Kasia
Posts: 442
Joined: 6/25/2005 From: The Coast of Adria Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo I think equating SM or Ds with love is again a generalization. Bless you for that. I have been asking myself if I was really in the wrong place - so many monogamous couples with love and whipping/spanking/etc. And here I am not searching for love nor whipping/etc.... I have my life partner and our relationship is not about D/s, in fact it involves only traces of it and we switch all the time. So I am not looking for love, that I have. I dont like inflicting physical pain, I can enjoy doing that maybe once in two years and thats all. I like to humiliate. So I am not looking for anything to do with whipping/etc. What I want to find is someone to service me primaly sexually - a sextoy, along with some other minor services. And I am not giving much in return. I am not at all eager about punishments either, if someone disobeys me or start behaving bratty to cause attention I am most likely to dismiss him. Somehow I feel more in the same boat with wolfie here than anyone else *sigh*
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I DO have profile - just lost an S somewhere along the way Kassia
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