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adoracat -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/22/2008 11:23:43 PM)
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince
Not withstanding other issues such as your age, sex, experience etc; what do you as a submissive seek as a primarely goal?
As is true most of the time this inquiery is fostered by reading profiles of many, not all, of respondes to various thread here on CM as well as other sites that I visit at times.
Is a life partner foremost in your search at the expense of other issues; or are the aspects of a very nice D/s fit are what riings your chime?
i've been married 16 years on the 10th to wolf. his response about BDSM? "buncha freaks!"
needless to say, that particular want/need/desire has not been met with him, at all. we're poly, so i found others. two passed away. Daddy found me despairing, and took me in his arms as his own.
nearly 8 years ago, i met TheEngineer. he's been a friend, an occasional lover, and by the end of the year plans to marry me, as wolf and i have finally come to the decision that while we are good as friends and as parents, we are just not well-suited as spouses. he isnt alpha, he isnt dominant in the bedroom, and he wants someone else to be in charge so that he can leave all responsibility at the door when he gets home. i cant be that, its not the way i'm wired.
if i had been able to move in with Daddy, things wouldnt have gone this way. but i couldnt, and TheEngineer has been waiting this chance with me for about 6 years and never thought he would have it. he's dominant, he's loving, and he likes my kinks, along with having kinks of his own that mesh with mine nicely.
so yes, i'm going into "having it all" and am still amazed at it...although one of my friends told me i shouldnt be, as cats seem to land on their feet.
kitten
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