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SlaveBlutarsky -> RE: The 'Good Ones' are taken (7/15/2008 8:34:49 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett
Ever get that feeling that all the 'good ones' are taken? Or to far away? Or just to busy with their real lives?
*sigh* I just get a little frustrated sometimes. I have found four Excellent subs on CM. Each one seemed so devoted and perfectly matched for me when we first started communicating. Then, each one seems to have drifted away. They still write, just not as often. They don't even log onto the site.
I guess it's my own darned fault that I'm only interested in the ones who HAVE real lives. They are the more fully rounded personalities. I always said I liked a "spirited" sub who knew his own mind. Then they get caught up in those 'interesting real lives' and just don't have time to sit at a computer and type anymore.
Oh well. There's always the next one. And the one after that. And then another. Like city busses. However, subs aren't really interchangeable. Nor easily replaced when I actually grow fond of one... or two... or four.
(Not ranting. Just whining a bit. I miss my favorites.)
Don't worry, some of us aren't taken :)
It's a difficult balance, it's hard enough finding suitable vanilla partners, let alone finding suitable kinky partners. Like looking for a needle in a stack of needles.
I would be the first to say I'm extremely frustrated and saddened by the lack of a partner in my life, but I don't let it deter me, I know when it happens, it will be more than worth the wait.
Until then, I just focus on the things I have control over to keep my mind off it.
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