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interestinglyme -> RE: Forced Crosdressing (10/30/2005 3:48:10 AM)
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So far, this thread has dealt with the issue of feminization from the submissive's point of view, and with dommes analyzing why men wear woman's clothing. I have done a very unscientific survey of the dominant women who have posted profiles, and found that about 40% of the profiles either list it as an interest, or in the wording of the message, leave the door open. Generally, but not exculsively, I contact dominants that have "forced crossdressing" listed as an interest.
Since this is something that interests me, and something I would like to explore, I naturally bring it up in my conversations with them after we get to know each other a bit. Almost every woman that is serious about feminization as a part of the relationship, have the same reason for it. They tell me that it gives them more of a feeling of power to see a man in women's clothing which they have required him to wear. Rarely, (although not always) the domme wants the sub in full dress. Mostly, from what I've encountered, the domme wants her sub in panties. There are many that want to take that a bit further, and say they require a sub to wear panties, and stockings at all times, and then some that say he'll wear a full set of lingerie at home and several women's pieces under his male clothing at all times. Then, as with any interest, there are those that say "Give your pants, shirts, and shoes away, because you'll never wear them again."
I have also noticed that the vast majority of women that list forced crossdressing as an interest, aslo list several forms of chastity too. This ranges from orgasm denial to wearing a chastity device, and chastity piercing. "My sub or slave will wear what I tell him to, and only get sexual arousal when I permit it." For them it's a very powerful form of domination.
I think, and this is only my opinion, that for those men that enjoy crossdressing, finding a domme with the same interest is vital, and for the women that want a man in women's attire no matter to what degree, they believe that it is a power thing. It's part of a Total Power Exchange to make a man dress in traditional women's clothing to show her he is willing to submit to her in any form she chooses. Many want a man dressed in private frequently, and many want him to serve as her maid in full maid's attire, especially when he also takes over the household duties and chores. Let's put the blame for all the debate where it should go here, and that's with collarme. The choice of wording insures that this topic will be discussed on most ebery board, and in every way imaginable. "Forced Feminization" will bring out the debate of forcing a sub to do as he's told, whereas if it were just listed as "Feminization" or "Crossdressing" without the forced issue, we wouldn't have a whole lot to argue about here.
I don't ever peruse men's profiles on here, but i wonder if any dominant men list in their essay or interests that the female sub that is serving them will wear nothing but work boots, paint covered jeans, and a "Bubweiser" tee shirt for the rest of her life. I wold think that would be just as humiliating for her.
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