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Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/25/2008 4:25:20 PM   
Pantera31k


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Status: offline 		What are some good techniques to use when you're a dom/master who outright enjoys seeing the pleasure in another, but isn't submissive in any way.
Meaning you're still completely dominant in giving commands and training your sub, but get off on seeing your sub/pet/slave in pleasure.
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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/25/2008 4:39:29 PM   
lronitulstahp


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Status: offline 		Well i'm not a Dom or anything, but it seems to me, if you're the Dominant partner...any technique you use is ok.  There are no Dom or sub acts...just a mindset, in my opinion....

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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/25/2008 4:41:34 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		Mine does that. He makes it completely about me and how I feel. He is the dominant one ohboy is he ever   Physical acts aren't assigned, it doesn't mean if person X enjoys or gets off from sexual act 2 they are dominant or submissive.People like what they want and that doesn't influence what side of the crop you're on. I think I made a total mess of that.

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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/25/2008 4:46:54 PM   
PsyVamp


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

Well i'm not a Dom or anything, but it seems to me, if you're the Dominant partner...any technique you use is ok.  There are no Dom or sub acts...just a mindset, in my opinion....


Sounds like I've heard this before....

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Agreed... give pleasure however you wish, you're the Dom, make the decision to do it.
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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/25/2008 6:27:36 PM   
antipode


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Status: offline 		Huh? The sub/pet/slave isn't submissive in any way?

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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/25/2008 6:37:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Pantera31k

What are some good techniques to use when you're a dom/master who outright enjoys seeing the pleasure in another, but isn't submissive in any way.
Meaning you're still completely dominant in giving commands and training your sub, but get off on seeing your sub/pet/slave in pleasure.



If you want to see them in pleasure, do what gives them pleasure. It's the intent, not the action. What's the point in denying yourself something because it might be seen as submissive?

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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/25/2008 6:41:48 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		I love giving massages.  In fact, I just bought a new Tibetan-bowl-music CD specifically to have sound healing playing in the background.  Any woman who thinks that makes me an unDomly wuss can take her marbles and play with somebody else.

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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/25/2008 6:49:55 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		Why do you ask?

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RE: Pleasure Providing Dom's - 5/25/2008 7:44:21 PM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		my M'Lady enjoys my pleasing her. if your happiness is in pleasuring your sub than enjoy away your the Dom so you make the rules.

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RE: Pleasure Providing Dom's - 5/25/2008 7:53:12 PM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		From a slave's side, I love it when my Master makes me orgasm - whether online or in person.  He is not being submissive at all in that.  It just shows me that my enjoyment is His enjoyment.  Want to make your sub happy?  Give him/her an orgasm at your command.

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RE: Pleasure Providing Dom's - 5/25/2008 8:35:49 PM   
BondageBarbieX


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Status: offline 		i am considered a pleasure sub or a princess sub.i also enjoy sensual,pleasure and DaddyDoms best.i have no need for a sadist.You will find many submissives who like pleasure more than pain,we are out there.Good luck

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RE: Pleasure Providing Dom's - 5/25/2008 8:51:44 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Your biggest hurdle will be in finding a submissive who is comfortable giving authority over their own pleasure over- many subs find it very difficult to be the focus of receiving pleasure.

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RE: Pleasure Providing Dom's - 5/25/2008 8:51:44 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		I slice away the skin around their clitoris so that I can get to it easier with clothespins. 

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RE: Pleasure Providing Dom's - 5/25/2008 11:58:20 PM   
BikerDom4


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Status: offline 		As a Dom im a pleasure giver, I still take what I want when i want, but i get my pleasure from seeing the pleasure on her face , and seeing her body respond to my actions. I ve never had a problem with that and neither have my subs.... :)

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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/26/2008 2:19:01 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

Well i'm not a Dom or anything, but it seems to me, if you're the Dominant partner...any technique you use is ok.  There are no Dom or sub acts...just a mindset, in my opinion....


Sounds like I've heard this before....

*smiles*
Agreed... give pleasure however you wish, you're the Dom, make the decision to do it.
Lady Jag


Geeee... a Dom being in control and in charge of pleasure, can you imagine that one!  I thought we all were supposed be heatless sadist preoccupied with just ourselves and nothing more.  My self image has totally crumbled...  LOL 

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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/26/2008 7:14:00 AM   
SweetNika


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Status: offline 		Why would it make a dominante appear submissive if he likes to pleasure his property? I know many very dominant men who pride themselves on the ability to make their property squeel or curl their toes in pleasure.They aren't giving uptheir power or control in fact I think they are using their power and control for THEIR pleasure.
 
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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/26/2008 7:37:07 AM   
hopelessfool


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

I love giving massages.  In fact, I just bought a new Tibetan-bowl-music CD specifically to have sound healing playing in the background.  Any woman who thinks that makes me an unDomly wuss can take her marbles and play with somebody else.
Do you give those massages to only people your in a relationship or are they free for anyone to enjoy O.o?


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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/26/2008 8:24:55 AM   
SweetNika


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ORIGINAL: hopelessfool

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

I love giving massages.  In fact, I just bought a new Tibetan-bowl-music CD specifically to have sound healing playing in the background.  Any woman who thinks that makes me an unDomly wuss can take her marbles and play with somebody else.
Do you give those massages to only people your in a relationship or are they free for anyone to enjoy O.o?



hopeless,
I don't know about you but I sure could go for a massage right about now. -laughs-



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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/26/2008 8:58:38 AM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Don't you live a thousand miles away from me, hopeless?  I fly for dates and relationships.

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RE: Pleasure Providing Doms - 5/26/2008 9:20:16 AM   
InsaenPleasures


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Status: offline 		The giving of pleasure is also certainly a means to deepen the control one has over the sub or slave and that certainly is not a submissive act. 

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