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Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 4:17:32 AM   
itsamystery0020


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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 5:21:25 AM   
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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 5:23:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		http://www.vanilla-not.com/basics/daddydom.html
if You search the subject, here, there are a lot of other postings on the boards


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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 7:22:09 AM   
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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 8:25:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		A Daddy dom is more nurturing and intereted in growth, a little more accepting of faults, just as demanding but takes a more suttle approch then a direct one.
They often fill that father figure that the person missed in their childhood.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 10:37:51 AM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		i never missed out on any fathering when i was a child. as the youngest girl in the family i not only had my dad, but 5 uncles. if anything,
i was over-fathered!
Zee treats me really really well, is concerned about what i do, whats happening in my life away from him, how i feel and what i want all the time.
my former master only had me for service and armcandy, and didnt really want to hear what was going on outside of that
unless it effected my service to him.


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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 1:21:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Considering the fact daddy/daughter is not illegal between consenting adults and there was no whiff of anything hinting towards underage in the original question, your comment seems to be rather daft doesn't it?

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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 4:09:20 PM   
angelspassion4u


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Status: offline 		Found this somewhere, I put it in my journal. This is what I feel and hope to find too.......
 
"What is a Daddy Dom?

OK, a Daddy Dom is a Male type Dominant Person Who has a strong Fathering urge,the counter part of the Mother Hen syndrome I would believe, How ever in D/s When the Daddy Dom takes a submissive, He treats her rather like a little girl(see the next page to find out more about the little girl sub) He guides, teaches  AND.. offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. In my view a Daddy Dom is the most tender of Dominants. He loves His little girl with an unwaivering and passionate Love that is timeless.
   His little girl is His sunshine the bright spot in His life. He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing He can not, He guides and teaches her helping her to be ready for this world. And then He waits, knowing she will run to Him when she becomes over whelmed and scared by the harshness of it all.
   The Daddy Dom always has His little girl's best interest  in mind,  He will help her set and reach goals, He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be,not for Him but for herself..and yes He will even at times punish her. This will no doubt break His heart, but He will always do whats best for her.
   The Daddy Dom gains as much joy and excitement from His little girl's daily acomplishment as she herself does. His pride in her shows in the tender loving way He cares for her, she has put that twinkle in His eye.
   The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to Him, to her they are real and He will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and He is her Hero for it.
   The Daddy Dom hears all her  dreams and desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves Him enough to open herself up so totally to Him, and He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little girl, and He loves her unconditionaly.
    Even if during scening He brings her great pain to release her pleasures(admit it some like it .. so hush now.) He will cuddle her and show her the tenderness she craves when she needs it., when she feels unsure of herself ,He will whisper encouraging words for her, when she feels ugly He will reasure her how beautiful she is to Him.. when she is scared He will be her saftey ,her medium against the world if need be. Even though she is all woman, she is His little girl and He is her Daddy! "

< Message edited by angelspassion4u -- 5/16/2008 4:17:04 PM >

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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 5:04:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: itsamystery0020

What is the difference between daddy doms and others?

He's called "daddy".


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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 7:33:42 PM   
EmergingMe


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Status: offline 		What are some good resources for Erotica (books, etc) as well as DVDs for this particular kink?






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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 8:00:17 PM   
Interesdom


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ORIGINAL: itsamystery0020
What is the difference between daddy doms and others?

I think there is a lot of difference, though there is also a very large gray area between a Daddy Dom and a Master.  A Daddy Dom is almost always a 24/7 thing, or at least very frequent contact.

A Daddy Dom will normally be more protective and nurturing toward his 'lil girl' (usually what the sub counterpart is called) than a 'standard' dominant.  He is still likely to be firm and demanding but in a more fatherly "for her own good" way, rather than for his own direct satisfaction.

There's a short topic on the specialist BDSM encyclopedia here and that topic has external links on the subject that you may find helpful, too.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 8:33:17 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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http://www.collarchat.com/m_668543/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#668698
Age play dynamics

http://www.collarchat.com/m_580865/mpage_1/key_age%252Cplay/tm.htm#580890
Ms and age play

http://www.collarchat.com/m_546688/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#546972
Another daddy dom question

http://www.collarchat.com/m_541638/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#541832
How does a dom decide to be a daddy ?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_540044/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#540129
Daddy's Girl

http://www.collarchat.com/m_278285/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#278992
What exactly is a daddy dom?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_259176/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#259184
Are there any daddies here?

Daddy/Daughter Roleplay

Daddydoms and Babygirls

Daddy?

Daddy/little girl

Hiding Daddy's Belt

Daddy doms

Daddy's little girl

Daddy? (2)


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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 8:46:58 PM   
kiyari


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Status: offline 		Daddy is into incest 'play', and corresponding guilty pretense.

His li'l girl can expect the forced sex bit,
and subsequently all manner of 'grace' in consequence.

For someone outside the 'lifestyle', am I very far off, here?

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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 8:54:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BrigandDoom

Considering the fact daddy/daughter is not illegal between consenting adults and there was no whiff of anything hinting towards underage in the original question, your comment seems to be rather daft doesn't it?


Despite you using an overly large font (compensating for something?), I will say that perhaps you should get to know the posters here before saying anything derogatory about them. Raymond has a very dry sense of humour. Perhaps look into that. You'd be daft if you didn't.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 9:03:50 PM   
OTKkindaGirl


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Status: offline 		what angel says, about sums it up for the little girl in me  and i couldn't disagree more with kiyari's view... but hey, that's just me, to each their own i suppose.  like any other dynamic, it's all about communication and expectations.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/16/2008 9:11:52 PM   
Padriag


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ORIGINAL: itsamystery0020

What is the difference between daddy doms and others?

Usage of vaguely defined personal labels chosen based on personal perspectives.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/17/2008 8:15:40 AM   
BrigandDoom


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Status: offline 		The overly large font is due to me not being on a my usual pc, so as this thing isn't that great I can read what I am typing easier, secondly, if your making a joke, would it not be wise to make it obvious to all? There are lots of folks who don't use the message boards regularily, plus there are those outh there who would choose to try make mischief out of comments like that. I don't research everyones individual posting and its plain stupid to expect anyone to! If you did as you seem to think others should you would've noted that I generally post in this size of font! May be you should think about what your posting, rather than blindly defending a friend?

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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/17/2008 3:00:13 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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ORIGINAL: kiyari

Daddy is into incest 'play', and corresponding guilty pretense.

His li'l girl can expect the forced sex bit,
and subsequently all manner of 'grace' in consequence.

For someone outside the 'lifestyle', am I very far off, here?

way off the mark.

speaking about my relationship only, it's not about incest. guilty pretense or forced sex. it's about having the type of father i missed when growing up.

read angelspassion4u's post ...she said so eloquently and better than i could.


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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/17/2008 3:26:27 PM   
domahpet


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ORIGINAL: kiyari
Daddy is into incest 'play', and corresponding guilty pretense.
His li'l girl can expect the forced sex bit,
and subsequently all manner of 'grace' in consequence.
For someone outside the 'lifestyle', am I very far off, here?


very very far off. very

just sayin'

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RE: Daddy Doms - 5/17/2008 3:53:12 PM   
angelikaJ


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ORIGINAL: kiyari

Daddy is into incest 'play', and corresponding guilty pretense.

His li'l girl can expect the forced sex bit,
and subsequently all manner of 'grace' in consequence.

For someone outside the 'lifestyle', am I very far off, here?


That actually occurs rarely.

I am a wee bit curious why you posted before reading the links provided as well as the other informative posts...but I am more curious as to why this is your perception.

For most of us involved in this particular dynamic the incest scenario you put forth is distasteful...it squicks me.
My guess is that you figure if you combine "Daddy-Dom" plus sex you get incest fantasies?

What you likely don't realise is that how we define "Daddy" is different from how you define him.

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