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I am not just talking about the blatant ones like fifty year old balding overweight male looking only for slim woman in their early twenties, or the thirty-five year old divorced female with three young children looking for a man 35-45 without any children and never married.

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I am talking more along the lines of the profiles like “I expect my Dom to be able to read my mind at all times”

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then list 10+ flowery characteristics that Mother Teresa could not match or Dom’s who make list and demands that only a futuristic robot could do with no thought of the other persons needs and desires.

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To get to my question, I was reading the message board this morning and came across a reply that stated she stops all communication at the very first sign of something. This something to me was basically all human beings have and will eventually show. This started to make me think and was sad to think that something like this would prevent more communication.

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For people who are online now or before looking for your Dom or sub do you feel that your standards are much higher than they would be if you looking in person and why. I am not talking about jumping into a relationship but in terms of initial contact or conversations.

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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

My expectations are about the same, but then I never actively seek for relationships.

Reality has a way of thinning the crowd for you. Life will show each person soon enough whether their expectations will bear fruit.

Edited to add: And then they will come and post a thread on the board complaining about the emails they are/are not getting.

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ORIGINAL: xanderzzz

I met my sub online. One of our bonding conversations and several later fun conversations were discussing all the unrealistic profiles we have seen both for this lifestyle and vanilla personal sites.

I am not just talking about the blatant ones like fifty year old balding overweight male looking only for slim woman in their early twenties, or the thirty-five year old divorced female with three young children looking for a man 35-45 without any children and never married. I am talking more along the lines of the profiles like “I expect my Dom to be able to read my mind at all times” then list 10+ flowery characteristics that Mother Teresa could not match or Dom’s who make list and demands that only a futuristic robot could do with no thought of the other persons needs and desires.

To get to my question, I was reading the message board this morning and came across a reply that stated she stops all communication at the very first sign of something. This something to me was basically all human beings have and will eventually show. This started to make me think and was sad to think that something like this would prevent more communication.

For people who are online now or before looking for your Dom or sub do you feel that your standards are much higher than they would be if you looking in person and why. I am not talking about jumping into a relationship but in terms of initial contact or conversations.

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ORIGINAL: xanderzzz

I met my sub online. One of our bonding conversations and several later fun conversations were discussing all the unrealistic profiles we have seen both for this lifestyle and vanilla personal sites.

I am not just talking about the blatant ones like fifty year old balding overweight male looking only for slim woman in their early twenties, or the thirty-five year old divorced female with three young children looking for a man 35-45 without any children and never married. I am talking more along the lines of the profiles like “I expect my Dom to be able to read my mind at all times” then list 10+ flowery characteristics that Mother Teresa could not match or Dom’s who make list and demands that only a futuristic robot could do with no thought of the other persons needs and desires.

To get to my question, I was reading the message board this morning and came across a reply that stated she stops all communication at the very first sign of something. This something to me was basically all human beings have and will eventually show. This started to make me think and was sad to think that something like this would prevent more communication.

For people who are online now or before looking for your Dom or sub do you feel that your standards are much higher than they would be if you looking in person and why. I am not talking about jumping into a relationship but in terms of initial contact or conversations.

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ORIGINAL: xanderzzz

I met my sub online. One of our bonding conversations and several later fun conversations were discussing all the unrealistic profiles we have seen both for this lifestyle and vanilla personal sites.

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ORIGINAL: frenchpet
It's the online syndrome...

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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

PS go read the entire sentance/thought-

i also stated i did not mean that they weren't empathetic or cried when their moms died----------to me that isnt weakness!!!

so yes all will show that at sometime in their lives,lolol,,,,,,,,, my how you did misconstrue

their authority over me.period end of story--such a simple thing........shakes head as she goes for my coffee

have a good day and please dont presume to know what was going on in the op's head

just like i'll feel foolish ,if u didnt mean my post , but w/ the kick in the gut i took when reading, i'ld say u ment mine,lol.l

utopia my rear

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ORIGINAL: Kasia

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ORIGINAL: frenchpet
It's the online syndrome...

One more syndrome? This board is starting to sound like Medical Encyclopedia.

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ORIGINAL: xanderzzz

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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

PS go read the entire sentance/thought-

i also stated i did not mean that they weren't empathetic or cried when their moms died----------to me that isnt weakness!!!

so yes all will show that at sometime in their lives,lolol,,,,,,,,, my how you did misconstrue

their authority over me.period end of story--such a simple thing........shakes head as she goes for my coffee

have a good day and please dont presume to know what was going on in the op's head

just like i'll feel foolish ,if u didnt mean my post , but w/ the kick in the gut i took when reading, i'ld say u ment mine,lol.l

utopia my rear

Well lets see...

1) I went back and found the post I was refering to. It was not you!
2) It was a small part of the post.
3) The post was for a general question how everybody treats online comunication. Not "look how crazy this woman is".

There was no rant in the post. No calling out someone. No wondering why women are not swamping me with messages. Just an observation and asking for any input.

Get over yourself and do not assume.