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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 2:32:00 PM

Missokyst

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See.. for me that would not have been an issue. I tend to seek out men who can talk about the fond memories they had, rather than focus on the negatives. And not just of the ex wife or girlfriend. I like to know how they feel about their own family when growing up, before I allow them into my heart. I might play with them, but they wouldn't mean enough to me to bring on any sort of loyalty.
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
They had been divorced for 20 years. he also said to me,"All the women I have been with go crazy,likely you will too." Guess what, he did bring it out in me too. i was a bitch

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 3:01:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

See.. for me that would not have been an issue. I tend to seek out men who can talk about the fond memories they had, rather than focus on the negatives. And not just of the ex wife or girlfriend. I like to know how they feel about their own family when growing up, before I allow them into my heart. I might play with them, but they wouldn't mean enough to me to bring on any sort of loyalty.
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
They had been divorced for 20 years. he also said to me,"All the women I have been with go crazy,likely you will too." Guess what, he did bring it out in me too. i was a bitch

I'm confused why it wouldnt be an issue? I said he called her a bitch and 20 years later was still seething in anger?

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 3:09:41 PM

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Missokyst,
I tend to use the working definition of "bitch" as someone who has sex with everyone except me

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 3:10:55 PM

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I think she is saying she would not have had an issue because it would have let her know not to get far enough with him, to have issues.
I also try to seek out people who mostly focus on fond memories. I don't mind if there is an exception or two mixed in, but the overall view of your life should be positive.
I, myself, had a childhood worthy of a 'sybil' movie. However, in spite of that, i now get along with my family of origin and am proud of the family that we have created against that past trauma. That is the way to exercise it. I am not as attracted to people if the bad in their life is still in the drivers seat.
I am a person that if you ask me when the happiest time of my life was, i will almost always say, 'now'. If you ask me during a particularly difficult date - say, as i am struggling through the anniversary of my daughter, i will say, 'well, today i am in pain, but, overall, i would say, the point in my life that i am at right now.'
and, i guess, that is what i want most of my friends to be like, too.
yes, i agree, like attracts like.
if is important to give someone time to just talk - little stories and tales about their family, neighbors, growing up, ect. do they find humor? pleasure? or just a lot of anger?
when you listen, can you imagine them reacting to upcoming life situations in a way that makes you want to be with them? someone once told me, 'when you meet a man who can change a tire on the side of the road, in the rain, while singing, marry him.' ask yourself if the person telling the stories you are taking time to listen to, sounds like that kind of person.

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 3:44:21 PM

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I am naturally submissive, but people force me to be a bitch. They'll try to take advantage, or control. My dead X's family thinks I'm a bitch. They haven't a clue as to why, except HE said I was. He was highly abusive, violent, alcoholic, and addicted to everything from porn to cocaine to the lottery. He kept me a virtually isolated hostage for more than 10 years. At one time, I worked 3 jobs a day, and was checked on and stalked at each, and handed over the money for his habits.He emotionally beat me down and raped me afterward, almost daily. He tried to poison me after I told his family about his drug problem and begged for help. His habit eventually killed him at 44. I survived their sons abuse. So, if that makes me a bitch, so be it, I EARNED the title.

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 5:11:38 PM

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I am naturally submissive, but people force me to be a bitch. They'll try to take advantage, or control. My dead X's family thinks I'm a bitch. They haven't a clue as to why, except HE said I was. He was highly abusive, violent, alcoholic, and addicted to everything from porn to cocaine to the lottery. He kept me a virtually isolated hostage for more than 10 years. At one time, I worked 3 jobs a day, and was checked on and stalked at each, and handed over the money for his habits.He emotionally beat me down and raped me afterward, almost daily. He tried to poison me after I told his family about his drug problem and begged for help. His habit eventually killed him at 44. I survived their sons abuse. So, if that makes me a bitch, so be it, I EARNED the title.

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 6:37:08 PM

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I have a friend that once said his wife is a bitch-after spending more time around her, I can only say amen.

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 6:58:21 PM

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Speaking for me , i can see two sides of the term , one a self appointed the other a derogatory mean slam .If it is self appointed IE " she calls herself one mean queen Mistress Bitch " so be it ,the other drains too much energy in a negative way for me and i also find it disrespectful to women .Hence why i do not use the term no matter the make-up of the person .I have had Women who helped me in vending refer to themselves as "my booth bitches " i changed that and they are my booth bunnies .To me life is just to short to hold on to negatives and top it off with name calling .Your opinion may differ this is just how i feel .Women to me are a gift that take many forms mothers , sisters ,friends ,Dominants , Mistress's, Wives etc .I just can not view such treasures as bitches ,whores , cunts , and alike .If it were not for Wonderful Women this world would suck .

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 7:09:08 PM

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It wouldnt have been an issue for me because I wouldn't have hooked up with him. I might have engaged in some play at a club with that guy, but nothing serious would ever have happened. Especially since he retained that anger over 20 yrs! I said I detested my ex, but we were very civil to each other after our divorce. And I was always careful not to give away the secrets of our marriage to bolster my "good wife" stance.
I kind of perfer to hang out with people who don't retain anger.
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
I'm confused why it wouldnt be an issue? I said he called her a bitch and 20 years later was still seething in anger?

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 7:11:05 PM

Missokyst

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I don't call that a bitch. I call that a survivor.
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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 7:11:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I have a friend that once said his wife is a bitch-after spending more time around her, I can only say amen.

And your poor friend had to spend time inside her... poor guy

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 7:13:29 PM

LadyHibiscus

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OOH I wanna be a booth bunny! I will wear the ears and the tail, k?

Actually, I insist on wearing the ears and tail!

I am not a bitch. I have my moments, but by and large, I am the sweet person people accuse me of being.

This is somehow, not RIGHT, in a dominant. Invariably, I get the surprised remark that I am so nice and friendly. So, if someone would like to give me Bitch Lessons, so I can trot out the appropriate behaviors as needed, LMK! I already have "aggressive", "sarcastic", and "impatient" down pat, I just need to add to the mix.

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 7:34:18 PM

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Usually exes are exes for a reason some people just have the keen talent to bring out the worst side in some other people and just because you dont get along with them doesnt mean that ether person is a bitch or a jerk or whatever it just means that the two of you dont get along it just means that you dont bring out the best side in the other and it is porbubly best for all involved if you have as little to do with echother as possable.

Also if someone broke up with them and they didnt want to break up or harbered hard feelings about being broken up with it is likely they will not have nice things to say about the person who dumped them. You cant always trust what someone says about their ex because face it, the relationship ended for a reason and they are likely to have a jaded view on their Ex

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 8:49:41 PM

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I saw the thread title and thought you were calling me out.

LOL. That's just too funny.

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 9:00:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I have a friend that once said his wife is a bitch-after spending more time around her, I can only say amen.

And your poor friend had to spend time inside her... poor guy .

Spending time inside bitches isn't too bad, if they're all tied up and gagged.

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/14/2008 11:55:58 PM

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Deal !Ma'am you would make an awesome booth bunny , although i do have a naughty helper outfit too

horns and tail OR if your feeling angelic halo with wings

.I did have this lil cutie who really wanted to help out at one particular event but she was very shy , just so happens she was also getting into puppy play .So i dressed her as a lil pup and it really boosted the booth energy .She did not have to speak just did some tricks and barked the sweetest lil bark ever .Funny how she was not one bit shy as a lil pup .Not saying Lady H would be a puppy just sharing.

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OOH I wanna be a booth bunny! I will wear the ears and the tail, k?

Actually, I insist on wearing the ears and tail!

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/15/2008 12:39:46 PM

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So, azzzzzzzzzzz, just what kinda tails you got for wearin'???? I mean, are they the "tie this around your waist" kind, or are they the "let me smear this around and slide this here thing in really slowly" kind?

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/15/2008 1:30:29 PM

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Clip on , tie on , staple on , sew on to yer bod , i am sure i can find some plug n plays just for you

Its all fun , whatever works hu ..

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/15/2008 8:05:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

But I often see people refer to their ex, or his ex, or her ex, as a bitch. Why?

Well, let's see: 1) I had to file a restaining order against her to stop the harrassment 2) She tried to get him fired from his job after they broke up. 3) She tried to get him arrested after they broke up. 4) She tried to convince me that he was cheating on me ...and the list goes on. It took 3 1/2 years for her to finally go away.

I've mainatined for awhile that she should have "psycho" tattooed on her forehead as a public service announcement.

So, yeah, she's a bitch....and not ina good way.

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RE: She is a bitch - 5/16/2008 7:45:22 AM

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you say bitch like its a bad thing. the canine kind is loyal protective of those she loves and her home. will defend them to the death.
a woman who's strong holds her own opinions and doesnt let anyone step on her is called a bitch. if your ex threw all your stuff out the window after shredding them because you were an asshole , she's called a bitch.
no one can insult me by calling me a bitch . even before Master i saw the power in the word. a strong woman is a bitch? then count me in.

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