AquaticSub
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Arrrggghhh! After recieving proposals from two married women, an obese transvestite, and a girl from half way around the country, i am beggining to wonder what i am doing wrong.
I am polite, I try to be a gentleman, I try flirting (though i don't see the point) but nothing works. It seems like everyone is getting some attention, except me. But i mean, honestly, how well do you want to know the person you are fucking up the ass?
Me? A lot actually. I've just gotten kinda bored of random sex. Not saying I won't indulge every now and then in the future, but it doesn't hold the appeal it once did. I like being able to cuddle and talk once the dildos are washed.
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I don't see the point in having a "relationship" if the basis for that relationship is a woman who is so insecure that they are performing sexual acts they find distasteful just to hold onto a man. Call me a romantic, but ideally an S&M relationship should be based on sexual need, expediance, and if not friendship, then at least congeniality.
What on earth makes you think the basis for these relationships are kink? In my particular situation, I can get tons of guys to beat me, call me a whore, tie me up and spank my ass. I serve Valyraen because he also loves me and I can see us growing old together.
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The whole point of the experiance is that mature people don't need intimacy to form a sexual liason, and are realistic enough to build on a relationship based on need rather than want. To put it another way, it makes more sense for some people to see if you are sexually compatible before you start dating, and then it becomes easier to fall in love if you can learn to like someone first.
And I don't mean to judge, but there are some seriously fucked up people on this website. I read a profile of a woman who wanted to meet someone so she could be a wetnurse to a male sub... don't you normally have children to be lactating? Assuming the father isn't lurking in a closet with a gun, shouldn't you be putting the child first? I guess some people can handle being into s&m while juggling a job, household, and kids, keeping it a secret from their friends, family, and children, but it seems like every other month you here about some guy who wouldn't know a boundry from a meatcleaver, like some monster who was holding his family hostage and torturing them in his basement.
I guess i lost my train of thought here... oh yeah. Why can't I find a woman to spank me?
Because if you are just looking for sex with no relationships, why are you judging other people for doing the same thing? Lactating is a fairly common thing, you don't have to be carrying or have an infant to lactate and frankly, I consider that to be pretty damn tame.
Not to mention, it's a huge turn-off for you to randomly decide what "the point of the experience" is. Seek people who mesh with you and your desires. Thank those who don't for their time and move on.
< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 5/12/2008 9:10:49 PM >
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