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phoenixinchains -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 7:26:18 PM)
Lol, Lady Pact, it's better than it started[:D] Should we wipe out all "young kid"vibe so soon? Maybe, some one finds it cute... There are fetishes for school-girls, does this transend with boys?

LadyPact -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 7:36:15 PM)
Actually, there are more than a few subs, both male and female, in this age bracket that I have a great respect for. They have something the OP doesn't seem to have. What was that again? Oh, yes. Maturity.

phoenixinchains -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 7:43:24 PM)
Age and maturity don't go hand in hand. There are people older than the OP that act the same. Or people who push enter without a clue how it happened... okay, i'm weirded out. But again, i'm no Domme, and seek no one like this fellow. He asked for help with a profile, and i feel a profile should be about you, and if that is him, that's the way it should be. "Better to be hated for who you are, then loved for who you are not", kinda thing... The learning process is for him.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 7:53:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam I was trying to figure out how to say this. But, I'm over 30 so I don't count anyway. chuckle Master Fire Yeah, what could we auld pharts possibly know?

LadyPact -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 7:56:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: phoenixinchains Age and maturity don't go hand in hand. There are people older than the OP that act the same. Or people who push enter without a clue how it happened... okay, i'm weirded out. But again, i'm no Domme, and seek no one like this fellow. He asked for help with a profile, and i feel a profile should be about you, and if that is him, that's the way it should be. "Better to be hated for who you are, then loved for who you are not", kinda thing... The learning process is for him. It is exactly the lack of maturity that makes the whole thing unappealing.

phoenixinchains -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 7:59:29 PM)
okay, i understand now. it's been a little like math for me, takes a while to "click". i've got it now. [:D]

LadyPact -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 8:02:50 PM)
It's all good. I hope you have a pleasant evening.

phoenixinchains -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 8:06:32 PM)
[sm=thanks.gif]

Renee7852 -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 8:10:35 PM)
BondageBarbieX wrote: i personally only talk to people with photos of themseves so its good that you will be adding one soon,yiu will get more response with one. Question for BarbieX....What about the folks who can't post a picture of themselves due to job security or are simply not out in their Lifestyle choice? Seems you might miss out on meeting some great folks due to lack of a photo. Just a thought. Renee'

APoinephilicLife -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 8:20:24 PM)
by answer, i mean read/open

MissMagnolia -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 8:25:03 PM)
If you are a financial Dom than you can just leave now. My money is mine. I work hard for it. This little snippet just gives me the shits. You're 19 years old, with fuck all experience and little to offer to any Mistress but bratty behaviour and a stinking attitude, bemoaning the fact that no one responds to you and getting arrogant?? Not only that, I've only read the present, revised version of the profile. I cant even imagine how fucked up the original was. I'm not a ProDomme, but I have friends who are. Don't imagine for one second that these women don't work hard. They deal with novices who don't know what the fuck they want and have to mind read what the guy can't say, guys who think every ProDomme is going to have sex with him, they spend vast quantities of money on equipment, clothing, marketing, lube, toys, cleaning products, premises, etc, etc. These women work hard, believe me. Get off your high horse, stop collecting "friends" you know nothing about, making sweeping statements about things you have little concept of and maybe, just maybe, you might come across as a human being that someone might want to talk to. I believe this is all I have left to say.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 8:26:24 PM)
I have to agree with Barbie re: the photo. No photo = red flag for me. It's too easy to claim a fear of "job security" when in reality the problem is that the person is involved and cheating or is a male pretending to be female. If you're not out enough to post your picture, how are you going to be out enough to meet someone? I don't waste time on people who lack the confidence to post a face pic.

DerangedPleasure -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 8:36:12 PM)
I feel like the fear of posting pictures on here is kind of silly. I mean if in the off chance some one you know finds your profile and confronts you about it wouldnt that make them a "sexual delinquent" (I use that term from the perspective of some one who may not understand the lifestyle.) as well? After all what were they doing on collarme in the first place?

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 8:46:45 PM)
as i stated on your other thread (before it was deleted), not every gay male is after your virgin ass your profile's still a turn off - negative vibes, poor tactful manners and grace esp when you're trying to find that special Domina ...then again, you're not interested in hearing sound opinions from someone who's over the hill.

APoinephilicLife -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 8:57:58 PM)
a picture should be up... i guess its still awaiting approval

Mustardseed -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 8:59:49 PM)
Well, he did listen to some of the suggestions - he'll drive to meet up with folks, he gave a detail about the type of woman he wants to meet (under 30); but at the same time there's still a lot of negativity and there's still a lot of assumption that there are predators after him. He sounds rather paranoid. So, it's possible that some the women who he's looking to impress would like the honesty of a messy room and an honest insight into personal party life, and enjoyed the format of his previous profile. If this is an improvement for the people who were okay with his first profile, then this thread was for the best. If it's actually a downturn, then perhaps his previous one was fine and he just needs to be more patient.

APoinephilicLife -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 9:01:57 PM)
well, the only reason i said femalesfor the financialwhore thing is cuz i dont usually talkto dommales and i havent senn any wanting money. thats all but thanks for the comments. they're much appreaciated. -kevin-

APoinephilicLife -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 9:08:22 PM)
he respects the fact that im straight. i think he sounds like a great person.

APoinephilicLife -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 9:12:06 PM)
i dont have a school girl fetish. lol/ i just want someone around my age. 10 years is about the most ill care. i cant exactly have a relationship with someone over 30. thats all

Bloodrose88 -> RE: Is my profile not appealing? (5/18/2008 9:14:10 PM)
The negativity is definitely a turn off for me. Were I a Domme, I would much rather read about what makes him tick as a person. What are your hobbies? What makes you smile? What random things annoy you? A friendly opening and closure would be nice too.

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