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RE: Do I Have A Relationship? - 5/20/2008 2:04:47 PM

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Well I can't really tell you what's going in someone else's mind, I always get in trouble when I try. You can answer for yourself if you want to pursue it as is or what would need to change for you to pursue it.

I can tell you how I approach relationships. I have passed the age where my number one priority is sex. I only pursue relationships where I see a potential for something long term. Me seeing that potential, however, doesn't mean that I expect to work out but rather I don't see any major road blocks. It's exciting to meet someone where you feel a relationship might develop but the early stages of that are usually a few good conversations, some common interest, maybe great sex. Those are hardly enough for me to change my priorities for a brand new person in my life. I have kids and jobs and I think it would be irresponsible of me to move all of that around for a relationship that was one meeting and a few conversations old. Now as things progressed I would certainly make that relationship a priority but in a sane (to me) way. I am also leery of people that want to move things along quicker than I do. If I feel they get pushy in moving things faster I'm comfortable with then it's sort of a compatibility red flag for me. If they totally freak after one meeting then I might even stop it there.

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RE: Do I Have A Relationship? - 5/20/2008 4:51:32 PM

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If you can't figure it out, how are we supposed to? Not knowing either of you.. We can all conjecture, but I don't know that that will give you anything but fifteen different possibilities. So go back to him and set a target, tell him what you want, and walk if you don't get it. Talking to us isn't going to make change where you need the change.

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RE: Do I Have A Relationship? - 5/21/2008 7:24:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: tormentedtears

Good evening all...

The way the man whispers in my ear as unspeakable things are done to my body... His knowledge of all of my desires... even ones i didn't know myself. I'm lost in His Domination... but as time goes on... His hold is lessening...

Could i please get the perspectives of Dominants online?

P.S. He does not limit me from having sexual relations with others (although i have not... my choice) nor being on dating sites and chatting with Doms.

Look under the P from Player..
beautiful words but no actions..

The fact you're asking Uus if you've a relationship..
can tell yourself enough already right?

The fact you're doubting..
Tells you enough.

I wish you enough

GoddezzT`

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RE: Do I Have A Relationship? - 5/21/2008 7:31:43 PM

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I am willing to bet when you slow down your texts you will lose him period. time to move on.Sorry, you sound like you really wanted this to work, but he's too busy,too envolved elsewhere, or just not man enough to step up to the plate full time..

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