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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

No. Sorry.
After reading your profile, it does appear that you are not content and fulfilled with the situation the way it is.
Nor would I be.

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

You're profile says that all blue (light and dark) and red emails will be blocked, so obviously you are not interested in reading anything from Dommes or Doms or male subs. In which case, I'm not answering here either.

Silly idea really, to refuse any responses you could get. There are a lot of very friendly and knowledgable people here.

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ORIGINAL: tsatske

Christina,
I understand that you would not be content with her situation or dynamic, but i read her entire profile, even her entire journal, and i just don't get where you are getting that she is unhappy with her dynamic?
It sounds to me as if this is very much the dynamic she wants, and she is simply looking for support from others with a dynamic that she desires, wants, likes, finds fulfilling, but also finds challenging and difficult. growth is suppose to be challenging and difficult.
I, myself, could not possibly be cockolded - not because i am female, i have no problem with using the word for a woman, after all, there is not a parallel feminine word. I am just too poly to be cockolded. the definition in our relationship of what it would man for Master to 'cheat' on me comes entirely from Master. If i had hadto define that, there would be no definition. as far as I am concerned, there is no way Master can 'cheat' on me. I am property.
However, i do very much understand the desire for dynamics which might be hard and challenging, and the struggle that goes with that. But I just don't get that OP sounds unhappy with her life situation.

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ORIGINAL: MastersBitch96

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

You're profile says that all blue (light and dark) and red emails will be blocked, so obviously you are not interested in reading anything from Dommes or Doms or male subs. In which case, I'm not answering here either.

Silly idea really, to refuse any responses you could get. There are a lot of very friendly and knowledgable people here.

Gee, yeah it's so uncommon to not be ALLOWED to speak with certain people in the lifestyle!!!!  Friendly and knowlegable?  I have yet to see any knowlege being offered and certainly no friendliness!  And nobody give me crap about this being my first thread here... it's just my first thread under THIS username, created for the purpose of this topic alone.  Frankly from the past 4 years I've spent at this site, I don't know why I expected even the slightest help or civility in the forums.  -- MastersBitch96 

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: MastersBitch96

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

You're profile says that all blue (light and dark) and red emails will be blocked, so obviously you are not interested in reading anything from Dommes or Doms or male subs. In which case, I'm not answering here either.

Silly idea really, to refuse any responses you could get. There are a lot of very friendly and knowledgable people here.

Gee, yeah it's so uncommon to not be ALLOWED to speak with certain people in the lifestyle!!!!  Friendly and knowlegable?  I have yet to see any knowlege being offered and certainly no friendliness!  And nobody give me crap about this being my first thread here... it's just my first thread under THIS username, created for the purpose of this topic alone.  Frankly from the past 4 years I've spent at this site, I don't know why I expected even the slightest help or civility in the forums.  -- MastersBitch96 

ahhh! I can see what you are doing here... you have created an outlet to  express your sassy, brassy bitchy side being master doesn't let you do it to him.  Glad we can help [:D]

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Strange, actually, that female cucking is not as common as male (or so it seems).  Could it be that males, in general, enjoy deep humiliation more than females?  I do not know the answer.  I for one believe I would enjoy being cucked.  Actually, I don't think it would humiliate me (would that be your purpose?)...but I think it would make me hot as hell to watch my Master fuck another girl.  I'm not sure that will ever happen with me, though, as he has mentioned he would also want me as a participant.

You are brave to open yourself up so much in your journal.  I wish I could offer you commeraderie here, but I can't, as I have not experienced what you have.  It seems rather cathartic, though.

I can not possibly comment on whether or not you are happy - only you can know this.  As for not being allowed to speak to others, I have also had restrictive rules placed on me in the past, and I found them (and find others' rules) perfectly acceptable.  I wish you the best.

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ORIGINAL: Bloodrose88

One thing I have learned about this glorious lifestyle is that there is no wrong or right way to do anything. Call yourself what you want (I personally would make up a feminine only word for cuckhold, just to make people ask!), be happy in your dynamic as long as it is what you want. 
However, you are in a rather unique situation, so I may suggest opening up your flow of contact to others.  I understand if you are not allowed to talk to certain types, as that seems to be fairly common (that couldn't work for me, but whatever), but certainly talking to straight females of any persuasion, or maybe gay male subs would help, since they wouldn't be trying to steal you away?
Just my opinion.

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ORIGINAL: MastersBitch96

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ORIGINAL: Bloodrose88

One thing I have learned about this glorious lifestyle is that there is no wrong or right way to do anything. Call yourself what you want (I personally would make up a feminine only word for cuckhold, just to make people ask!), be happy in your dynamic as long as it is what you want. 
However, you are in a rather unique situation, so I may suggest opening up your flow of contact to others.  I understand if you are not allowed to talk to certain types, as that seems to be fairly common (that couldn't work for me, but whatever), but certainly talking to straight females of any persuasion, or maybe gay male subs would help, since they wouldn't be trying to steal you away?
Just my opinion.

Well, I've seen the term cuckquean used once or twice on a uk site, but it seems largely unused.  Lol, I do think it'd be fun though to make one up for that purpose.  Yeah, I know he would have no trouble with me speaking to gay males & such, but I don't think you can set mail controls to allow by orientation, can you?  I thought only by sex, and bdsm role... hmmm, I'll check that.  Thanks for your input!-- MastersBitch96

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

being sassy and bitchy is fine (i'm like that too) however there's a tactful way in which you don't sound arrogant and offending to others including regular members posting here. oh you should ease on the restrictive contact ...you might find a wealth of info, advice and friendships. that's my weekly $1.50 advice for you.

to answer your query, i'm not cuckold or whatever it might be called for women (oh yeah it's females not famales). though it seems that you're passionate about personally it probably wouldn't work for me because i have strong jealousy issues. so like the saying goes - love (and enjoy) the kink you're in.

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ORIGINAL: MadameXTC

In our relationship I suppose that has happened to me, but I never admitted that was what happened. I didnt think of it that way. He has been with two women of my knowledge and I knew of both experiences. He was into swinging before I met him so we discussed it and I told him I would try it had we found the right people to do this with. I personally dont think it is for me, but when he is with another woman it doesnt bother me too bad. As long as he is happy and safe and I know what is going on I am okay. I make sure that I communicate my thoughts and feelinsg to him before and after the situation happens. To some people this may seem as a negative aspect of a relationship, but I think it is only what works for the people in that relationship. Some people just get off on knowing that their significant other is having sex with someone else. Some people enjoy watching it happen, it may not be for everyone but who is to judge how a person feels inside. The first time in this relationship my Dominant was with another person, I cried and I wondered to myself why did I agree to it, but I made sure I talked to him about what I felt and that he reassured me that everything was fine, he spent extra time with me to support my feelings of being "alone". I think it is a natural human reaction the first few times something like this goes on. The journal was a good idea to get your thoughts out. my best advice is despite how mean people are in the forums do not let that stop you from posting. People often see their view as the only view, relationships come in many forms and what may appear as negative to one may strengthen another. Sounds awkward but the mind is hard to understand.

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ORIGINAL: LadyLynx

My 2 cents: The idea in of itself, of my Dominant using another person for sex/play whether or not in front of me, I find the idea hot. And also doing the same or similiar to my sub as well.

That being said, not crazy about the term, and generally avoid those who want it, because often times, they want only that. (or the Hot Wife/Girlfriend scenario in general.)

MastersBitch96, it's good that you feel happy and content in your dynamic. May you always feel that way.  And about people in forums, I am sure you have noticed that there are those who automatically post rude things, (I confess at times I have had a kneejerk reaction, and responded without thinking about it. just ignore the replies you don't like.