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Focus50 -> RE: Advice for seeking Dom online (5/19/2008 11:28:28 PM)
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ORIGINAL: sirguym
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ORIGINAL: Focus5]
If you picked a hundred random dom profiles, I reckon less than five would be sincere individuals interested in taking the time to cultivate something meaningful with you (or any female) and 80 - 90 would come under the banner of HNG (horny net geek) - the timewasters and wannabes who can only ever be dominant as long as the Net protects their anonymity. The remainder are those happy with what they have and aren't seeking.
Asking simple "everyday" questions is the best way to gauge someone's sincerity. If you actually strike up a conversation beyond "kneel bitch", then you have the rare distinction of chatting with a dom who sees more than just new, naive "meat". But the clever ones will hang in there, so you've gotta be patient and give only the trust they earn. Moving to arranging a r/l meet is also another way of screening out the geeks.
Good luck - and welcome to the Forums.... :-)
Focus.
I think 5 in 100 hugely overestimates the figures; 5 in 1,000 may be more accurate.
You are going to encounter a lot of frogs along the way; expect them and be prepared.
Be aware too, that the good Doms, and others, see the other side of the coin.
Wannabe subs who pester with trivial or irrelevant questions to which the answers are patently obvious.
Then or if the question is answered, come back with a very similar question the next week.
Lol, I think I'll stick with my 5% guesstimate because that still doesn't take into account how few of those 5 will even live in the same country as the OP, never mind finding a local.... The Net is probably the most difficult medium of all for those seeking something of substance with r/l potential.
Focus.
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