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RE: Why do some ruin the experience for others? - 5/27/2008 4:07:38 PM

NakedHouseboySlv

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Just let it go and be thankful you did not get injured or worse.

My visiting Pro-Domme days are long over but you may want to use a site intended solely for Pro-Domme's to find one such as Max Fisch; not Collarme.

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RE: Why do some ruin the experience for others? - 5/27/2008 4:47:31 PM

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Hey, he told me he had a big penis, and though I suppose the shower could
have been cold, misrepresentation can happen on both sides of the bed you
know. Geeze, so quick to throw stones of judgement aren't we.

FYI, I didn't leave, I simply returned to the wrong room, and therein found
a big penis, so I stayed, is that so bad?

Just file your loss under charitable contributions on this years tax return.
That way, you, me, and Uncle Sam all get screwed on this one.

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RE: Why do some ruin the experience for others? - 5/29/2008 6:05:53 PM

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Look at the bright side. She could have come back in tied you up wet and naked to the bed, beat the shit out of you, taken all your money and left you there for someone to find....from that stand point loosing the money does not seem like such a bad thing after all!

Steponme: I was thinking of the same thing.

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RE: Why do some ruin the experience for others? - 5/29/2008 8:14:32 PM

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Sorry that happened to you. But you know what they say about a fool and his money....

What have you learned and what what will you do differently next time?

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RE: Why do some ruin the experience for others? - 5/31/2008 12:49:43 AM

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may i ask why not find someone you do not have to pay

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RE: Why do some ruin the experience for others? - 5/31/2008 8:25:54 AM

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mf4

may i ask why not find someone you do not have to pay

mons

The answer that follows next may or may not apply to this case..but in general:

Finding someone that doesn't charge takes commitment. It takes time..and if one is "chomping at the bit" to get a session on.. they find it easier to hire someone.

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RE: Why do some ruin the experience for others? - 6/1/2008 6:48:42 PM

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this does happen so many times a lesson is learnt i think
if money is be exchanged then do so at the end of a "training" session then you get what you pay for,or they leave without you been robbed,,,,

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RE: Why do some ruin the experience for others? - 6/1/2008 7:04:53 PM

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a professional does not do that, a professional is up front.

that was someone without the balls to be honest.

and as someone pro and lifestyle i would NEVER accept money after, only before.
you are asking them for a service and business, she should of brought her stuff in with her anyways...
a true professional Domme does not act as she did.

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RE: Why do some ruin the experience for others? - 6/3/2008 5:37:40 AM

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Two basic principles I have in BDSM.

The only way into a relationship is to give - be it a service, time, commitment, money, whatever. Nobody gets into a relationship here scot free.

The shorter the distance from first contact to first session the greater the risk and degree of vulnerability.

I can add a third - not everyone is who they claim to be.

Even a fourth. There is no hierarchy. Putting Goddess, Lady, Mistress before a name offers no guarantees, but in most cases is genuine. Irrespective of whether she's a professional or lifestyle, no Domme who is a Domme will ever allow you to compromise her reputation, and she certainly will never do anything to compromise it herself. Therefore any such compromise renders such a title meaningless.

Mistakes can be just as costly and lessons can be just as hard as anywhere else in life. But sometimes the wisdom learned from such lessons is worth far more than whatever money has been lost.

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RE: Why do some ruin the experience for others? - 6/3/2008 6:09:17 AM

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There's another way to handle this sort of situation.

Simply call the police and tell them you met this lady and that she rolled you at your hotel. Trust me, they've heard this sort of story before and often are personally acquainted with the local types who pull this sort of thing. Cops aren't stupid and they often are aware of who is up to what, they just don't always have the evidence for a conviction.. Separate the sexuality from this situation and what you are dealing with is a rather common bunko artist.

She rolled you. She's a criminal. It need not end in a conviction either. You don't have to sign the charges. If they know her it is just one more reason to keep tabs on her and if they don't, well they will after you call them and then they will begin looking into her activities more closely.

Tell the police the truth, they've heard it all before. Tell them you made a mistake and won't do it again. Tell them you feel glad you weren't injured by this person. They will lecture you, but the ball busting they give you will be nothing next to the one she catches from them......

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