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ORIGINAL: windchymes

There's an old joke that says "there are two kinds of people in the world: masturbators and liars".....

Not that I'm implying anything.....

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ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures

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Second of all, I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt that you will accept just being friends. However, be aware that it is a line that is used often as a way to get a foot in the door. I have a yahoo messenger long list of blocks from local guys who said “Hey, I’d be happy just being friends with you” and then a week later saying “Would you be my Mistress?” even when I’ve told them that I wasn’t looking. I suspect many Dommes (and submissive women as well) have had this similar experience and though it sucks that a whole whack of bad apples spoiled it for you, you are just going to have to factor that in as one of the unfortunate obstacles.

LadyAngelika

This business of being told "no" when asking for a D/s or M/s relationship and then asking for friendship has NEVER worked out for me...it appears men use it as a way to keep ahold of me and hope i'll change my mind (usually because they are married) and i have friends who i have reached out to because i was truely in awe of Them, but none that chased me.

pinkpleasures

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yet i havent been contacted by any females, and the few contacts ive tried to make fell on deaf ears. Why is this? Are there females on this site looking for guys to talk to? are most of the women just trying to "play the field"? I definatly dont understand this.

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Why fuck up the chance of a bloody good relationship (either as a collar or a friend or even both) by chasing the "target"?.... Bloody hell, I know that just being my normal evil, silly old self, I've got the odds in my favour...... Of course a little seduction may not go astray. ~ Grins at one very classy lady called pink. ~

IronBear