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lizcgirl -> RE: newbie role confusion (5/21/2008 1:44:47 PM)

I had no confusion. I know who I am, what I want, what turns me on and what I need in my life. For me, finding out the details of BDSM wasn't a shock, it was more like "ohhh...... so THAT'S why I do that". lol. I've always been submissive in a relationship but I'm not submissive in all aspects of my life. I am strong when I have to be but know I need some one stronger than me to keep me 'in check' so to speak. I don't care what any one's sexual orientation is, but girls do nothing for me so I know I'm not bi or gay. I have no interest in trying to be a Domme or a switch, it just doesn't appeal to me on any level. It makes me happy to know myself. [:D] 




slavegirljoy -> RE: newbie role confusion (5/21/2008 9:33:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Later still the BDSM aspects fell into place.

Iron Bear
Master of Bruin Cottage
(A Victorian Lifestyle poly home)

Iron Bear,
Better later than never, i always say.  Did your family have a large house, with several servants at the same time?  Did any of the servants live there in there own quarters?  Was it anything like the houses depicted in "Howard's End" or "The Remains of the Day", by any chance?  i have imagined myself being a servant in a large house like that and being a part of a loyal and dedicated household staff. 

 
What interesting and varied lives people have.  Thank you for sharing a bit of yours with us.
 
joy
Owned servant of Master David




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