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IronBear -> RE: Forced Bi (10/25/2005 7:59:54 AM)
quote: quote: "Veni, vidi, vici. (I came, I saw, I conquered.)" Julius Caesar (100-44 BC) "Veni, vidi, commercium." (I came, I saw, I [had] intercourse) Works for me. [;)]

harleygirl72 -> RE: Forced Bi (10/25/2005 8:11:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear quote: quote: "Veni, vidi, vici. (I came, I saw, I conquered.)" Julius Caesar (100-44 BC) "Veni, vidi, commercium." (I came, I saw, I [had] intercourse) Works for me. [;)] quote: "Veni, vidi, commercium." (I came, I saw, I [had] intercourse) Works for me. Love that [:D]

jand -> RE: Forced Bi (10/25/2005 5:29:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: harleygirl72 quote: Seriously though...isn't someone seeking bisexual experience...bisexual???? I can only speak of my desires and not for someone else, as this is a deep fantasy of mine. I would not willingly seek out a female for sex or a relationship outside of friends, nor would I or could I have sex with a female without a Dom present initiating it. I would do this for a Dom and find pleasure in it. As another author wrote it, being forced takes the responsibility of the act off of me to a degree. Though are we truly being forced if it isn't a Hard Limit? No we aren’t, but the final decision is in his hand and not mine and therefore I feel free to enjoy without the guilt. Am I a homophobe or bisexual? Who knows, but I don’t feel the need for labels outside of what a Dom would have of me. [;)] whether that fantasy makes you homosexual or not, putting "lesbian" or "bisexual" in your profile because of it would be more confusing than leaving it as it is because you're bound to get contacted by women who would be misreading that category

bronxboy -> RE: Forced Bi (10/25/2005 7:28:02 PM)
What does it matter, some people will say one thing and do another. I had a submissive tell me that when I told her to do something that she didnt particularly like she only did it for me which meant that it did not count. I guess that some people feel if they are forced they didnt really do it.

harleygirl72 -> RE: Forced Bi (10/26/2005 6:34:42 AM)
quote: whether that fantasy makes you homosexual or not, putting "lesbian" or "bisexual" in your profile because of it would be more confusing than leaving it as it is because you're bound to get contacted by women who would be misreading that category Exactly which is why it isn't in there for me. It truly shouldn't be if you don't openly seek same sex partners on your own. Great thinking.

interestinglyme -> RE: Forced Bi (10/26/2005 9:32:11 AM)
i am a new member on collarme.com and this is my first post. its also my last cuz it seems like these things alway lead to fightes. i just wanted to say that alot of you bashed that real submissive to give credentals, and when he did nobody said another word to him. his profile ain't here anymore so i guess you got rid of him. was it cuz you couldnt bust him anymore about his knoledge.

darkinshadows -> RE: Forced Bi (10/26/2005 9:37:11 AM)
No - thats because he closed it shortly after he arrived because he sent offensive emails to individuals, made sweeping generalisations and was rude, went against TOS and failed to follow CM guidelines. Peace and Love

FTopinMichigan -> RE: Forced Bi (10/26/2005 11:44:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: interestinglyme i am a new member on collarme.com and this is my first post. its also my last cuz it seems like these things alway lead to fightes. i just wanted to say that alot of you bashed that real submissive to give credentals, and when he did nobody said another word to him. his profile ain't here anymore so i guess you got rid of him. was it cuz you couldnt bust him anymore about his knoledge. Everyone is entitled to their opinions here, and I guess they are also able to delete one account and start up a new one...just like that. K

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Forced Bi (10/26/2005 12:12:51 PM)
quote: Everyone is entitled to their opinions here, and I guess they are also able to delete one account and start up a new one...just like that. K Yes, they are free to do that, aren't they? M

Leonidas -> RE: Forced Bi (10/28/2005 10:33:42 AM)
quote: So...are straight people, actually straight if they have sex with the same sex, and being "forced" makes them remain straight? Not much forced bi this side of prison. Since by definition what we do is consensual (unless it's criminal) yeah, they wanted to do it in the first place. The question, really, is what is the "it" that they wanted? Take it in the ass or mouth from a man? Yeah, bi. Be subjected to the most humilliating thing that they can think of by a woman? Probably not bi, but a high probability of mommy issues. Can you tell the difference? Nope. Can the fem dom in question tell whether she's using, or just being used as an excuse? Nope. Only the faux non-con bi-guy knows for sure, and even he may be lying to himself rather convincingly.

Prunesquallor -> RE: Forced Bi (10/28/2005 11:23:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear It was a figure of speach like saying that I didnt care if he was a Calathumpian Baptist. As a Calathumpian Baptist I object very strongly to your insinuation that I might be bisexual. It should be a very well-known fact that Calathumpian Baptists are only permitted to have sexual intercourse with lawn mowers or other lawn-enhancing implements.

LadyAngelika -> RE: Forced Bi (10/28/2005 11:23:26 AM)
quote: Probably not bi, but a high probability of mommy issues. FYI, not all men wanting to please women and be devoted to them have mommy issues. - LA

IronBear -> RE: Forced Bi (10/28/2005 1:33:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Prunesquallor quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear It was a figure of speach like saying that I didnt care if he was a Calathumpian Baptist. As a Calathumpian Baptist I object very strongly to your insinuation that I might be bisexual. It should be a very well-known fact that Calathumpian Baptists are only permitted to have sexual intercourse with lawn mowers or other lawn-enhancing implements. So this makes you a Calathumpian Baptist Lawn Enhancement Implement Sexual Fetishist then????? [:)]

Morgaine289 -> RE: Forced Bi (10/28/2005 10:16:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy I just belive that people should explore what they want, not how it fits in with society's lables. I think hetero, bi, and homo should be abolished. They're redundant. What he said. I was really asthonised as i noticed, that other people did not find both sexes sexy. I firstly react concerning the person, not the sex. This thread and all the homophobe things that were written are bizarre to me and I am not somebody who use bizarre lightly. The only analogy i can make is the topic polygamy concerning, People who are by their emotions not poly wired, can mostly not relate to people who are poly.

Leonidas -> RE: Forced Bi (10/29/2005 1:14:29 AM)
quote: FYI, not all men wanting to please women and be devoted to them have mommy issues. Yeah. That's why I said "high probability" and not "certainly". Could be any number of reasons why a man would allow himself to be "forced" to do something that goes against his sexual orientation by a woman. Some deep dark "mommy, please don't" memories is just one (but a likely) possibility.

Prunesquallor -> RE: Forced Bi (10/29/2005 2:14:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Morgaine289 I was really asthonised as i noticed, that other people did not find both sexes sexy. I firstly react concerning the person, not the sex. As someone who is unremittingly heterosexual, I have always felt that I missed out on a lot of good things by not being bisexual.

Prunesquallor -> RE: Forced Bi (10/29/2005 2:16:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear So this makes you a Calathumpian Baptist Lawn Enhancement Implement Sexual Fetishist then????? [:)] I don't believe in labels. cough [8D]

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Forced Bi (10/29/2005 12:05:14 PM)
quote: As someone who is unremittingly heterosexual, I have always felt that I missed out on a lot of good things by not being bisexual. I know what you mean. There is no shortage of women on these boards I would chase/court, do what I needed to do... [8D] M

tayman182000 -> RE: Forced Bi (10/30/2005 11:14:09 AM)
I've followed this thread with interest but comments so far seem to miss one important aspect applicable to some subs. I am a sub male, totally hetero but I enjoy being bound and helpless in the presence of a dom and used or made to submit to any act she wishes. It is the act of submission which gives me pleasure. If in this position I was required to engage in sex with another man I might find the activity itself unpleasant but the gratification from total submission sublime

Kasia -> RE: Forced Bi (10/30/2005 11:24:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tayman182000 I've followed this thread with interest but comments so far seem to miss one important aspect applicable to some subs. I am a sub male, totally hetero but I enjoy being bound and helpless in the presence of a dom and used or made to submit to any act she wishes. It is the act of submission which gives me pleasure. If in this position I was required to engage in sex with another man I might find the activity itself unpleasant but the gratification from total submission sublime Actually I think EmeraldSlave2/LuckyAlbatross (I too prefered the first one, I love emeralds) pointed that couple of times... along with some others.

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