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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/14/2008 11:16:33 AM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't be interested in a braggy profile; I don't think you have to do that. Just write what you do--activities, interests what you like about women...you've got a great sense of humor, let it show.

[Edited cause I think I have a fever...bleh]

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/14/2008 11:20:00 AM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

I mean who really cares if anyone enjoys sticking a bunch of celery up their bottom, whilst singing Ave Maria and knitting a tea cosy?


it wasn't a tea cosy...it was a toaster cover......


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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/14/2008 11:24:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		i prefer reading about personal stuff than the wicked or what they're looking for. 

if the profile only talks about the kink this and kink that ...how years of experience etc etc - it's a major turnoff and i don't bother replying back to the sender's message.

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/14/2008 11:42:15 AM   
hsspode


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Status: offline 		I don't like dominant woman who constantly type the same thing over and over again about how they are the best thing to hit the face of the earth and all males are worms.  How if they don't like your profile they will just ignore you.  It's really cliche and just boring to say the least.  I think it is a measley attempt to act more experienced then they really are.

Let's face it, if you can't prove to me why I should submit to you other than your a pretty female who is dominant...I will toss you to the side for a lady who knows how to express herself and push my buttons.

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/14/2008 11:46:50 AM   
Poetryinpain


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I prefer vanilla stuff. I am, after all, looking for someone with whom I hope to form a relationship. As we build a relationship of trust and honesty, the kinky stuff will sort itself out. After all, there are things I might consider with the right Dom which I think I wouldn't ever consider with just anyone.

The show-off 'I am uber-Dom, you are meaningless sub' type of profile is a big 'bleh' for me. And since I prefer to let the Dom contact me, I guess it's up to him to discern from my profile (and postings on the forum) if I am what he's looking for.

pip, hope I made sense  

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/14/2008 8:18:44 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Vanilla. The checklists usually tell me enough about their play/sex lives. If there's something special they are looking for then list that but toward the end. IE "needle play my current interest" or "bondage and sex, no pain play please". But I'm usually turned off by a laundry list of what they demand. Talk about what you are looking for, don't tell people not to write unless they fit your bill. And don't use negatives to describe yourself or an ex.

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/15/2008 12:57:42 AM   
MissMagnolia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

I mean who really cares if anyone enjoys sticking a bunch of celery up their bottom, whilst singing Ave Maria and knitting a tea cosy?


it wasn't a tea cosy...it was a toaster cover......



Well it looked like a tea cosy to me in the photo you sent me.

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/15/2008 9:04:42 AM   
atendersoul


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Status: offline 		the most interesting read is when people show that they are not what they are within their words here.....

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/15/2008 9:30:57 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		atendersoul words can hide a lot or show a lot.  Words are just words take them as you will.  

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/15/2008 10:08:06 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Wen i was looking i liked the peronal information.  It lets you see a whole prson.  Great if yiu hav x number years of experience, but if i was to contact someone i would want to know a little more about them.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/15/2008 12:35:29 PM   
spinninsweetness


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Status: offline 		Funny profiles, showing a bit of personality always interest me. Those who dont take themselves way too seriously, or waffle on about how domly mcdom they are.

And for some reason a yahoo or msn addy on a profile always puts me off. I dont know, too open, or too desperate!

So really whether the profile is kink-based or completely vanilla, if it looks like they have personality and a sense of humour, thats what interests me.

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/16/2008 6:23:24 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		spinninsweetness nobody on here has a sense of humor. If you don't believe me do a post and see how you get flamed.

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/16/2008 11:48:11 AM   
spinninsweetness


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

spinninsweetness nobody on here has a sense of humor. If you don't believe me do a post and see how you get flamed.


But I love the pretty fire!

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/16/2008 11:51:17 AM   
Justme696


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

spinninsweetness nobody on here has a sense of humor. If you don't believe me do a post and see how you get flamed.

you have nice humour...cheers op the posts...


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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/16/2008 6:47:06 PM   
GreedyTop


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

I mean who really cares if anyone enjoys sticking a bunch of celery up their bottom, whilst singing Ave Maria and knitting a tea cosy?


it wasn't a tea cosy...it was a toaster cover......



no, the picture plainly shows it was a tea cosy.


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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/16/2008 8:36:51 PM   
TwoFourSevenPoly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

What are you most interested in reading about first or the most on a profile.
  • Wicked straight to point kinky stuff like;
    "I'm mean wicked Daddy that wants to press his lips to yours, slowly bit down on your lip, pull your panties tight up between the cheeks of your ass, until you are standing on the tips of your toes.
  • Personal Stuff like;
    "I'm a X year old male dom that enjoys the outdoors, a day at the beach. I'm drug and drama free and have a lot to offer somebody.
  • What they are looking for;
    "Seeking a female submissive, prefer bi-sexual, who enjoys the meaning of life and who knows to have a good time."


Basically, are you wanting to read more about vanilla things or right to the point BDSM stuff? 




I prefer reality based profile built on:

1. A Picture and a completely filled out profile
2. Who they are, are they d & d free, info about their pace of lifestyle 24/7? M/s? D/s? O/p? Bedroom only? want a slave or submissive and there IS a difference.
3. Why should I contact them? What do they have to offer? Do they stimulate my mind?
4. What is their core belief system? protocols? concept of owning someone?
5. Experience, and yes it takes someone very experienced to get into my mind. Anyone can be a fuck budy, but can you do a mind fuck? Hmmmm.
6. Vanilla likes and dislikes

and last but not least a checklist that is reality based, not everyone is a expert in everything. Leave the on "your knees now bitch" messages in the trash can where they belong. Oh and the other pet peeve is the whole "gift of submission" gag me line. And guy's get a clue we are intelligent, have a brain and know how to use them.

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RE: Kinky, Personal or Looking for profiles. - 5/16/2008 10:04:52 PM   
fluffyswitch


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i want to be able to tell what you are like as a person. i mean i want to know what you are interested in but i want to know something about your personality. it is important to know what you're looking for in a partner but i would like to more than i'm looking for a sub to kiss my feet clean my house and just generally be inferior to my obvious superiou person. i guess i like a balance of all three. i don't want a profile that is so vanilla that i can't tell what you're doing on this site but i don't want it so stereotypically over the top that i think you're a troll either.


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