to waiting for release. 

(in reply to DiurnalVampire)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Teasing and Denying. - 5/13/2008 2:38:47 PM   
ken54


Posts: 11
Joined: 11/13/2007
Status: offline 		Tease and denial is fun. As a switch I have done both sides and like it a lot. Of course too much tease can end in an erection you can not get rid of. So I guess I like tease and denial, but with a payoff.
   Ken54

(in reply to Shewalksinbeauty)
Profile   Post #: 12
Page:   [1]
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> Teasing and Denying. Page: [1]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078