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bashfulhuck -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/28/2008 11:30:31 AM)
MsStarlett Maam, keep your head up, it will be ok. There are plenty of us out there that are great diamonds in the rough. i'm one of those submissives that merely needs a bit of polishing to be a great submissive. i was at one time "a most delightful submissive" according to my Domina. She passed away nearly 11 years ago though, and until recently i have had a hard time letting go. It's been so long since i've been allowed to kneel before a Goddess, that i'm one of the ones that will need some TLC and training. But that's ok, i'm sure there is someone out there for me that will be what i need, and i can be hers. i'm a strange one in that i can happily live in a monogamous relationship every bit as well as a poly relationship. i guess i'm just open to whatever the universe has set in my path, and hopeful that the right Domina will come along, scoop me up, and mold me into a work of art. :) i wish you all the luck Maam, and know that you will find what it is you seek. Sincerely and respectfully, Rick

SnowRanger -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/28/2008 12:39:50 PM)
It's True... Helicopters... erroniously seen as a Deus Ex-Machinica. it is not so much the machines but the way people see them... mike

HalloweenWhite -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/29/2008 3:28:35 AM)
First of all, why don't -you- go out and just "be"?, that way, when the submissives you're talking about message you, you'll have -plenty- to talk about and keep em busy :). The other thing is you should console yourself (like I do) that the good ones are taken means I've clearly got great taste. At the end of the day, just because "this one" or "that one" is taken, doesn't mean they're all taken, or in fact that the one who's taken today will still be taken tomorrow, so get yourself out and about and interacting with as many fellow kinksters as you can-you'll up your chances of meeting someone.

MsStarlett -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/29/2008 6:05:20 AM)
Oh... I have plenty to keep me busy. I'm just a control freak. (DUH!) It pisses me off when my boys don't behave correctly. (Big Surprise!) And Mr.Poof did send me a message on the day he deleted his account. He just sent it an email account that I do not check often. Because he did try to notify me that he was having problems... I will consider forgiving him... after a suitable time.

TeeGO -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/29/2008 9:30:17 PM)
And then there are the "not so good ones" that are taken. Like me... I am so lucky to have such a wonderful Domme that puts up with me and all my flaws. I will vouch for her as being perfect, though I doubt she would call herself that. Anyway... ...all those that are without flaw raise your hand... Sometimes I think people look for too much in others...there are no perfect people thus no perfect matches. But there are plenty of good people that could be happy together. That is all........[sm=soapbox.gif]

darchChylde -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/29/2008 10:00:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TeeGO ...all those that are without flaw raise your hand... darchChylde dons his Sarcastic Hat and raises his hand

rubberpet -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/30/2008 8:22:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde quote: ORIGINAL: TeeGO ...all those that are without flaw raise your hand... darchChylde dons his Sarcastic Hat and raises his hand rubberpet sneaks up behind darch to adjust his hat because it was a bit askew...then gives him a wedgie [sm=excuseme.gif]

SilentTigresss -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/30/2008 10:45:04 AM)
Respectfully asking... does your husband know about your "other" life?

SilentTigresss -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/30/2008 10:52:48 AM)
OK! Disregard my last post please... I didn't read all the way through the pages. Sorry!

subsdmn -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/30/2008 12:45:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett Ever get that feeling that all the 'good ones' are taken? Or to far away? Or just to busy with their real lives? sigh I just get a little frustrated sometimes. I have found four Excellent subs on CM. Each one seemed so devoted and perfectly matched for me when we first started communicating. Then, each one seems to have drifted away. They still write, just not as often. They don't even log onto the site. I guess it's my own darned fault that I'm only interested in the ones who HAVE real lives. They are the more fully rounded personalities. I always said I liked a "spirited" sub who knew his own mind. Then they get caught up in those 'interesting real lives' and just don't have time to sit at a computer and type anymore. Oh well. There's always the next one. And the one after that. And then another. Like city busses. However, subs aren't really interchangeable. Nor easily replaced when I actually grow fond of one... or two... or four. (Not ranting. Just whining a bit. I miss my favorites.) Yes I do feel that all the good Dommes are taken or too far away. What's up with that?

petpete -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/30/2008 2:35:35 PM)
Yep, sure is when we don't find what we want or cant get it we tend to find excuses for everything.. What about the trillion, millions of people that are left behind and breaking up from relationships everyday, do they feel the same way?

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/30/2008 8:42:05 PM)
Okay sometimes it might seem like all the good Mistresses or good slaves are taken, but there's always more coming around the corner. I got a email from a guy today that is really close to what I'm looking to own, so see there's hope in new ones. ;)

sunkstar -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/30/2008 11:14:36 PM)
well, you should feel lucky that you have found four, which means those ppl----well matched with you actually exist. so the second step is to change your way of approaching to catch them. it should be fun ;) besides, you can either keep looking until you find the "perfect one" or enjoy getting pleasure from the "interesting ones".

petpete -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (5/31/2008 1:37:22 AM)
Never lose hope Girl... [;)]

jonathan -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (6/2/2008 12:58:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett Oh... I have plenty to keep me busy. I'm just a control freak. (DUH!) It pisses me off when my boys don't behave correctly. (Big Surprise!) And Mr.Poof did send me a message on the day he deleted his account. He just sent it an email account that I do not check often. Because he did try to notify me that he was having problems... I will consider forgiving him... after a suitable time. jeez louise, i actually work for a couple weeks and ya'll just go hades... Ma'am, this is what bois say about Dommes all the time, including me, all the good ones are taken. Many Domme friends, but none that own me. Sweethearts to the last lash, all of Them. So, no bitchin' here. make some friends, live, learn, prosper. And the correct expression when they disappear is "POOF! Off like a prom dress."

LadyPact -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (6/2/2008 6:02:53 AM)
Ok. All kidding aside, I do know what you mean. Over the last few weeks, I started, what I thought was, at minimum, an interesting email exchange with some interesting people. All of a sudden, the communications stops, and it fizzles out. Sometimes, you just have to cut your losses.

HalloweenWhite -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (6/2/2008 6:19:07 AM)
This sounds very familiar-I -loathe- not getting replies lol, but, I've been online for years and I've kind of come to the conclusion that that's just the way it goes. As for people just vanishing into thin air, had that too, over and over; people are eager to talk to Y/you one minute, then when you try to talk to them they vanish, and then Y/you find Yourself talking to them less and less until they just don't show up anymore, I suppose it's cynical but I kind of expect it now and I'm mentally prepared to move on to the next brand spanking (no pun intended) friendship.

pixelslave -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (6/2/2008 7:22:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze quote: Me, innocent? Heh, I've been naive at times but rarely innocent! [8D] - pixel you good boy just need a good spanking!!! GoddezzT` You know GoddezzT`, I really could use a good hard spanking; or two, or three, or... [8D] Are you offerring to come to the US to give me one? [;)] - pixel

MsStarlett -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (6/2/2008 3:43:09 PM)
Well Ladies and Germs... My next new toy is supposed to come on Saturday. We'll see if he shows or not. Hopefully, he won't go Poof after he finds out that I'm human. Luckily, this one is a 'puppy'... so maybe he'll be a bit more loyal.

jonathan -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (6/4/2008 10:59:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett Ever get that feeling that all the 'good ones' are taken? Or to far away? Or just to busy with their real lives? sigh I just get a little frustrated sometimes. I have found four Excellent subs on CM. Each one seemed so devoted and perfectly matched for me when we first started communicating. Then, each one seems to have drifted away. They still write, just not as often. They don't even log onto the site. I guess it's my own darned fault that I'm only interested in the ones who HAVE real lives. They are the more fully rounded personalities. I always said I liked a "spirited" sub who knew his own mind. Then they get caught up in those 'interesting real lives' and just don't have time to sit at a computer and type anymore. Oh well. There's always the next one. And the one after that. And then another. Like city busses. However, subs aren't really interchangeable. Nor easily replaced when I actually grow fond of one... or two... or four. (Not ranting. Just whining a bit. I miss my favorites.) This is the best board to subscribe to. i'm way late responding to this one, it doesn't look any better from this side, Ma'am. Not all the 'Good Ones' are taken, but they are getting harder & harder to find, and not always 'geographically compatible', as they say. Things have perked up a bit for me lately, but it appears that another relocation may be required. Well, as long as i keep moving in a westerly direction...... Just one piece of advce, when they 'drift' they really don't know themselves, as subs. They are still exploring & flirting with it. And it is the ones with 'real' lives that You want to get involved with. The ones with real lives that have integrated their submission into their personalities. The tough part. Stay with it. i'm still looking for Ma'am & hoping for happiness. It's never too late.

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