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RE: physical damage - 10/21/2005 9:37:58 AM

plantlady64

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ORIGINAL: BeeQueen

a few days ago i had a note about forum in my email...........about a guy that asked if *numb* nipples r normal...(still numb 3 days after session)

ok....i cant hold it back.......so i gona say what i thought when i read that.

u f* idiot, u ever realised that the nipple is the most sensitive part of a woman after the clit? and that ANY CLAMPS that r too hard on it...or longer than 30 min on it WILL damage the nervs?

if i could i d go and find u ..and beat some sense into ur brain....and next i d make u endure what u did to the woman.....and than i d send u to a first aid workshop force some knowledge into u

woman.....get away as long as u can.......BDSM does NOT MEAN it HAS TO HURT (if u dont enjoy it and KNOW he has some basic knowledge)

btw..that goes for femal and male subs......speak up if the pain is too much...and if the dom/me doesnt react to ur complaint....LEAVE THEM.....a bad dom/me can inflict severe injuries on ur body and soul
SAFE SANE CONSENSUAL
and if u ppl cant stick to that ....i d rather say its abuse and not BDSM....
SAFE SANE CONSENSUAL
submissives SPEAK up, its no sign of respect or love if u keep ur limits to urselfe..

Hello There,
I say you must not have read the post the Domme made very well.
Her message said she'd attached them so loosely they fell off three times so she gave up and flogged her sub's tits instead.
In addition to that she DID HAVE CARE AND CONCERN IN MIND or she would not have asked the advice she asked here.
I think you need to get past your desire to thump people you don't even pay attention to.
I'd also say maybe you need to be retrained too as all the literature I've read and my Family Doctor agree 15 minutes is the maximum length of time to leave them on someone’s nipples before you cause damage. If you'd left them on someone for a 30-minute period you could have caused someone damage too. Your own ignorance running amuck isn't something that makes me want to hit you so maybe you need to reconsider your abusive comments.
Sincerely,

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RE: physical damage - 10/21/2005 9:38:15 AM

Kasia

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Keep the discussions civil and mature, and do not insult the kinks, preferences, lifestyles, etc. of others.

Oh really? Was this supposed to make me laugh?

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RE: physical damage - 10/21/2005 9:48:54 AM

plantlady64

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Everyone has to start somewhere. I would love to see anyone participate in an -edge- activity, whether it be BDSM or Extreme Sports or building a wing on their home or doing sacred sweatlodge or -whatever- that they don't make some mistakes every now and again. If you are so perfect that you have never made a mistake, never physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually wounded someone, etc., I'd have to say that you are a much more deified individual than anyone I've ever met.

Oh Bloody Hell,
She didn't even read the whole post she's ranting about. Talk about showing you make mistakes, this is a classic one so show she shot her mouth off without even knowing the story or caring enough to research before she threatened someone.I bet next she'll say Doms eat children in their breakfast bowls over a cheerios commercial.
On top of that her training is inept, as she does not even know how long to leave nipple clamps on showing she indeed would hurt a sub she played with out of lazy ignorant practices she's exhibited here.
To you directly Bee Queen - I'm sorry to lay you out so, but posting your ignorant message here invited my criticism about your methods, actions and assumptions.
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sub suzanne

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RE: physical damage - 10/21/2005 10:21:45 AM

frenchpet

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ORIGINAL: plantlady64

Hello There,
I say you must not have read the post the Domme made very well.
Her message said she'd attached them so loosely they fell off

He (Master Esse), not she... besides that I agree.

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RE: physical damage - 10/21/2005 10:55:49 AM

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first thing for a dom/me is to INFORME themselfe about medical and psychological damage i can inflict on anyone i play with and everyone that is not doin that, is not a good dom/me

I agree with this 100%. And any sub who has any doubt about the knowledge, skill, and experience level of the person they are with should expect results like those sighted.

Would you volunteer as an assistant of a person who witnesses a knife thrower at a circus and comes home and wants to try it out with you? Yet, some fool will watch a porno of BDSM play with a single tail, go out and buy one, and use it. It's most amazing that a lot of times, he/she will even find a volunteer to be on the receiving end. Then they're both surprised when "play" results in a 3 inch gash needing stitches.

There are a few times when you don't want the person responsible for your body to say "oops!". A surgeon or dentist, who has been taught to replace "oops" with "rinse", are the obvious ones. But hearing your Dom/me say it, shouldn't be too comforting either.

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RE: physical damage - 10/21/2005 11:46:26 AM

BeeQueen

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laughs...yeah i see how it is...same as everywhere.......in order to keep the personal freedom high....the community rather looks away and lets ppl that have no clue what they r doin get their thing goin......ppl that look for the real dom..the real sub...the real slave....geesh....
i tell u who i am...someone that has seen too much things happen under the cover of bdsm...and that i only have posted a few posts doesnt mean i didnt read the others.....respective that i havent heard about bdsm before joining collarme

and thx...i can control myselfe,......i guess its just my very harshly expression of anger and lack of *apropiate* language for contribute to such an elaborated forum

u might ve noticed english is not my first lang, and f* is about the only word that pops up to my mind when i see ppl ask ....after a damage has occured

and from the great and really well formulated answers i got here, all i seen is that ppl r so uptight about their very own great liberty...that abuse under bdsm will go on
have fun with it...great liberty of harming ppl that trust u totally....great insight of ppl that for sure have such a great understanding about bdsm .

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RE: physical damage - 10/21/2005 11:52:24 AM

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Personal attacks on individuals,name calling and singling out sections of any community are against TOS.Please keep to topic.

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RE: physical damage - 10/21/2005 12:22:31 PM

plantlady64

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I'd say to all the sane people posting here you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink.

Oh well, what are we gonna do?

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RE: physical damage - 10/21/2005 12:44:13 PM

ownedjulia

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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

I'm all for bonking people on the head with the common-sense stick.

If you ever fine one of those, please can i borrow it?

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You're never going to get a single person here to say "Pshaw with your ideal about SAFETY! I laugh in the face of health and concern or at least mock it smirkingly!"

Given that, the best thing to do is give advice, perhaps a stern look of "And be sure you know better next time" and be grateful this was the worst that happened. Be grateful that this person has NOW found and opened himself to a resource of a larger community. You have no idea how many private practitioners, especially in the below-18s don't avail themselves to it.

I did that when I was younger, then i got hurt and i learnt.

It's called growing up andliving!!

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RE: physical damage - 10/21/2005 1:21:18 PM

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